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Posted: 14 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

I think this all is the lack of creativity , now Barkha is at the same place where Radhika was ...One thing i can not understand why Barkha was quite and moving as if was sacrificial goat , whom Radhika was taking for sacrifice ...The girl who used to speak tirelessly was just mute ...It was her life


She was looking scared! Scared for what, i wondered?? This RPship and family was not hers for god's sake!! Her mother had once advised her correctly...that one should only involve onself in other's problems only to that extent from wherein they can come out easily. She was right then and Barkha should have left the home then and there itself.

Today Barkha got involved in such a mess from wherein she couldnt get out ever! Probably tomorrow Dev might tell its Radhika who is his wife...Rads would return to him...then what would happen of Barkha? Who will marry her? What about her future?

Without thinking of anything, the girl walked like a lamb, holding Rads' hand. Any sensible girl would have shoved away Rads' hand and screamed that she is NOT Dev's wife! Simple, Problem solved. In that case, Dev would have been forced to accept that indeed Rads' is his wife. if not, Barkha could have done the honors herself. She didn't and nor did her mother! A sensible mother would think as to what would happen to her daughter...Dev shall never love her...and then what would be her daughter's future. She should have told herself everyone that it was RaDev who got married and not barkha! But no one uttered anything
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Posted: 14 years ago
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So very true sia and neerja...agree with every point of urs...how kn poor radev live with the guilt and how that the talkative bh stayed numb,her fear was surprising
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dev babu lost my respect...I won't forgive him till cb ends...He shouldn't have taken the decision because the only truth of life is that truth can't be altered only lies can...
Ohhh no i forgot though that he asked for Dadaji's help with his prayers...well dadaji was always adharmi
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sia_lovely


She was looking scared! Scared for what, i wondered?? This RPship and family was not hers for god's sake!! Her mother had once advised her correctly...that one should only involve onself in other's problems only to that extent from wherein they can come out easily. She was right then and Barkha should have left the home then and there itself.

Today Barkha got involved in such a mess from wherein she couldnt get out ever! Probably tomorrow Dev might tell its Radhika who is his wife...Rads would return to him...then what would happen of Barkha? Who will marry her? What about her future?

Without thinking of anything, the girl walked like a lamb, holding Rads' hand. Any sensible girl would have shoved away Rads' hand and screamed that she is NOT Dev's wife! Simple, Problem solved. In that case, Dev would have been forced to accept that indeed Rads' is his wife. if not, Barkha could have done the honors herself. She didn't and nor did her mother! A sensible mother would think as to what would happen to her daughter...Dev shall never love her...and then what would be her daughter's future. She should have told herself everyone that it was RaDev who got married and not barkha! But no one uttered anything


It was some thing to do with money , her mother kept quite ,as in society people knew it was Barkha who got married, she must have thought ,going to such influential family ...Sia i have really gone blank .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: billo77

Myra lovely post 😊
Maybe Dev did take this decision to protect RAdhika , but lied to the society that Barka is his wife! This didnt only ruin his life but also Radhika and Barka ! To become a RjPurohit you have to be truthful and honest . Dev wanted to tell everyone that RAdhika is his wife and didnt want to take the responsibilities of RjPurohit starting from a lie! Now he lied and will have to face consequences ! who would want a RajPurohit who lied about his marriage and starts doing justice ..Doesn't make sense! I hope that RAdev will see the consequences of their action. Probably bad stuff will start happening around the villages and Dev wont be able to do anything...I didnt watch the whole episode just read the update . I agree with ashna , Dev lost the battle and will be hard to win it again ! Dev put himself in a mess along with Radhika and Barka ...No one in PB deserve to be RajPurohit ..maybe Viraat but hes an exception 😆..I know Radev are young and no one is there to guide them but when Dev closed his eyes ..Did he really see that God wanted him to choose Barka ?? I highly doubt it!!...I just wish Chayya comes back and brings some sense in RAdev and guide them !

Thanks billo! Yes,agree to all u said,thats why its so dificult to imagine how they gonna get out of this web of lies...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Myra.nelly

Well,here was the problem...the rjp title and its duty was forgetten,he was only the lover who cared abt his wife...anyway i said i wont talk abt creatives... I want radev to rethink and make everything ok as parteners in life and in their duty as rjp and rjp-ain...they do deserve the title but only after understanding their doings...

Yes Dev took the decision because he was scared that Radhika wouldn't be accepted but that means he lets his fear and bad path won. He lost as a human too but that is human like I said before we make mistake and we try to repair them. But he is RP? I really believe the best thing if Dev lost the title for now. Being RP brings great responsibility and Dev failed today.
Which I couldn't get that Daidma and Padma are really thinking that Dev made a right a decision and Radhika a great sacriface. They are elder people at least they should have show Dev and Radhika they right way ! Guess Mansaram is the only one who isn't self center in a way.
Maybe in the future he can take it back but he need to fight for it and fight for truth together with Radhika. Then they deserve it! Hope they show that.
Don't want society to forgive it so easy like they did with Dadaji. Dadaji committed a much bigger crime he forced his son to remarry and took a child from his mother and society never ask questions and he could stay RP.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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when dev said barkha still had hope maybe he will say further barkha is not his wife but radhika is he has become adharami just like rest of his family now dont give me this balloni he did so that radhika will not get insulted now when the truth comes out later on all of them will be insulted oh my god just now a thought came i think the cvs are never going to reveal the truth the storyline is going to go on in this stupid way
so there will 2 wives bharwali and anderwali and then barkha will fall in love with dev and lo and behold there is the love triangle.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kishubedi

even i felt quite upset after watching todaqqys epi but atleast happy that everyone know that dev had married radihka n not barkha so atleast the other people know

Ya the pf knows that but not the society...bh is the wife 4 society...thats what its upsetting everyone...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well said myra.nelly but still he nearly turned into his father and accepted what dada wanted him to do in the end... can he get out of this mess now without tarnishing the image of Rajpurohit... he begin his duties as rajpurohit by telling a lie would anyone after this believe what he says... even it is hard for him to tell the truth for the fear of his wife he should have just faced the situation and cleared radhika name in the ceremony itself he has father- in- law support if the childhood marriage to be out and his father-in-law could have brought the pandit that witness the childhood marriage!!!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Myra,
I know all of us are down and out with the friday episode and I was also in a horrible frame of mind. But it is in my nature to do some reflection on what has happened and why and what is the solution. Sometimes when you do take decisions you have no idea how the other is affected and you dont quite realise that this may be for a lifetime, with time situations also change. It is clearly payback time to Dev.
When Radhika implored, begged cried and requested on the grounds of dharm to accept their child marriage Dev refused it and we know the reasons for the same. For Radhika she just wanted to adorn herself with sindoor and lead a simple life with Dev. She was not interested in being the CB of RP fmaily nor was she interested in being RPian. But Dev had different ideas and wanted the best for her which he could not give as he was a servant. He also went to the extent of manhandling her and showed total contempt initially for having caused havoc in Rohan's life. Radhika was getting the status of CB and Dev was a naukar. Once Rohan's games were exposed Dev was keen on making Radhika his, when the huge boulder was dropped on his head when his true identity was revealed and was announced as the RP to be. The situation changed.
Dev and Radhika got married again. But with the non-acceptance of radhika as Dev's bride and with the additional responsibility of taking over RP position, Dev has come to the stage where he has to choose RP over his wife. Dev pushed Radhika for Rohan, but because of that he is unable to choose Radhika in public. In both the situations the worst affected is Radhika. the current situation is such that the decision is completely taken out of their hands and they have to follow what is expected out of them. there were lot of revenge situations we had made for Dev when he was bad with Radhika. I was one among those who strongly felt that Radhika has to go away from Dev for good for him to realise his folly. they maybe in love with each other and it maybe deep but I dont quite agree that Radhika has to be made a sacrificial lamb for the greater good. When Dev announced Barkha as his wife my heart completely broke not that I was not expecting it because the situation has completely reversed. I wont be surprised now if Radhika is subjected to the role of the naukarani of the house.
Barkha has been vindictive and anyone who hurts Radhika she goes for them Before long she will go for Dev for letting down Radhika and not accepting her publicly as his wife. This will not be a romantic thing but the revenge sequence which we had conceived when she will act terribly with Radhika to hurt Dev more and for him to realise what Radhika would have gone through. Even if Dev accepts his childhood marriage why would Barkha leave them? that will be the revenge she islikely to take.
Dev accepting Barkha when not married to her as his wife leads to the next question. How is he different from Rohan? Rohan did not marry Radhika yet claimed her his wife and Dev did the same. Is it because Dev is now an RP he can go scot free with this?
A whirlpool in which Dadaji was the first one to succumb, Radhika went to hold his hand and is slowly getting into it, Dev is the life line here who is being pushed deeper into this by Padma, and daima.
what an irony of situation. It brings tears to my eyes seeing the plight of the two of them and am unable to decide with whom my sympathies rest.

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