First and foremost, they have a relationship ( I have cleared it in my previous posts...he calls her his GF -- so there is no doubt on that one)
A flirts with her and she does flirt with him too...there are many instances where she flirts with him. And no, she does not use him. There are a number of examples:
In anjaan lash case, he starts flirting with his Tji and as expected Dr. S comes in between -- he says that the reports are with him. She responds saying "par reports mein kya hai ye mujhe bhi pata hai".
After a few cases, there is another occasion when A talks to T and Dr. S says that the reports are with him...he says "tumhe reports se matlab hai ya Tji se?" T here remains quiet and as I understand, she was probably scolded by Dr. S after that "par reports mein kya hai ye mujhe bhi pata hai" When A says "matlab toh Tji se hai hi...reports aap bata dijiye" T blushes and smiles.
We also have a time when T initiates flirting. Dr. S says "A acha hua tumne forensic science nahi padhi...varna humari toh chutti ho jati" and T says "Sir chutti toh aap ki ho jaati...mera kuch nahi hota".
And during chote heroes episode A talks about how he had a very pleasant dream and she is the one who says "aur sapne mein mujhe dekha?"
T makes food for him (there are many scenes where we learn this).
Another time Dr. S says "mann toh nahi karta in cid officers ki taareef karne ki lekin kabhi kabhi karni padhti...muh se wah wah nikal hi jaati hai" and she says "haan sir A na ek super cop hai" We see her praising him when she gets a chance just like he does when he gets a chance. Dr. S obviously doesn't like and he teases her.
Then in khaufnak haveli epi we have her thinking of A and Purvi teasing her for it. She is the one who goes to A when he is talking to Daya...and then we have A praising her beauty. In the same epi she almost kills Dr. S.
We also see her taking a bullet for A, she stands by him whenever he needs her, she also goes against Dr. S for him thus risking her job.
About her silence at times when he flirts -- occasions when she doesn't smile or blush are rare. But yeah, there are times when she doesn't flirt back. Think of this...there are times when the case requires urgent action/ the case is complicated and A doesn't flirt with T. We understand this easily because we see the cops' POV all the time...we dont see the FL POV...at times things are tough for forensics and she is tense...A understands that and hence does not mind. I have no complaints with her reactions when he flirts.
And she cannot flirt as much as he does because, he is not directly under Dr. S...she is the one who has to stay in the lab the whole day. Even A does not flirt too much when ACP is there.
And about trust...she does trust him. She stood by him during Giraftaar series...however, we must remember that in their jobs they are highly accountable to their heads -- in fact doing anything without permission can be considered a crime!! So in a situation as grave as that, she tells A that she has to tell Dr. S and ACP about it -- she keeps silent for a few days but when she realizes that it is difficult to conceal things for long, she tells A that she has to tell ACP about it. A understans this very well...and hence he says "theek hai bata dena par pehle mujhe batana" She does that for him but unfortunately, Dr. S was standing there. She even speaks rudely to Shreya for him.
Saying that Tji is not responding properly is hence completely wrong.
Talking about the proposal for marriage -- FW is still not over that boy proposes girl thing as I said. Yet, she tries talking about it 2 times and he tries it 3 times.
Now about KMM: Agreed that she shouldn't have joked when A was very serious. But again...she would have been angry when A said that no one special is going to come...and about her teasing him for work. There could be many possibilities (I have stated them in earlier posts) -- she started teasing him om hearing that no one spl is coming...thats when a naughty smile appeared on her face.
She did not ever complain about him not spending time with her -- that would be a very wrong interpretation of her statements. All she complained about was him doubting her...which GF would not complain about their BF doubting on them. She just went shopping with V once and he started being jealous...jealousy is fine but to the point of doubting? He aays "kabhi humare saath bhi chaliye"...as in "you could have taken me" and she said "time hai aapke paas? Puchiye toh sahi" -- as in "I sure will come come with you when you have time -- have I ever turned you down when you asked me out?" On observing that he is still not over the fact that she went out with him...she talks to him when V is there and thry are working very seriously. And we see them going to a holi party after sorting things out.
He is very possessive and its cute to some extent -- but even she might get angry when he keeps doubting her just because she went out with a male friend. For example, in bhootiya colony we have jealous over her college friend and she plays along in the beginning. But the moment she realizes that he has taken it too seriously, she makes up for it. He was wrong to doubt her in the first place but she sees the insecurity and love behind his reaction and hence she does not make an issue out if it -- she makes it up to him. In a relationship there are times when one person is jealous/ angry...but A and T work it out perfectly.
Tji joked at the wrong time in KMM...she had reasons but she could have chosen to ignore that. But no one is perfect you know -- she would have been enraged -- you are dating someone for 6+ years and saying that she is not special? She would have felt that A could have dodged the ques instead of saying bluntly that no one spl is going to come. And hence she would have chosen to respond like that.
A too has done things at the wrong time...he flirts with others and once even in front of T. Its his habit...and he doesn't flort with anyone as much as he does with T...T understands that and they have worked this out too. We dont see him doing this anymore.
Having said all this...I feel that there is only one flaw in their relationship -- its been over 6 years but they are not engaged yet. I cannot call this a flaw though because there are happy real life couples who had been dating for 8- 12 years before they got married! (Unbelievable but true)
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