Originally posted by: return_to_hades
If you tell someone "Your religion is inherently evil. To make things better you have to give it up." Then no matter how good they are, no matter how much they want to make a difference, no matter how much they want to make progressive changes ' they will give up and revert back. For a majority of humans it is virtually impossible to give up an identity they subscribed to from birth. They also succumb to the self fulfilling prophecy.
If you tell someone "Your religion is misdirected. We can work together to make it better for everyone". Then no matter how brainwashed they are, no matter how much hatred they harbor, no matter how fixed their world views ' they will show at least a miniscule interest in the opposing views. People are more receptive to change when they are assured the ability to hold onto something.
Once a person adapts rational and moral thought processes they steer away from harsh views towards moderate and liberal views. Eventually, they may discard religion altogether. But if step one is discarding a religion because it is inherently evil, majority of humans will not even give rational and moral thought process a chance. In an idea world there would be no religion. However, religion is very much a fact and majority of people cling to it dearly. We have to empathize with that if we wish to have people give rational and moral thought outside of religion a chance.
Not to pick up a fight, but a general observation of mine on the situation you mention. 😊 I myself am a fan of making small changes which changes the big picture gradually, and ideally it should work, but I have experienced something different in this case.
I think people consider religion to be something that cannot be changed. You don't even get to why, it just cannot. I come from a Hindu family, so I can only talk about that. My family and friends will agree about the absurdity of some stories. There are countless examples, but when seen logically some seem laughable. And some characters are not as perfect as they are made out to be. When I point that out, I would clearly see a look that is nearly equal to them agreeing. But then they will discard the analysis with a look of confusion, as if they are having some inner turmoil. I see that people find it easy to not question in the case of religion, because maybe they can't defend the dogmas even to themselves.
Same is the condition with rituals. They agree there is no logic behind it. But they will do it nevertheless. It's like something that has been with us for so long that people associate it with their identity. Losing it will be as if someone took out a part of them. They would keep logic at back seat and will follow unquestioningly. They will say we are not smart enough to question God. Different people have different reasons. Maybe someone was a big devotee and can't come to face the fact that it was all a lie. Some people keep God beyond logic and so on. But whatever the reason, this hinders rational thinking. People will agree that it doesn't sound rational but will do it anyway. That second part is what makes modification difficult if not impossible.
I would have been happy if people took changes step by step. But that's not what I have been seeing in the field of religion. People either cling to it, or when they give preference to their own thoughts they discard it completely. I don't see people following the middle ground, at least not many people. 😊