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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: P1nk

2012 ko duniya khatam ho jaogah phir bhar mein gaya sara love ka bemari



haha...letc we all live or not?😉😆
love traps the calender or not?😃

BTW guys, does anyone know till which month of 2012 this was predicted?a lil' curious to know😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It is endearing when two people fall in true love, which is beyond their thinking capacity.
if love is an emotion that prompts the couple to measure the consequences of the relationship then it is convinient love. like a person sees if the religion and caste are same, age is suitable, career is secure, height is ok.
if after a while they realise they werent meant to be due to the obstacles they face later on, then that was never true love. so the question of what kind of love it was doesnt arise for them. if they were practical it would have saved a heartbreak, but still it would have never been love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavyasam

It is endearing when two people fall in true love, which is beyond their thinking capacity.

if love is an emotion that prompts the couple to measure the consequences of the relationship then it is convinient love. like a person sees if the religion and caste are same, age is suitable, career is secure, height is ok.
if after a while they realise they werent meant to be due to the obstacles they face later on, then that was never true love. so the question of what kind of love it was doesnt arise for them. if they were practical it would have saved a heartbreak, but still it would have never been love.



that's true ... i agree with you

yaar yeh love-shove sab bohat hi confusing feelings hain...!!
pata nahi kya sahi hota hai ... kya nahi!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well for me love is beautiful relation it is not just for the boys or girls. This love is moslty flirt i think but love too exist in many forms like love between parents, siblings, cousins , friends etc as far this love is concerend in my opinion only true love exist in marriage..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: be-happy-always

not yet got into into this kinda feeling but yes, scared for getting into this...
may be someone rightly said, love just happens when it has to happen!


one of my friend's logic is not to fall in love till ur elders fix up ur marriage...coz atleast there are no risks involved - like making elders ready for what children want!! - at first i didn't know how to react but was kinda😕




Easier said than done these days but perhaps one should be mature enough before falling in love.
Ah Love needs to be examined and analysed too.
Puppy Love, passion, lust, fancy flirt, admiration, worship, respect, ulterior move, marriage, money, passport to get away, looking for a slave,etc
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Summer3


Easier said than done these days but perhaps one should be mature enough before falling on love.
Ah Love needs to be examined and analysed too.
Puppy Love, passion, lust, fancy flirt, admiration, worship, respect, ulterior move, marriage, money, passport to get away, looking for a slave,etc



absolutely agree with u
one should really be mature enough to understand the other person's mental compatibility with one's self...

i heard this line in a reality show...dont remember which one...,' when u see someone n after spending some time with him/her, if u are able to imagine that u wanna be with him/her in ur old age also n see ur lovely life till the end with him/her only...may be that's the one for you!'

well, being far sighted is good enough but in that case again, all kindza pros n cons can be understood only if we r mature enough to think that way!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Perhaps life partners are fated in some cases.
But do not give your heart to someone too easily. Know the person well before and also his or her family and friends.
I have seen two persons who were basically engaged or together for a long time suddenly breakup.
Someone posted she was a prisoner of a marriage in Russia! Gosh!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Summer3

Perhaps life partners are fated in some cases.
But do not give your heart to someone too easily. Know the person well before and also his or her family and friends.
I have seen two persons who were basically engaged or together for a long time suddenly breakup.
Someone posted she was a prisoner of a marriage in Russia! Gosh!



goodness! that was painful!
well, i don't really know if i believe in destiny but kinda yes also...
i feel there is someone in everybody's life whom we all hold close to our heart(may be in imagination) ; it's just when the 'right time' comes, we meet him/her...n then, nothing can stop you from loving that person!


Originally posted by: asru

Love is a complicated thing! Ur senses don't work when u fall in love..and when u enter into practicality ,u begin to wonder how u could be so stupid?? When u begin to wonder that u've been stupid, then what u've been through is infactuation..and when u r just happy being stupid till u die , then it could be called Love... maybe? not sure tho!! Not sure if i ever loved someone!!😳



I think almost everybody has small or big crushes on somebody (may that be a celebrity, a colleague , a friend, a teacher or even someone whom we never even met before!)
These crushes are just some
But some people easily get influenced by romantic movies or books...n without thinking they commit what they actually realized was wrong later in life! You could have made the right choice if you were mature enough n then, u cannot hurt ur partners feelings...n ofcourse you should not!
coz someone aptly said:

"Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea what so ever"

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: be-happy-always



goodness! that was painful!
well, i don't really know if i believe in destiny but kinda yes also...
i feel there is someone in everybody's life whom we all hold close to our heart(may be in imagination) ; it's just when the 'right time' comes, we meet him/her...n then, nothing can stop you from loving that person!

Sometimes the deeper we love the more vulnerable we become.
But loving does not mean we suffocate someone to death, because, they need some breathing space too. How much and in what form is another question.
But it is always better to have loved and lost rather than never loved at all.

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