Is it in a mans fitrat/nature to cheat ? - Page 2

I believe every human being is special and also different no two persons can be same in any manner, unless they are twins.
Whether a man is a cheater or cheating is inherent in him, well depends on his values, yes he can be a cheat and also a saint at the same time, few black sheep's cannot swamp the entire male community as inherent and perpetual cheaters, for that would be a sweeping statement.
Coming to the point, what is cheating again depends on the kind of relationship you share, a man will never cheat provided he has that kind of compassion with his/her partner, if they do not have compassion then cheating is a rule than exception.
Well whether cheating should be pardoned, again depends on the relationship and values, if you really care then no cheating is cheating for you have the magnanimity in your relationship that one stray incident is too small to even tickle rock solid relationship, i believe forgiveness is divine

If people want to cheat they will, if they dont want to they wont. It is all about individuality

I agree with Naina and Jas, cant generalize on this one. As human beings our matter is the same, so there is every probability that all of us will cheat, I believe if u are loyal in one relationship u will be able to do justice to all other relationships as well, it is all a matter of conviction and moral fibre and its strength.
Many men and women walk into new relationships for several reasons, one party may not be in the know, it is difficult to pin point what leads men and women to stray and then cheat. It is best to tell the person rather than keep them in the dark, i think hurt is more, when u lie and cheat. It is best to face the truth and own up. Some stray due to weak moments at one point in life, if both individuals are willing to forgive and forget, it is best to continue with whatever they had. But for some it is difficult to forgive and betrayls are shattering. Without doubt it is difficult to continue with the same person who cheated on U. For me faith and trust are very important and loyalty is the key factor, I would not be able to repose faith in people or person who betray.

well u cannot generalize but my understanding is that society permits men to stray but does not forgive women if they stray .
somehow society has put responsiblities on women only
this is not correct


but a few black sheep cannot justify this statement on entire men