Mistis thoughts 30th nov 2011

In the kitchen...Radhika/kanha (R/K) uses Bholu (Dev) to wind up Srimati ants in pants (Barkha)...Bholu is singing praises of Radhika and telling R/K that Radhika is very good and she manages everyone so well. ...and R/K reminds him that Radhika was always good but Srimati ants in pants has still not forgiven her... May be something is wrong with her behavior for which RaDhika cannot be forgiven (interesting R/K used "my behavior" here instead of Radhika's, R/K always uses third person when referring to Radhika...now I don't know whether this was to indicate to Dev for later on that it was not Radhika with him...that this person is separate from Radhika)...anyway Dev takes the literal meaning that Radhika is asking why Barkha has not forgiven her...R/K does look pointedly at Dev here and then says let it go...and reminds him indirectly (using her example) to do ones duty the right way (the definition of dharm) and this time cuts the apron strings and tells him directly that if there are any questions then to search for the answers within him (that is not to come to her but to follow the inner voice or gut instinct...so wonder if Bholus faith/belief in his gut instinct is now going to be tested or not..ad since it is gut instinct or his heart speaking the journey has to be his own )...and now Bholu is gung ho regarding what is the matter with Srimati Ants in pants and wants her explain what is the problem with her (Bholu even a psychiatrist will give up regarding her).

R/K asks dai that if instead of choti bahu someone else does all these rituals then what? (well it is not really CB who is doing the rituals...ok dai does not know that...and maybe in future too something might happen that the real Radhika will not be in PB too like now) ...dai says that she respects Radhika a lot (but dai you didn't give Radhika the respect just based on the fact that she is Radhika ...Radhika had to sacrifice and to prove herself for you to give the respect)...and R/K replies that is what is going to happen faith/trust will be tested (wonder faith/trust on someone or on one's inner being or gut reaction).

I am gleefully skipping many things here only some points. Badi bahu says that Padmu should also get a DIL who due to her own stupidity will be after her life...who can that be? Srimati Ants in Pants?🤔 Chunnu munnu let us know that they have successfully complete dada tumbling down the stairs circle😉...there badi bahu being the eldest DIL did the deed and her Mohini the eldest DIL did the deed...and CB's kanha is ok with it😉...(so successful completion of circles are very important.😉😛 Actually this circle could have been completed by another way..Angie taking your example here...badi bahu has always been vicious and dada used to tolerate her ...badi bahu pushed him because she reacted out of frustration and fear that the property will go away from her...here Srimati Ants in Pants is vindictive and vicious...badi bahu also tolerates her out of her own needs...and if Srimati Antis in pants feels that control is slipping from her hands ...that badi bahu has the mobile with proof she would have gladly done the same thing...so circle would have been completed na? and Mohini would have been safe and kanha would also have been protected)...anyway...lets proceed...Oh yes Bholu wants to talk to all but Padmu wants preference and wants to know first but Bholu sweetly tells her no later and Padmu is now scared...

The lounge...Bholu continues that they all thought that Radhika was wrong and that she did try to harm Srimati Ants in Pants ...and that is why he decided that until Srimati Ants in Pants forgives Radhika he will not accept Radhika as his wife...but now that Radhika has changed...their old Radhika is back... he she is taking care of everyone and does not have anything against Barkha...(So Bholu are you still clinging on to the belief that Radhika did all this...I means since you are saying that Radhika has changed and has now shown by her actions that she has changed...still not wanting to accept that Barkha was wrong because that means you are wrong...or is it that you do acknowledge that Radhika did not do wrong but you want to convincethe family?)...then asks that why can't Srimati Ants in Pants forgive Radhika now after she has shown that she has changed? And that he takes decision witout being biased...(No Bholu you have still not reached the unbiased state...you are still biased...biased towards not wanting to acknowledge that Barkha was wrong because that means you are wrong and that will make you face some very difficult questions)...then goes on to say that all the doubts that were there in Radhika's minds are not there anymore (Bholu...Bholu...you are clinging on to your self preservation)..and then fires at Srimati Ants in Pants that why hasn't she forgiven Radhika? And then asks everyone that whether his decision is wrong and if then where? (are they trying to show that in traditional Indian families there is no personal decisions between husband and wife, the entire family is involved)...Dai's answer in Dev's support was interesting...She said that after Radhika returned everything good has happened and the idol that was broken is ok... her voice returned...she got sight...and by saving Balram she maintained dai's the faith / belief (Interesting that dai did not say that in saving Balram Radhika stopped injustice from happening and protected an innocent child and the truth...it is all about this house and her...and Radhika had to do all this to gain dai's support? Radhika had to sacrifice to gain Dai's support...Does she really value Radhika the human being ...How much does Radhika have to prove to gain support...what self centered people!!) Anyway dai continues that she has always seen Radhika speaking well with Srimati Ants in Pants ...now Srimati Ants in Pants looks at Padmu who throws a worried glance at her😳...and Ants in pants continues...that Radhika is a very good friend of her and she has always thought well for Radhika (Rohan head at an angle and he is in deep thought with his penetrating look)...Ants in pants continues that she still does not believe Radhika and it is possible that Radhika is acting and showing that she is good (again transferring her actions on others),...Bholu is frustrated now...and ants in pants now starts her bhashaan that she is not forgiving Radhika due to the promise that Radhika gave dada (ahh reminding Bholu regarding Rajurohiti and maintain its traditions...but I don't think Bholu is that interested in this argument)...and she further continues that Radhika again does wrong then being a RP bholu will kick her out and then Radhika will tell everyone the truth of this marriage (so Barkha thinks that she will be kicked out and then she will go and tell everyone the truth and that is why she might blackmail...well she does transfer her thoughts on to others)....Bholu now exasperated with all this..and Padmu wants a test...uffo Padmu grow up will you. I am not talking of Bholu's reaction more here because this scene will continue tmrw.

Oh I forgot...Virat in the muth...well he is being Virat...not interested in being told to do work and furious about it but forced to do it and also imagining himself as RP

Precap...ahh that might be the Rohan...Radhika circle being used to shown gut reaction being tested (was wondering whether this will be used or not 😳)...either Dev will now use his gut reaction and realize that there is a reason why Barkha is asking for test after test when Radhika did not ask for any test when everyone was blaming Barkha for trying to harm Radhika...infact Radhika came in her support and showed that it was bhooth and not Barkha...so why is Barkha using all these excuses? Is it that she does not want to forgive and if not why?...or they might show Bholu accepting it and leaving the gut reaction aside because he does not want to face the truth that Barkah is wrong...and then Barkha making advances or people's misconstruction regarding their proximity...and a lesson for Dev regarding gut reaction...and zam your scenario maybe (the one that you mentioned yesterday)..anyway that's for another day.

Originally posted by: misti73

Originally posted by: NiHa24

Thanks misti great thoughts! You are welcome NiHa

First of all Padma! could she stop being so annoying!!! Well then how will Padma be Padma.😉

Liked how Radh(kh) hinted him to find the answers in his heart!
the first step he has taken and he questioned for Radh's rights i hope he completes it with this same belief! Yes...that was R/K 's hint to him inface R/K also told him the same thing yesterday that when in doubts look inside to find answer..he has taken the first step..the step to question when he knows inside that Radhika was not insecure...he did not want acknowledge it openly before and was insisting that it is Barkha's illusion..so this might be going towards showing that it is not Barkha's illusion

And the scene at Mansa's house was intresting! I liked that scene so Chenu is in the path of one more realization! would be nice track to watch! yes it shoud be interesting ...Ya it would be funny to see the reaction of Shanthi! and more when she'll realize that the to be coming refrezator and the cooler are also not coming!!!😆 yes😆



And today the performer! is Avinash!👏 😍 Aww he completely rocked the scene!yes he was good..and I liked Siddhart and Aditya too...

Originally posted by: rajsri

as usual, wonderful commentary, misti .Thanks Rajsri😉 .. it is nice also to see avinash getting some screen space ...nice!!! for me it is a relief😃😉

enjoyed the episode today ... though i usually dont find these kind of scenes amusing, the BB scene and the virat scene were quite funny ..I didn't find the Virat scene funny but liked it because Virat was being Virat...I have developed a soft corner for this guy😳...I liked Dev's reaction to badi bahu waking up.he was mighty pleased as if he has done something great....😆
Bholu is now on a mission ... to prove that rads is not guilty ( i dont know of what - isnt she as a wife supposed to be jealous of another women in her place ... but that is besides the point) ... and barkha is getting increasingly agitated.....Bholu is on a mission and to show that Radhika is not guilty ...and maybe that Barkha was hallucinating..😉... Rajsri Radhika canntot feel jealous when Rajpurohiti is in question😉😃...

like the way KR is needling bholu .. very well deserved if i may add .yes...it is much deserved. KR has been asking dev to look for answers within himself so i dont know if they are going to keep them separated and he will have to learn to survive without rads.....I thought about that yesterday and even today..because this not depending on Radhika and looking for answers within himself have been repeated...wonder how long are they going to keep real Rdahika away because without her the soul is missing from the story...

let's see how the precap works out ..yes at least the way dev's character has been shown the past few days, i think he will agree but hesitatingly and with everyone in the house pressuring him .Although I will prefer him saying no, but my hunch based on how he is refusing to accept the truth is that he might burst out initially but then hesitantly accept. .. i would like them to show dev's thought process .yes if he accepts then they better show the thought process to make it clear to the audience regarding why he is doing this.. what does he want her to do .. does he want her to calmly sit down and accept that he may be getting close to barkha but fully trust him .. or does he want her to get angry bcos he is her husband and run in to pull him away ... personally, i would want her to be quietly painting her toe nails and have him fuming that she is not jealous and not coming back to get him .. but that is me 😉😛...first I liked this idea of painting her nails😉😛 and I also find the idea of letting Bholu face the music very interesting...it will be his decision if he says yes so let him deal with it.