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seoulbeats

@seoulbeats

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Freethinker112

Well you may call it self improvement, but I believe the drive to survive stems from our love for ourselves. So, let's agree to disagree.

BTW, why so harsh on yourself? Which of your actions was so wrong that you have stopped loving yourself?

Not something wild. I am generally an easy going person but I tend to get hyper sometimes and then I invariably say harsh things...half of them I don't even mean but it hurts people. I have to stop that...If only I knew how.

Okay, okay. I haven't done something morally wrong or of huge consequence but it's the little instances like the one that I mentioned above that get me.

So I never even started loving myself...It's not as bad as it sounds, I swear.But I'll get there one day. The place where I am satisfied with what I am :-)

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Freethinker112

@Freethinker112

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: seoulbeats
Not something wild. I am generally an easy going person but I tend to get hyper sometimes and then I invariably say harsh things...half of them I don't even mean but it hurts people. I have to stop that...If only I knew how.

I too have the same problem. I inherit from my dad's side. When he gets angry, he is like uncontrollable. I am also like that, even small matters will upset me and I will get that rage and will want to pour out hate. What I did first was to accept and want to improve. Whenever I say my father angry, I thought about how I had behaved when I was angry. Now, whenever I get angry, I recall that and mentally repeat that i don't have to behave like an animal. It works and I have brought down my level down to just 20%. I still get angry at people when important things go wrong, but I am still working on that.

Originally posted by: seoulbeats
Okay, okay. I haven't done so
So I never even started loving myself...It's not as bad as it sounds, I swear.But I'll get there one day. The place where I am satisfied with what I am :-)

I wish you get their soon. (and no, no one will now queue my dua for granting. 😉 😆)

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seoulbeats

@seoulbeats

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

@Freethinker112- Thanks for the advice. I'll try and state the things that I believe more coolly. And thanks for the dua as well. Yeah I think that the one percent might just work this time! :-D

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Sharmila

@ongongong

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil
YESSS. It does exist! (no personal experience, but still )

What my parents have between them is love. ❤️ I witnessed it, and I believe in it.

I'd like to say that... people will love many people. It must not be confused with the love, where two souls meet. Where, in a relationship, two people make a soul spiritual connection that they literally become devoted to each other. Their love for each other grows by each passing day too. THIS is a completely different thing which only very few people experience I think.

Rest all, disappear with time. Take any couple that doesnt have a soul-to-soul connection... their 'love' vanishes with time. Atleast, from what I have seen outside, there are very few couples like the type I mentioned earlier.

There's nothing as first love, second love. Love is love. Love is love, also if it lasts. If one is able to get over the love, as in, if it disappears within you - it isnt 'love' ... it's just a crush, caused due to your harmones and adolscent psych or simply, infatuation. Difference is, some people are infatuated for a longer time... that's all. But when one makes a soul connection, he'll know it. Like I said, it'll be spiritual, divine, godly, transcending, etc. The love becomes devotion. He'll not have any more infatuations or it wont disappear , but it grows with time.. "it" is the love.

The first person is always remembered because, the crush was something new to you! Your emotions were new, they were raw, full of innocence and they also peaked...as the number of your crushes increase, you are only used to it, and are well acquainted with it. (it here is your romantic emotions, feelings)

Just like how, while your learning to ride a bike... your first accident will be the MOST memorable! 😆 ..infact, you'll never be able to forget it for your life 😆

On a side note --- People should prioritize other things that ACTUALLY need their attention - career, personality development, family, shopping, etc. If it didnt work out, it didnt! Pick yourself up, and start living in the present. Love and all is a part of life, afterall.

Very true...completely agree!

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Vintage.Wine

@Vintage.Wine

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

@ TM 😛

Aww ..Hahaa ..LOVE does exist ...Lovely ME is the living proof of that ☺️ I have fallen and risen in LOVE many more times than the number of minutes I have spent on the face of this world 😛

Love is as Hereditary in my family as the Death 😆 ..

I lll prove ya wrong if you say LOVE doesn't exist ..Do you LOVE me ? TM ? 😆 Hahaha ..And if you say NO I DON'T LOVE YOU ..that would still mean LOVE exists ..You can't deny something ..Even a feeling that doesn't exist .. 😛

Yeah ..That's the whole cranky point ...Its hardly a point though ...😆 Alright I ll quit here .its time to fall in LOVE again 😛

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Ankithate

@Ankithate

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Vintage.Wine

@ TM 😛

Aww ..Hahaa ..LOVE does exist ...Lovely ME is the living proof of that ☺️ I have fallen and risen in LOVE many more times than the number of minutes I have spent on the face of this world 😛
Love is as Hereditary in my family as the Death 😆 ..

I lll prove ya wrong if you say LOVE doesn't exist ..Do you LOVE me ? TM ? 😆 Hahaha ..And if you say NO I DON'T LOVE YOU ..that would still mean LOVE exists ..You can't deny something ..Even a feeling that doesn't exist .. 😛

Yeah ..That's the whole cranky point ...Its hardly a point though ...😆 Alright I ll quit here .its time to fall in LOVE again 😛

Agree ,
even if i say I Dont Love You !
Love Is Still There In My Statement 😆
So Love Do Exist .

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Sara singh

@sarasingh86

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

what is Love ? It is just infatuation or something very deep . Is it about connection with person or its just attraction toward unknown😕. I have no experience. But when i see around i feel - "Its not like the movies" . It requires lot of patience, unconditional support and accepting others with flaws. Its about when life sees ups n downs, you still stick together So talking about if love exist, it do exist but not like the movies...or may be somewhere such love exist...its to complex and depends what definition one has for love

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Mast_katrina

@Mast_katrina

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Vintage.Wine

@ TM 😛

Aww ..Hahaa ..LOVE does exist ...Lovely ME is the living proof of that ☺️ I have fallen and risen in LOVE many more times than the number of minutes I have spent on the face of this world 😛
Love is as Hereditary in my family as the Death 😆 ..

I lll prove ya wrong if you say LOVE doesn't exist ..Do you LOVE me ? TM ? 😆 Hahaha ..And if you say NO I DON'T LOVE YOU ..that would still mean LOVE exists ..You can't deny something ..Even a feeling that doesn't exist .. 😛

Yeah ..That's the whole cranky point ...Its hardly a point though ...😆 Alright I ll quit here .its time to fall in LOVE again 😛

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Mast_katrina

@Mast_katrina

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: sarasingh86
what is Love ? It is just infatuation or something very deep . Is it about connection with person or its just attraction toward unknown😕. I have no experience. But when i see around i feel - "Its not like the movies" . It requires lot of patience, unconditional support and accepting others with flaws. Its about when life sees ups n downs, you still stick together So talking about if love exist, it do exist but not like the movies...or may be somewhere such love exist...its to complex and depends what definition one has for love

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Edited by Mast_katrina - 12 years ago

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Vintage.Wine

@Vintage.Wine

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: sarasingh86
what is Love ? It is just infatuation or something very deep . Is it about connection with person or its just attraction toward unknown😕. I have no experience. But when i see around i feel - "Its not like the movies" . It requires lot of patience, unconditional support and accepting others with flaws. Its about when life sees ups n downs, you still stick together So talking about if love exist, it do exist but not like the movies...or may be somewhere such love exist...its to complex and depends what definition one has for love

Sara 😊

Nice thinking ridgy didge! ..😊

Pretty abstruse the LOVE is ..huh! ..Sometimes I think the chemistry is to be blamed here..the
chemicals that flow in one's brains that make em believe they LOVE someone ...someone who is actually pretty ordinary but still seems like the most amazing person under the SUN ..😆

But what the hell causes one to FALL in LOVE ? FALL ? Hahahaha.. Is Gravity to be blamed here? Gravity causes all falls...Yeah..Sir Newton Said so ...But I bet Gravity ain't responsible for people FALLING in LOVE ...Do you agree? ..Haha I bet you do 😆 WOW 😃..Did I just prove Sir Newton wrong ? ☺️ ..Hahaha..Aww.. I knew it ..I knew I could do so one day ..All thanks to you for your POST ..We just made history here 🥳 ..Congratulations to us..

True that ..Its all about experiencing things .Even those things that don't exist ..😆
Its high time you acquired some experience..Are you prepared for that ? Just Fall in LOVE I say.. 😃 The LOVE is missing you 😛