Do guys like to pursue things they can't get?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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A guy friend of mine told me that boys, in general, like to pursue things (including gals) which/whom they can't get ....
So, just wanted your views on this?

Do you agree?

If you do - why do you think they do this - is the case of forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest?

If you don't agree - then what it your contradicting point of view ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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It cannot be denied that there is a certain amount of thrill & challenge in pursuing something . The more unattainable it is presumed to be the more is the thrill. But when it comes to pursuing a human being (girl or guy) certain ethics come into play which should be respected.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think that is a very stereotypical view of things. Mankind, in general, likes to pursue things they can't get, so that they can be involved and exercise their brains. Why? Well, in order to enhance technology and stay on top of everything. For example, NASA launched the Kepler mission in the last year to find life in outer space. Now that is helping mankind in general, isn't it, but this mission wasn't tailored by only men. Women also gave their ideas. Many senior scientists of this operation were women.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Men are more stubborn in nature (and this is a very generalized observation; I cannot be speaking for everyone out there), compared with women, so I can understand it why they would like to pursue things that are unattainable, and more, why they would like to keep pursuing it even when their hunt looks futile. Moreover, girls are generally (yeah, another generalized observation, so people can stop pointing their daggers at me) more understanding and realistic than guys; they worry about the future and thinks twice before doing a work - when they see something is unattainable, they usually stop[s] themselves from wasting their time on running behind its back, and rather, focus on things that are easier to reach.

I like stubborn girls, though. (WA, are you listening). 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: debayon

I think that is a very stereotypical view of things. Mankind, in general, likes to pursue things they can't get, so that they can be involved and exercise their brains. Why? Well, in order to enhance technology and stay on top of everything. For example, NASA launched the Kepler mission in the last year to find life in outer space. Now that is helping mankind in general, isn't it, but this mission wasn't tailored by only men. Women also gave their ideas. Many senior scientists of this operation were women.

Debs you are too young to understand love and one way attractions.😆
Unless your example covers falling in love with Aliens.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

Men are more stubborn in nature (and this is a very generalized observation; I cannot be speaking for everyone out there), compared with women, so I can understand it why they would like to pursue things that are unattainable, and more, why they would like to keep pursuing it even when their hunt looks futile. Moreover, girls are generally (yeah, another generalized observation, so people can stop pointing their daggers at me) more understanding and realistic than guys; they worry about the future and thinks twice before doing a work - when they see something is unattainable, they usually stop[s] themselves from wasting their time on running behind its back, and rather, focus on things that are easier to reach.

I like stubborn girls, though. (WA, are you listening). 😛



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Some women are as cold as ice and they do not get much suitors either. Guess physical attractiveness plays a major role.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Those who believe freedom and respect in life, they never try to pursue others!😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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And once you "get" that goal or that "girl" or "guy" .... you start to look for a newer goal? Is that right ?

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