How you differenciate b/w a comment and compliment

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hi,

I always wonder how do people differenciate b/w a comment and a compliment?😕

Since many times people tend to comment but we dont take offense eventhough the front person is quite sarcastic and harsh still we don't mind and few times people actually compliment us but we feel bad and think negative...So my questions are;

1)Should every comment be taken negative?

2)Since i believe if you take a comment constructively that will come to you as a compliment,Whats your take on that?

3)How do you differenciate b/w a comment and a compliment?

Your comments are welcome😲

Edited by mahikhan - 16 years ago

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Posted: 16 years ago

think abt what the person has said and then decide na? lol

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2
think abt what the person has said and then decide na? lol

Thanks but i dont have enuff time to keep thinking who said what and when.

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Posted: 16 years ago

no immediately afer the person has said something quickly analyse it...

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2
no immediately afer the person has said something quickly analyse it...

Acha why should i think and analyse?

Why cann't people act normal they can either say things in a better way cannt they?😳

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Posted: 16 years ago

some people analyze some people act impulsively. i think its upon a person's relation and understanding with the other person how they take a comment and act upon it. like is u r friendly with a person or if u know that the other person may not actually mean a thing then we ignore it. but when u know that the other person is actually being rude then its upon u to take offense or ignore.

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Posted: 16 years ago

i know mahi u r talking abt kareena-shahid comments right?

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: angelic_devil
i know mahi u r talking abt kareena-shahid comments right?

Which comments of bebo and Shahid😲 looks like i missed something on bolly forums😲 jaldi jaldi link post karo😆

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Posted: 16 years ago

Comments are statements about people. They can be neutral, complimentary or critical.
Compliment is a statement in favor of person. True compliment in order to encourage is positive. False compliment in order to deceive or suck up to is negative.
Criticism is a statement not in favor of person. True criticism in order to incite improvement is positive. False criticism in order to show down people are negative.

You really cannot determine what a statement is without context. Who said it? Why? Was favorable or not? What was their intent, honesty or deceit? Were they serious or sarcastic? Most importantly do they matter?