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neelambari

@Chiinnu

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#11

sunita di, please dont say like that please. If newbies are afraid, it doesnt mean that we threat them. They start threads that does not have any sense. Irritates all the senior members and occuppies the space for important threads.

The restrictions are for them, not for someone like you. Everyone here posted in your ganesh fest thread, why you have a feeling like that? It is so sad to see such a comment from you.

Dont think that the restrictions are unnecessary. They are essential for the discipline here. All cidians prefer discipline , and that is why this forum is organised and consolidated.

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visrom

@visrom

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: prettywomen22

My below observation is not intended against anyone in particular. It is my observation overall. While I have made many friends here, few hi bye ones but few really close ones (purni, visrom, and many others)

One hand we say we should make the forum lively and on the other hand we put so many restrictions. Are we contradicting our own thoughts?

I beleive we should have some discipline to keep our CID forum from getting cluttered but if we do it hard, I beleive new comers may get scared and run away and existing ones like me may hesitate. Even the Ganesha post I posted here, I did that with lot of apprehension and to be safe put a liner saying if someone didn't like it ignore it.

Actually my 'like' was for the first para. 😆 Thanks....

This thread is about the negativity prevailing on the forum with respect to the upcoming episodes and the nonsense they are showing.

Your post is sort of off-topic, because it mentions newbies and existing members hesitating to make posts. I have mentioned before - we need freedom on this forum too. Someone suggested that newbies should not be allowed to open threads. I didn't agree to that.

Someone joining has to go through the forum and get a feel of what discussion is going on and what are the rules and regulations, FAQs etc. They cannot just barge in and open a poll saying "who should Abhijeet have an affair with". It is disgusting.

Think in a real life situation...you walk into a room full of people. Do you just start talking irrelevant stuff or do you first introduce yourself to the existing people and then start listening to what they are talking and then say whatever you want to. Do you just rush in without knocking and say "C'mon guys let's talk about Britney Spears". How polite and civilised is that? The existing people will be in the middle of something else and may find this behaviour rude and mannerless.

And as far as possible, whenever someone new comes here, I have taken the effort to PM them the Rules thread. Some of them don't seem to be bothered about it. I don't want to mention any names.

Then the fact remains that the conventions of cyberspace are different, but to some extent people have to follow some basic manners.

Edited by visrom - 15 years ago

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SAGNIKA

@Shagnika

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

A lot has been spoken on this issue already.... isnt it?😕

Well, CID FORUM WELCOMES EACH AND EVERY MEMBER, OLD OR NEW, OPENLY AND WITH A PROMISE TO GIVE FULL COOPERATION AS LONG AS ONE ABIDES BY THE BASIC RULES AND REGULATIONS and as long as the members behave with dignity and common sense..... No new member is "bashed" but is just to be guided by the seniors if he or she goes wrong. Same with the seniors..... Please, no more "arguments" on this. Let peace prevail and be free to participate in the FORUM and keep it lively as long as you feel that you are being responsible enough!.. Responsible to the FORUM, responsible to yourself and to all the others who are part of it...

Thank You.

@Sneha di...awwww lovely profile pic...😍

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visrom

@visrom

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Yuvrajjj
a request to all the FEMALE members, just keep your sense of humour while your here. 😛

Definitely as long as it doesn't cross the limits. This forum is for discussing CID, not online flirting, you know. There are better sites for that. Any such remarks from male members will not be appreciated by females here.

And to tell you the truth most of us don't bother about the gender of other users.

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prettywomen22

@prettywomen22

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Oh my god!!!!! I didn't expect such a response to my views!!!!!

Pls guys, I mentioned very clearly that I didn't intend to hurt or didn't mean to point anyone in particular. That doesn't mean all get hurt 😒 😒 😒 😒 😒 😒 😒 😒

Prabha, Sneha, Sunny, Chinnu, Visrom, Shangika - I didn't mean to hurt anyone dear and if I did, I am sorry. Also to those who have marked like to the posts criticizing me....

Rest assured, I am hurt more than you all.... It was my view which I shared.....

I also mentioned in the view that I too agree certain discipline is needed so I am not doubting people correcting one another. Probably it is my nature to be more free and bindaazzzz. I am not telling you are not.... Pata nahin kya lekhon kya na lekhun... 😕 😕 😕 😕 😕

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prabha.

@prabha.

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

@Sunitha It's all over and forgotten 😊. Everyone has moved on, I would like you to move on too. Actually it's not the forum; it's you yourself who is imposing restrictions on yourself. Why are you thinking so much? What will happen at max what you post people may not agree with (I accept there are things I don't agree with and I am sure its true vice-versa). So what is the big deal? Accept that people may not agree with you and chuck the "should I shouldn't I". You have been with us for some time now, you should know us better than this. Be happy, all is well now.

Edited by prabha. - 15 years ago