Feminist until you get married ? - Page 19

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

If adding husbands name, wearing sindoor, mangal sutra, chuda are things that feminists actually love and adorn at the first go as the identity of a married woman, why brainwash the entire young generation of girls against it? Why brand them as tools of oppression? Amazed !!!!

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

OK. Let me answer this. I am a feminist blogger.

Feminism isn't about hating men or not including them.

Feminism is about letting a woman have her own choice. It's about me being able to do what I want without being treated as a second class citizen.

If i want to be a housewife, then I can.

This is feminism.

I don't want to be a stay at home mom and want to have a career. Then I can. This is also feminism..

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

yes, but why other so-called feminist female imposed her view on others when she taking fast for her husband or tie rakhi on her brother's hands.

To do these things make them less female?

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

OK. Let me answer this. I am a feminist blogger.

Feminism isn't about hating men or not including them.

Feminism is about letting a woman have her own choice. It's about me being able to do what I want without being treated as a second class citizen.

If i want to be a housewife, then I can.

This is feminism.

I don't want to be a stay at home mom and want to have a career. Then I can. This is also feminism..

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

That's what I said.

Having a choice to do what u want is feminism.

U don't want to keep fast for your husband? Absolutely fine, don't keep. That's feminism.

You want to keep fast for him ? Even thats cool. Even that's feminism.

Having a choice to do what u want without thinking about society or Log kya kahenge is FEMINISM

Originally posted by: Zeal17

If name is the measure of feminism

Neha Dhupia named her daughter Mehr Dhupia Bedi. Not just Mehr Bedi. True feminist

Originally posted by: GetbusyLiving

isn't feminism about choice too...if she;s doing it out of free will then what is the harm in it?

Originally posted by: BirdieNumNum

lol kuch bhi... thats as random as it gets 😉.😆

Originally posted by: BirdieNumNum

your definition of feminism is real convenient. 😆

By your definition, you could be sucking up to a guy out of your choice and say you're a feminist. But that's not how it works. A real feminist will CHOOSE to not suck up to the guy. See the difference?

another example is of a female waiting at home all day for the husband, taking off his shoes when he returns and slipping his chappals on his feet. She might be doing all that ghar grihasti stuff out of choice, but that dont make her a feminist. it just makes her a gharelu behenji kind of wife. Got to look at the whole picture you know😆