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Do you like other to interfere in your life and ruin privacy?

Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

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Posted: 15 years ago

Is it right to interfere in someones personal life even if she/he doesn't want?Say you have some good advices for your friend/relative but they don't want to take your advices.Will you still force themselves to listen to you?If someone interfers in your life and tries to ruin your privacy will you accept it?Do you feel that every person has the right to have some private moments?Is it right to enter in to someones private life without permission?And if you want to hide some of your private things from a person,does it imply that you do not love the person and do not value him/her.Is it necessary to share evrything with our loved ones?If a person doesn't like interference,does that mean he/she is abnormal?

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Bankim Chandra Chaterjee

@mr.ass

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Posted: 15 years ago

no, I hate it. It is a well known fact that Men are the least interfering people.

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tulipbaby53

@tulipbaby53

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Posted: 15 years ago

No, I do not like it when people interfere in my life, and I think I should respect the same wish of others. I will give them my advice and tell them how strongly I feel about it, but I would not interfere into their lives. Maybe if I thought by their lack of concern could cause them some damage or hurt others, then I MIGHT interfere, but I don't think I would unless if it was a severe situation. Overall I believe people have to learn their lessons on their own, and we can only suggest to them what we think. They ultimately know what is best for them, and if they don't, well, I guess they will learn.

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200467

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Is it right to interfere in someones personal life even if she/he doesn't want?

Depends on one's relation to that person and the context. If it's someone I care about and they sound depressed or dejected or hateful, you bet I'd talk to them.

Say you have some good advices for your friend/relative but they don't want to take your advices.Will you still force themselves to listen to you?

I will do my duty and leave the rest on them. We can only take a horse to the water, we can't force him to drink. I will not be upset if my advice is rejected outrightly. Depending upon the situation and my relationship with them, I may still pester or leave them alone.

If someone interfers in your life and tries to ruin your privacy will you accept it?

Again, depends on their relationship with me and the situation. Sometimes, we all can use a word or two of advice. It helps putting things in perspective. I amy like to think that I have seen it all and I know it all but that is not the case always.

Do you feel that every person has the right to have some private moments?

Yes. Provided they are in right frame of mind and not hell bent on hurting themselves or those around them.

Is it right to enter in to someones private life without permission?

Again, it depends.

And if you want to hide some of your private things from a person,does it imply that you do not love the person and do not value him/her?

No. It does not imply you do not love or care for them. You may just think that they are not ready to receive that piece of information currently.

Is it necessary to share evrything with our loved ones?

Nope. Somethings are best left unsaid/unshared as long as one doesn't form a habit of getting indulged in those things.

If a person doesn't like interference,does that mean he/she is abnormal?

Nope. They are just being human.

We need a third option - Depends on the situation.

Additionally, a situation would help putting your queries in perspective. What caused you to make this thread and seek our opinion? That way, we can express our thoughts specific to that particular situation rather than speaking generically.

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hindu4lyf

@hindu4lyf

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Posted: 15 years ago

^You pretty much said what I was about to say.

I don't think anyone would like it if people start interfering in their lives would they? But sometimes, it's necessary to interfere. If you know someone and their life would be in danger, or if you think they are about to make a wrong step, then sometimes simply 'advising' them isn't enough. Everyone deserves a bit of privacy but there are always exceptional cases. But like mentioned above, sometimes they just have to learn the hard way.

I try my best not to interfere in other people's business but I think there have been one/two instances in the past where I couldn't help but get more involved than I should have. I learnt my lesson though and now I know not to bother with certain people, especially if your advice is taken the wrong way.

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debo...:D

@leeseunggilove

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

nope its horrid if someone interefers in my business!

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Aisha

@MOTHERHOOD

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 15 years ago

I absolutely hate interference.Yes my mom sometimes interfere in my life but she never forces me to do anything.She tells whatever she feels is right and I do whatever I feel is right.And at the end of the day she always supports me.I feel every person should understand this simple thing that God has given everyone of us a separate life and we have to live our life and we have to suffer for our mistakes also.So it is not right to interfere in someones life.Yes if someones life is in danger we can talk to them but we have to remember that the last decision will be taken by them.They will suffer if they are wrong.But we can not let anyone suffer for our interference in her/his life.

Privacy is a basic right of every human.Even a mother does not share everything with her child that doesn't mean she does not love him.It is just her own secret.If I love someone that doesn't mean I have to tell him/her everything.It is just that it is not the right for revealing such things.

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catch22

@sentimentalfool

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Is it right to interfere in someones personal life even if she/he doesn't want?
Interfere once and then interfere twice, after that if the person doesn't like interference and you still go on doing that, then it's not right. If the other person (loved one) really wants the best for you, they'll understand and let you be.
Say you have some good advices for your friend/relative but they don't want to take your advices.Will you still force themselves to listen to you?
No, I'll not force them to listen to me. My job was to give the advice a few times, it's completely upto the other person if they wanna take it. It's my belief that no one can force another person to do something they don't want to - until they do it out of their own inner understanding. Until, then whatever changes you see in the other person because you 'forced' them, are only temporary.
If someone interfers in your life and tries to ruin your privacy will you accept it?
No. I am, by nature, a very private person. I only like my one/two close friends and family to know personal details about me.
Do you feel that every person has the right to have some private moments?
Yes, totally. It depends on their personality - some like being gregarious, some like keeping to themselves. Two different approaches, that's it.
Is it right to enter in to someones private life without permission?
Now this depends on the situation. If your loved one is hiding something that is detrimental like say an addiction/suicidal thoughts etc. then it become necessary for the person who cares for you to interfere. In such cases, it becomes necessary to interfere. But in minor things, it's okay I guess. Also it depends on the kind of relationship two people share. There are personal relationships and professional relationships. There are close friends and there are acquiantances. Your boundaries with a person depend on what they have shared as well.
And if you want to hide some of your private things from a person,does it imply that you do not love the person and do not value him/her.
Not at all! Just because you can't tell them certain details about yourself doesn't mean you don't love them. :S No one can be honest with everyone. We have people who we are comfortable with and some that we are not comfortable with. It has nothing to with love - again depends on the nature of the relationship.
Is it necessary to share evrything with our loved ones?If a person doesn't like interference,does that mean he/she is abnormal?

No, of couse it's not necessary, they're very much normal. But it would be my suggestion to that person that at least they share their problems with someone - even if it's one person - who is close and trustworthy (like parents or grandma). Cos I guess it's good to talk things out. :)

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Debayon Dutta

@debayon

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Is it right to interfere in someones personal life even if she/he doesn't want?Say you have some good advices for your friend/relative but they don't want to take your advices.Will you still force themselves to listen to you?If someone interfers in your life and tries to ruin your privacy will you accept it?Do you feel that every person has the right to have some private moments?Is it right to enter in to someones private life without permission?And if you want to hide some of your private things from a person,does it imply that you do not love the person and do not value him/her.Is it necessary to share evrything with our loved ones?If a person doesn't like interference,does that mean he/she is abnormal?

I wouldn't say it's right, but if what you're doing is in the right spirit or in a good cause(at least in your opinion), go for it! After all, you aren't trying to harm the person, are you? Now like people, said situations may differ and there are exceptions, so you know there is no definitive answer to that. Sometimes even if you don't want to, you have to interfere in someone's personal life for the good of that person, even if he/she doesn't believe you for a second or two. But yes, you must not impose something on him/her unless that something involves you, since it is his/her life and he/she has the right to take her own individual decisions. All you can do is offer some friendly advice, and fulfill your duty as a true friend/father/mother/brother/sister/etc..

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Angel-likeDevil

@Angel-likeDevil

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Is it right to interfere in someones personal life even if she/he doesn't want?

It depends on how close they're to you..

Say you have some good advices for your friend/relative but they don't want to take your advices.Will you still force themselves to listen to you?

Again, it depends on how close that "someone" is.. if it's someone who's real close to me, I'll give them my piece of mind anyway or ask them twice about it. If it's someone who's not close to me, maybe just an aquaintance then, it's better to respect them and shut my mouth.

If someone interfers in your life and tries to ruin your privacy will you accept it?

It just depends on how that someone is related to me. But whoever it is, they're atleast showing their concern for you.. 😳 but then, no, they have no right to interfere in my private life.

Do you feel that every person has the right to have some private moments?

Yes, ofcourse! 😲

Is it right to enter in to someones private life without permission?

No.. I don't think so. I hate people who do that.. you have to respect others no matter what. But, sometimes, I guess you just HAVE TO enter into someone's private life... when it's for some good cause.

And if you want to hide some of your private things from a person,does it imply that you do not love the person and do not value him/her.Is it necessary to share evrything with our loved ones?

I love this question. Yes, I guess it does mean that you don't love and value the person, well atleast in my eyes. I share everything.. every single thing with my closest friend - my dad. I speak everything that runs through my mind with him. There's no hiding with my closest friend.. It's not NECESSARY you share everything with them, it's not a duty or something, I guess when you love them and value them so much, the sharing just happens, and you dont feel like they're interfering or vice-versa.

If a person doesn't like interference,does that mean he/she is abnormal?

It's not abnormal.. it's perfectly normal. I hate interference from anyone or everyone unless they're some people who're CLOSE TO ME.

Edited by Angel-likeDevil - 15 years ago

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