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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do consider suicide to be selfish .. however , at the same time , i absolutely detest the lack of sensitivity & support regarding emotional/mental health ..


The people who have been through dark times themselves , came close to committing suicide but turned away from it for all the right reasons - such people , i consider them to be the epitome of "selfless" ..What stops them is the thought of their loved ones .. the thought that your life is not your's alone .. our actions affects others .. killing ourselves will probably suffice to end our own misery but what about the trail of misery we leave behind for our loved ones ? .. you would rather suffer , live through the worst without knowing what kind of relief awaits you in the future or if there is any relief at all , than put your loved ones through misery on account of your actions .. such people , i hold in very high regard , words do not suffice to express how much i respect & adore such people as fellow human beings .. its no easy task ,, when you are surrounded by darkness , all sorts of things starts playing in with your mind , even the thought that your loved ones should be better off without you in their lives since you are giving them nothing but pain & misery also start playing with your mind , but it takes a miraculous clarity to see how wrong you were , ending your life wont relive your loved ones from their misery but will only add up to it .. so the only option left is to " Fight the battle" .. fight as long as you can , do your part & let things take their own course .. and when you are out of the tunnel , its blissful .. it ought to be ..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Lord.of.Light_

I do consider suicide to be selfish .. however , at the same time , i absolutely detest the lack of sensitivity & support regarding emotional/mental health ..



The people who have been through dark times themselves , came close to committing suicide but turned away from it for all the right reasons - such people , i consider them to be the epitome of "selfless" ..What stops them is the thought of their loved ones .. the thought that your life is not your's alone .. our actions affects others .. killing ourselves will probably suffice to end our own misery but what about the trail of misery we leave behind for our loved ones ? .. you would rather suffer , live through the worst without knowing what kind of relief awaits you in the future or if there is any relief at all , than put your loved ones through misery on account of your actions .. such people , i hold in very high regard , words do not suffice to express how much i respect & adore such people as fellow human beings .. its no easy task ,, when you are surrounded by darkness , all sorts of things starts playing in with your mind , even the thought that your loved ones should be better off without you in their lives since you are giving them nothing but pain & misery also start playing with your mind , but it takes a miraculous clarity to see how wrong you were , ending your life wont relive your loved ones from their misery but will only add up to it .. so the only option left is to " Fight the battle" .. fight as long as you can , do your part & let things take their own course .. and when you are out of the tunnel , its blissful .. it ought to be ..


Ditto Feels! Like the person isn't in senses so it isn't a selfish act but not letting the inner monster to take your life for your love for your loved ones is called selflessness.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@minoch: That's true. Somehow if these middlemen are extracted through our agricultural system, farmers would be able to deal with buyers directly which could in turn cut inflation to some extent. That would be a win-win for both, Farmers and Consumers.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --MinOch--

If the person loves you truly then he/she wouldn't support you for doing suicide. The person loves you enough than the love to be the reason of your death. Don't ashame the lover of your love. Love is pure so don't let it to be the reason of something like suicide. And Love is all about sacrifice, suicide is not sacrifice. Living for the other person without letting your love to be blamed is sacrifice.


Is it making any sense to anyone or is it only me 😕 😔

@ Qwert- What good cause is possibly being served?
@ Minoch- Too many tongue twisters there. Could you simplify it a bit ---

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: zorrro


Is it making any sense to anyone or is it only me 😕 😔

@ Qwert- What good cause is possibly being served?
@ Minoch- Too many tongue twisters there. Could you simplify it a bit ---

@orange : She meant dying for love is a good cause.😆

I meant@1st bold: The person you love if loves you truly then the person would never want the love to be the reason of the person's death who suicided. Don't shame the person you love to get blame that their love is the cause of the suicide.

@2nd bold : I meant agar kisis sai pyaar karte ho toh uske liye marna is not sacrifice but not getting the person you love and dusro kai liye jeena is sacrifice.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaddy25

@minoch: That's true. Somehow if these middlemen are extracted through our agricultural system, farmers would be able to deal with buyers directly which could in turn cut inflation to some extent. That would be a win-win for both, Farmers and Consumers.

Yeah. Definitely they would bee needed much transport but the facilities they will get would be worth. If they loose 80% with the middlemen, they will get 40% more that what they were getting before.

Actually people do have great minds, but we say "Ek karega toh sab karenge" yeh sab kehne ki baat hai. In practical life, we need a team, a unit, every single person from that unit to work accord to the person who is giving guidance.

Right now most youth doesn't think of such things, and those sensible person who do are called fools and the society norms about your life in danger or so called *not work for girls or higher classes*, these norms/thinking of the society isn't letting the country to progress. Kayi baar sahi bhi hota hai lile those people with evil minds, are the reason why people think so. But jab tak experiment karenge nahi toh koi aage nahi badh sakta.

We need to get ourselves adapt in 21st century somewhere. We will have to take risks.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Life is a beautiful gift of God. If we cant live it with full justice tgen ww dont have right to end it as in good n bads are part of life. After all sorrows there is a joy n vice versa.
Ending life isnt a solution as in if you cant respect your own life then how will you respect other's life
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --MinOch--

@orange : She meant dying for love is a good cause.😆

I meant@1st bold: The person you love if loves you truly then the person would never want the love to be the reason of the person's death who suicided. Don't shame the person you love to get blame that their love is the cause of the suicide.

@2nd bold : I meant agar kisis sai pyaar karte ho toh uske liye marna is not sacrifice but not getting the person you love and dusro kai liye jeena is sacrifice.


but why do you even have to die in the first place just because you love someone? 😲 😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: zorrro


but why do you even have to die in the first place just because you love someone? 😲 😕


Because they are stubborn and doesn't care about respecting their values. Is is so absurd and lunatic thing to do that to get away from the feeling of seperation they end their life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --MinOch--


Because they are stubborn and doesn't care about respecting their values. Is is so absurd and lunatic thing to do that to get away from the feeling of seperation they end their life.


then they are dying due to separation or LACK of love and NOT BECAUSE of love so why quote or blame love as the reason for their suicide 😛 Either they get what they want or they wont live at all--- thats being obstinate to the point of stupidity and nothing to do with love. Watch too many TV soaps or bollywood movies and this is what happens 😆


Don't know why Qwerty sees that as dying for a great cause 😛
Edited by zorrro - 9 years ago

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