Originally posted by: sia_lovely
Raj very well said! Yes, they were huge glaring bloopers. It seems like a RP/RPtian will be given every single inch of importance in these kind of rituals...other members of the family, even if they are older to the RP/RPtian would be snubbed off! Weird people. I too was wondering if there is actually any ritual where the RPtian compulsorily has to light the diya? Why didn't the mahant ask BB? She is afterall the Badi Bahu and hence can get this right (if a woman has to do it!). Or else GD could have done it. Dev/Rohan/Virat...there were so many men! But then how can they show that scene of apprehension and then finally Barkha doing it! Barkha -- who is not even related to RP was made to light the diya by Radhika! Great!
Then, despite the presence of GD, Dev was asked to light the pyre. just because he is the future RP? Even i was really confused at this scene was was asking to my screen as to why can't GD do it? Shouldn't the oldest son be given the right to do this? Everywhere in the world, its the same!
And ofcourse, the RP puja! I mean the abhishek! When there has been a death in a family, not necessarily a RP family but any normal family, people avoid having any Shubh kaam because its a mourning period. These poeple being RPs didnt understand this? They want to show Dev being RP so hastily? Are woh abhi abhi to chita ko aag lagake aaya hai...and ur asking him to get married! Is this a joke or what! They should maintain some reality in it atleast!! People wouldn't like this at all! Small bloopers can be avoided but not such glaring bloopers na? Also if Dev is given a 13 day period before he is bombarded with such questions, he can atleast think of some way!