Arange Marriages

What do you guys think about arrange marriges? i think they are dumb! i know a lot of ppl who ruined there life because their husband was bad. well u know..theres some1 out there for EVERY1 no matter WHAT!! their is some1..ur veiws?

Totally agree with you it is dumb idea to do arrange marriages. People just pretend to be happy

Originally posted by: Sharila

Totally agree with you it is dumb idea to do arrange marriages. People just pretend to be happy

exactly...wen they r acting sad,..a marriage is based on love/trust...if u dont have tht then its not a marriage..**my opinion**

Originally posted by: Angad'z Lover

exactly...wen they r acting sad,..a marriage is based on love/trust...if u dont have tht then its not a marriage..**my opinion**

Its like we do arrange marriages to make our parents happy which is so sad than we are not happy. How could we do that to our kids I dont understand. Let them fall in love and have that experiecnce to be in love, and figure out their own way

Originally posted by: Sharila

Its like we do arrange marriages to make our parents happy which is so sad than we are not happy. How could we do that to our kids I dont understand. Let them fall in love and have that experiecnce to be in love, and figure out their own way

exaxtly!!we get forced into it!and den end up miserable!

Originally posted by: Sharila

Its like we do arrange marriages to make our parents happy which is so sad than we are not happy. How could we do that to our kids I dont understand. Let them fall in love and have that experiecnce to be in love, and figure out their own way

Sorry ...i wont agree with u...😕

in india , 90% arrange marriages happening, and i think its our tradition and custom, in US i think no value for marriages, bt in india we respect our elders and our traditions (if it any religion), now days arrage marriages only happen after the boy and girls meet and talk each other if they like each other then only the other formaility.in love marriage expectation is so high,sometime after marriage if u expect something if it not get the probs begins there......& our parents not our enemy's they think always good of thier childrens.........Be a Proud indian i like indian traditions...

Originally posted by: Angad'z Lover

exaxtly!!we get forced into it!and den end up miserable!

Yup, as in our Bhagvat Gita Lord Krishna said "KE SHASTRA NAARI KO YEH ADHIKAAR DETA HAI KI WOH APNA PATI KHUD CHUNE" but seems like our elders forgot that one. That is why we had SWAMVAR in olden days

Originally posted by: Believe

Sorry ...i wont agree with u...😕

in india , 90% arrange marriages happening, and i think its our tradition and custom, in US i think no value for marriages, bt in india we respect our elders and our traditions (if it any religion), now days arrage marriages only happen after the boy and girls meet and talk each other if they like each other then only the other formaility.in love marriage expectation is so high,sometime after marriage if u expect something if it not get the probs begins there......& our parents not our enemy's they think always good of thier childrens.........Be a Proud indian i like indian traditions...

i am proud..ofcourse it will be 90% but i bet u 80% of them r miserable!!

its not bad..but i wud want a love marriage....
😉 😛

Originally posted by: Believe

Sorry ...i wont agree with u...😕

in india , 90% arrange marriages happening, and i think its our tradition and custom, in US i think no value for marriages, bt in india we respect our elders and our traditions (if it any religion), now days arrage marriages only happen after the boy and girls meet and talk each other if they like each other then only the other formaility.in love marriage expectation is so high,sometime after marriage if u expect something if it not get the probs begins there......& our parents not our enemy's they think always good of thier childrens.........Be a Proud indian i like indian traditions...

I follow as my Lord Krishna said in Bhagvat Gita, seems like some people need to go back and read that. Elders are ok but lord is bigger