Do guys like to pursue things they can't get? - Page 2

Originally posted by: shalini1323

And once you "get" that goal or that "girl" or "guy" .... you start to look for a newer goal? Is that right ?

Originally posted by: Believe

the problem is sometime,some people treat,love as a kind of politics....😊I believe wherever love is contaminated by the idea of domination, it is politics.... then it create a continuous conflict, nagging, then people search some relaxation,...bt biologically man is attracted to woman, women are attracted to men, bt that attraction cannot remain the same forever. You are attracted to something which is a challenge to get. You see a beautiful man, a beautiful woman... you are attracted. Nothing is wrong in it....but true love is a type of bondage of mind, if there is no true love...same acts looks mechanical, ugly. That's why passion turns into hate....then like this happen...thats why posted b4 about freedom and love...friendship or love is not possible between the jailer and the imprisoned.😊

What about KSG ?

Originally posted by: Summer3

What about KSG ?

Yahan kya problem hua ?

Originally posted by: Believe

Actuly I dont know much abt this guy and his problems......cos not interested and never watched these guys serial's so maaf kardoo 😃

Wahe Guru he left the woman in the pic above.

Originally posted by: Believe

the problem is sometime,some people treat,love as a kind of politics....😊I believe wherever love is contaminated by the idea of domination, it is politics.... then it create a continuous conflict, nagging, then people search some relaxation,...bt biologically man is attracted to woman, women are attracted to men, bt that attraction cannot remain the same forever. You are attracted to something which is a challenge to get. You see a beautiful man, a beautiful woman... you are attracted. Nothing is wrong in it....but true love is a type of bondage of mind, if there is no true love...same acts looks mechanical, ugly. That's why passion turns into hate....then like this happen...thats why posted b4 about freedom and love...friendship or love is not possible between the jailer and the imprisoned.😊

If marriage is decided by the Heavens then Heaven has been wrong many times

Originally posted by: shalini1323

Nice post totally agree.

but one question.

But how will you even "get" the one u like/your goal - WITHOUT even making an effort to pursue him or her..

Originally posted by: Believe

Without effort and difficulties nothing is posible😊even if you want to express feelings right time and right moment without any motive ,for that you need different kind of efforts....I believe love is insecure.....nobody knows where love will lead...no astrologer can predict anything abt love bt abt marriage..ya sure he can....thats why people force to sign contract😃

Shadi bahut thande dimag se sochna padega. nahi to U-turn karna padega.

Originally posted by: Summer3

Shadi bahut thande dimag se sochna padega. nahi to U-turn karna padega.

Yes. Actually it is the ego in the man which does not let him give up. Even if there is divorce he still pursues the same person. And yes the man who is deserted by his beloved or wife is too selfish to admit his defeat............and that psychlogically puts him on the run always.