Discussion:* Does Age matter..? * - Page 2

Originally posted by: souro

Oye, maine yeh kab kaha?? 😕 But are you feeling jealous thinking it's so?? 😛😆

Originally posted by: Gracella

Nahin kahaa...? par maine read karliya😆😆 ismein kaunsi badi baat hai..😆😆
Gracy cheezon ko fast samajh jaati hai..everyone knows that😉

feeling jealous..kyun yaar..? u are after all my hone wale bade Bhaiiya nah../ so jealousy ki koi baat hi nahin😃

Aap kuchh zyada hi fast hai.😛 Kuchh bina bataye bhi aap bahut kuchh pad leti hai.😛 Is romantic ke liye koi ladka dhoondo, jaldi se. Wait a sec, don't you have someone manaofying you here, aap uske baat fast samajh kyun nahi lete.😉

Originally posted by: souro

Aap kuchh zyada hi fast hai.😛 Kuchh bina bataye bhi aap bahut kuchh pad leti hai.😛 Is romantic ke liye koi ladka dhoondo, jaldi se. Wait a sec, don't you have someone manaofying you here, aap uske baat fast samajh kyun nahi lete.😉

Originally posted by: Gracella

@ Soumya: aha..u wanted to impress lara..? 😉 😆 😆

Impress Lara... plss Gracy yaar... ksi kO tO akala rhnay dO.... i think Lara iz the OnejO k ab tak bachi hOi hay...😆

Originally posted by: Believe

pooore armaaan toot gayeee......souumya ko grace bhai buladiyaaa 😆

Bulane se kya hota hai Vinu, mai manu tab na. Waise toh, kisine Grace ko apni mahsuka mann chuka hai. Ab Grace se hi poochh lo uska khayal kya hai us bare me. Nahi waise mujhe pata hai tumhare saamne woh sharmayegi, bolegi 'tum bhi inh logo ke baaton me aa gaye Vinu', par dil me to kuchh aur hi chal raha hoga.😃

Does Age matter??
Why and why not...When and when not...?😉

Khabi haan and khabi naa😉

We tend to stereotype people and so we do that with age too, old and boring Vs Young and lively. Yes i see age matter like souro said about you would give a girl a barbie doll, yeah i see in that respect how age does matter...but that is one aspect...Generally that is just use of common sense of age....what you would gift a young child and a more mature adult. In tersm of friendship- not at all does it matter on age. Everyone finds someone on a lower or higher level that they become friends with for a wide number of reasons. You learn something new everyday. Usually the older generation wil learn something new of a younger person and vice versa. Friendship can take all forms and so age would not matter. Here personality matters and whom you get along with, what you have in common etc.

As with relationships, why do u fall in love?? As of feelings, not as you say oh they are 47 years old and ok they are the right age for me🤢 simple based on what u love in the other person.

Age can matter sometimes when there is a major differemce and say you marry someone 30 years older/younger😆One wants to go and travel and see the world, the other wants to stay at home n have kids....

However generally other factors would come into why u have a difference of opinions, not entirely based on age, family values, what you have in common are all part of this.

Also i dont think matters all that much in a relationship either that much. We think the lder someone is the more mature they are, simply not true today. I do not call a 21 guy binge drinking mature as opposed to an 18 year old who is also allowed to drink...who will not drink that much. Yeah can be said to b lifestyle choices but i seen 5 years old more mature than kids older than them....and so in relationships depends on maturity levels. Some people are more mature for their age but still have the carefree spirit of someone their own age or younger. It varies person to person. So in soem cases age wold matter but i think in many other factors are the reason why u fall in loe and so they cancel out the age differemce and there is no set limit is there that the guy has to be older by this much....😳

Simply all depends on individual to individual, what is right for one person , may not be right for another. We are always learning new things from people both older and younger than us...and yeah u oldies😆 even us young people can teach you what is right and wrong😆 you dont always know everything😉

There are 2 popular quotes: What are ur comments on these 2 quotes

• "Age is nothing but a number"

Exactly what it says in the quote😉 Its a number😆 Seriously you use it how you want to use it and apply it. Yeah agreed about you use it to your own convienience---Age won't matter when it aplies to you but all of a sudden if someone else wants to marry a 100 years old guy, it will matter😳 Today people are hypocrites....one rule for them, a different rule for others....Parents are an example, fine when they want to do something wen they were young, not fine if kids want to do it too. Age depends is a number, has more importance in a different situation. and u apply it when you want your own way😳

• " Age means nothing when you fall in love"

Yeah like i said b4, u fall in love for other reasons, why are you attracted to a person, not because of their age right??? Initial attraction isnt oh you have a well rounded age number i think i will go for you😕 No nah, you love someone as you want to be with them...and love them because they are funny or caring etc.....I don't get the big deal with age....😳 Yeah when you marry and want different things, you cant say thats as of age thats because of personality factors as well, i.e Kids some want them some dont you cant always say its because im too young etc some ppl just dont want them because they dont like kids,lol😆 Difference of opinions is not always due to age. Age is just a scapegoat😉

Originally posted by: Gracella

Okay Here is the Main Question: Does Age matter??
Why and why not...When and when not...?😉

I don't think age matters for anything except marriage. Age shouldn't matter when you make friends because its great to have friends older and younger than you because you get all the perspectives. Working with colleagues of different age just enhances your experience. But when it comes to marriage then as it is said that husband and wife are wheels of a car so if one wheel is of a bicycle and the other one of Mitsubishi would the car work well? No. Sometimes age would create lots of troubles in the married life as to their outlook on certain things... Perspective with different age groups is different.

There are 2 popular quotes:

• "Age is nothing but a number"
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• Age is certainly more than a number... Of course all that matters is your heart as it is said "dil hona chahi da jawan umran che ki rakheya" (Sorry my Punjabi is not that great) But the symptoms of age are always visible. I mean a 90 year long wouldn't be able to run a mile in 5 minutes... So.. it is more than a mere number.
  

• " Age means nothing when you fall in love"
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• Hmm... well maybe but I wouldn't agree with a love like they showed in Nishabd a 60 year old falling for a 16 year old.. That is not love for me... It's just infatuation out of mere boredom.. So I think age does matter... I would find an 80 year old in love with an 18 year old simply disturbing.. but that's just my views.
  

• "Age is nothing but a number"

age is a number.......age does matter when u go to the polls etc ,or getting driving licence....but like i said before, maturity matters.....a 16 yr old might drive more carefully than a 25 yr old..........age matters when u sell someone cigs or liquor.........😆😉

• " Age means nothing when you fall in love"

Well......dont they say ppl who fall in love dont think n they dont have eyes or brains ......so i guess when ur in love nothing matters....age , cast, religion........nothing matters.......cause all u see is the one u love........so age doesnt matter when u fall in love, n like someone in the forum said that, for having kids age does matters, then i disagree......i have seen ppl getting married at the age of 19 and its like 20+ yrs have passed and they still dont have kids........so thats all kismat or karma........kids are Godly gifts, some have it some dont....so adopt one........and give that orphan child a perfect home 😳