Which one would you do? - Page 2

Originally posted by: divyagirl

Would you have a arranged marriage or a love marriage? I'm wondering because you can't always trust someone if you have a love marriage but you don't get to choose who you want to get marry if you have an arranged marriage.

Well.....in my family, the girl would visit a boy's house, talk to the boy for 30 min. or so, and decide if she wants to marry him or not.

Hmmm I think that is fair!! 😃

But I want a arranged marriage!😕

You know, arrange marriage with the person I love!😉

Originally posted by: divyagirl

Would you have a arranged marriage or a love marriage? I'm wondering because you can't always trust someone if you have a love marriage but you don't get to choose who you want to get marry if you have an arranged marriage.

Well.....in my family, the girl would visit a boy's house, talk to the boy for 30 min. or so, and decide if she wants to marry him or not.

unfortunately, neither is 100% guarantee of working out perfectly. both have their pros and cons

Pros:

Arranged: because it is arranged by your parents, you know they have picked someone out that is compatible with you and will keep you happy.

Love: You are marrying someone you love. how much more pro can you get?

Cons:

Arranged: sometimes the person isnt as compatible as you thought. because you dont know this person, you could slowly realize that there is nothing about him/her that you can love.

Love: same as arranged. interesting, no?

My preference goes for Love Marriages... u know the person b4 u marry 😊 Loving stage is so nice.. so have to feel tht b4 marriage. Love after arranged marriage is totally different feeling I guess. But love b4 marriage and continous as spouse is simply sweet 😳

it depends.. there is no gurantee hat arrange marrige will be perfect or love.........

so its depends on sitution , time , and ppl

i would go for love too...its not because i dont think arranged marriages wont work, its because there are some qualities about me that not many guys would like and i would prefer for a guy to be ok with those qualities before we get married so he wont have probs later. for example, im perhaps the most emotional person in the world. i cry at almost anything. and im pretty sure not alot of guys would like someone sobbing in front of them for no rhyme or reason every 2 seconds.

U so cute mistystar for saying.... 😊

example, im perhaps the most emotional person in the world. i cry at almost anything. and im pretty sure not alot of guys would like someone sobbing in front of them for no rhyme or reason every 2 seconds.