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Originally posted by: sia_lovely

Nice post Myra :)

For me DDjee and Rohan are equally evil...for they both ruined others lives for their own selfishness. Although DDjee always called himself selfless and covered up his cowardly acts under the velvetty carpet of RPship! So everyone thinks that whatever he did was not wrong...because it was for the sake of RPship. What everyone forgot was...the precise reason why the foundation of RPship shook was because of the lies that DDjee stood on! As for Rohan...he is selfish but again being the pampered kid of the family, his crimes were forgiven very easily terming them as his "mistakes"

Coming to BB...she comes 2nd after the above mentioned "Asurs". She is after property and money...but she has punished, albeit unknowingly, some people who rightfully deserved those punishments -- DDjee!

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Again good post Myra , I found Dada Ji to be the evil-est person ...He was the eldest one of the family and was also the custodian of Dharam ...he did so many mistakes , should say sin in the name of dharam and family prestige...Never gave any thought to human feelings , so whats the big deal then the coming generation is following his foot-steps ...

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Dada Ji was the head of the family and set example for the family and the society , and has responsibilities towards society also .. He did wrong first by denying his son marriage and left the girl in lurch , then snatched her baby , brought him in the family where he was treated as servant ...He was a selfish , ruthless and manipulated person ...who played with human,s feelings like toys ...I do not think he had any principles, just was wearing a mask ...Because of Kashi Maharaj,s prophecy he accepted Dev as his grandson otherwise Dev would have lived like a servant his whole life ...So all other family members are just secondary ...Rohan has his manipulation and masked genes ...Dev did adharm in the name of his duty following his Dada JI ...Do not know how Gopal das did not have any traits of this family ...Viraat is selfish ...here i am talking about blood relations ...Hari was a person without backbone , did not have guts to accept his wife , so did the Dev ,,,,,.May be VN left the house because of Dada Ji,s deeds ...They should have brought him back in the family ..

Originally posted by: misti73

Neerja I do accept majority of what you have written here expecting for two sentences...

1)Do not know how Gopal das did not have any traits of this family ...Gopaldas has the traits of this family. He was going after Dev because Dev was supporting Radhika...Gopaldas like all the family members is pretty selfish...he did not like it when Dev did that because to him that showed that Dev was going out of their hands. But he is ok when Radhika has again proven that she will not harm Dev and hence the Rajpurohiti...Gopaldas does not actively take part in all the wrong doing but he stays in the house and does not say anything about it...so he is supporting whatever is happening. It is said that when a person silently sees wrong being done and does not do anything about it then that person is no less bad than the person who is actually doing all the bad things. Gopaldas is an escapist and one who runs from responsibility..
Yes i agree with you here , he is escapist, does not wants responsibilities and agree with your above statement also ...He wants easy life where he is safely in his cocoon ..
.he is quite happy writing his poetry but not strong enough to try toearn a living from it...he is quite happy leading a luxurious life and not doing anything worthwhile and like Hari he is also very weak. Yes i agree

2) Hari was a person without backbone , did not have guts to accept his wife , so did the Dev ...It is true that Hari did not have any backbone Dev's case is different. Dev does have a backbone otherwise he wouldn't have kidnapped Rdahika to protect her...that time he did what he thought was right. Dev's problem is that duty and responsibility have been fed to him since he was a child...and that to the wrong interpretation of what is right and what is wrong...to him this is his family and he has known them for 23 years and if he did certain things their way he was given importance and given affection but if she did something not what the family has been accepting then he was abused verbally and looked down upon. The family put him on a pedestal when they wanted to and pushed him horribly from that same pedestal when they wanted to.Then Rahika comes in his life and showers him with love and although he fights the same love but then accepts it and stand up to his dada for it...but then dada dies and Dev looses one of his main supports...so on one side he has this relationhsip...even if it is a toxic one but a relationship that he has known with this family for 23 years and on the other hand is his relationship with Radhika, one he has known just for some months as an adult (I know they met as kids but Radhika nurtured that relationship but Dev didn't ...his work and responsibilities took over)...on one had is duty and responsibility that he has been fed since childhood and on the other hand in this love...at times of stress (brought on by dada dieing)...what do you think a human being will choose. Something is has known and grown up with or something that is new and scary (Radhika was pushing his boundaries then by making him question Barkha which is equal to putting the Rajpurohiti in danger, the same RP that he has been taught since childhood to protect at anycost). S it not not about having a backbone but his upbringing and how he was being used by this family that has lead to this condition.
I agree with you about Dev and his circumstances ...First it was obligations towards this family then It was his duty towards the RP...Misti i agree with you all what you have said ...Yes whatever his reasons were , he betrayed Radhika at the time of RP puja and again her trust ..I think should not be blaming the character it was the CV,s who caricatured his character , who once was an intelligent person with integrity ..

On another note Iwill be interested if they bring back the real Vishwa and show that he left home because he was against dada's principles...that will be a nice twist and I will be interested in seeing that.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Nice post,Myra.In my opinion it's dadaji.If he had accepted Radhika without any grudge this so called Barkha charka would not have been there as RPtian. So,1st it's dadaji & then the others.

Originally posted by: misti73

Dada because he was the one who used dharma to maintain an image and misused it for his own ego...all the people who came later on were helped by dada indirectly or directly...BB was bad even before the 12 years leap and dada knew it but he kept quiet due to family prestige...Rohan was declared bad but he was protected by dada at the expense of Radhika...basically a poor helpless girl was sacrificed to maintain family prestige...he was quite happy to Dev being called a servant and he was quite happy in hiding the truth but only declared the truth because he was forced to since Dev was the candidate chosen by the Kashi Maharaj (not by dada...it was the Maharaj who told dada about the youngest grandson and dada was not happy with the choice) ...

Originally posted by: niru06

nice post...ddji,rohan,bb are equally evil.ddji in his mask of false prestige ruined many lives,failed in all aspects be it head of family or rp.given a chance later rather than making up for previous ones he tried repeating same mistakes rohan single sorry from his side has worked wonders for his mother and he is safe secure with radhika's reputation at stake comin to bb for her selfish reasons played with radhika's reputation,but unknowingly punished ddji bak - physiotherapist/doctor -no comments

Originally posted by: -Shankar-

DDji still is worst for me!

Originally posted by: ushasri

nice post myra it is dadaji who created problems using the word dharam because of him dev lived like a servant due to that feeling dev said radh to marry rohan as dev does want to radh treating like servant by everyone and it is dadaji who manipulate others emotionally (radh) because of dadaji evil radh took decisiom of making bh rptn which lead to her death