Should dev hold his family responsible

I say this because it is his family who didnt let dev see the "bahu"! had he seen her and he had numerous chances to, he woulod have found out that he is getting married to the wrong person!

i agree wid u. i tink he may tell dev n maybe dev will be the one to stop her wedding.

Yes the family deserves the blame but Dev cld have insisted on insuring who the girl was. He still doesnt know the name!lol

Ok, lets go back a little and try to recapitulate the events that gave birth to the "misunderstanding".

On Holi day, when Dev and the Shastri girls were at the color function, Dev pointed at Radhika and asked the priest, "Who is she?" Radhika hid behind Vishakha. When the priest turned, he saw Vishakha and said, "She is Vishakha, Mr. Shastri's daughter". So, it was Radhika who started the problem.

Dev always wanted to meet his future bride. But dear Dadi said, "Nahi, apshagoon hota hai".

Dev trusted his family. His family also wanted that Dev should marry his dream-girl. They always wanted Dev to be happy. But ...
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Now the damage is done. And pointing fingers is not going to rectify the situation.

No, Dev must not blame anyone. But if he finds solid proof that he was deceived, I want him to uncover the truth all by himself. This is his problem now, so he must solve it.

My personal preference is, that after learning the truth, he should tell Vishakha that he knows about the deception and give her the choice to leave his home for good (after telling Dadi and Vaishali only) OR he will tell everyone (which means that the Shastri family will be subjected to public humiliation). The ball is then in Vishakha's court ......

they also are blamed...they dint let dev see bribe before weeding.....this rasams are so 😕

i know, dev could have seen radhika when they were on mandak even then dadi (or should i say creatives lol) made sure that dev didnt see the dulhann!!!