OMG!

Reject him before he rejects you, otherwise no harm in just meeting the guy to see what happens.

Originally posted by: karandel_2008

oh dont worry. No one will reject you. You are a good person.

Think of what if he likes you. Will you agree to marry him?

Originally posted by: Emptiness

Reject him before he rejects you, otherwise no harm in just meeting the guy to see what happens.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Can we turn this into a debate on how much this arranged marriage system sucks? It is one thing if your parents suggest a family friend's child for you to consider, its a totally different thing if a stranger comes to judge if he wants to marry you or not. My parents always kid with me and say that one day some guy and his family will come to "see" me, so I always tell them that I am not some kind of piece of art in a museum so there's nothing to see.

Also, to all those who live on the subcontinent, is the classic arranged marriage system still in tact? Do you witness arranged marriages happening all around you? And for those who live outside, in foreign countries, do think that you've lost some of the traditional arranged marriage system? Or do you still see people around you having a completely arranged marriage?