My Thoughts of Radhika's Plan

Now what i cannot understand is how society can accept that Dev is the son of RP's son's first marraige...a marriage that was never dissolved...which actually places Padma in an embarrasing position and Rohan a possible illegitimate. Now how come there is no shame in telling the world that? If there is no shame in telling the world that truth then what is the shame in telling about Dev's marraige to Radhika, what is the shame in telling that Radhika and Rohan never marriied?

Now back to Radhika, as i said she was overwhelmed by the turn of events, i can understand her dilemna but covering the truth is not going to help anyone. What she is planning to do is ADHARM. She must decide what is TRUTH, is society's perception more important than the TRUTH? Perhaps because we live in a mundane world, - picture the scenario - Dev is forced to marry Bharka (presumably he would divorce Radhika first - yes i can almost hear Radhika GASP at this but she will stiffen and pretend it is ok...fine ..its her life and she has the right to choose the way she wants to live it and in this it will be without Dev). then some of you will say 'but Kanha will not allow it...' i beg to differ, Kanha has allowed to do it unless he intervenes and creeeps into the CVs mind and make them see sense :). Frankly i don't think the CVs are portraying Kanha as he really is, they are portraying a story to get us all agitated and worked up... sigh

I also felt that Radhika should have held her horses and waited for the waters to clarify a little before making her decision. When the call came for the RPtein to light the diya, she should have done it, after all she is the wife of Dev and possibly the future RPtein. Before making her final decision, she should have spoken to Dev ALONE without anyone else present, just the two of them and both must come to an understanding, agreed it may remain a deadlock for a time but eventually one of them will see the other's point of view and perhaps accede to it. But she should have discussed it with Dev and not made a unilateral decision on her own.

society is not as evil as zeeland likes to portray...with the right explanations you may be pleasantly surprised by society's reaction. Try it Radhika... don't spoil Bharka's future just to ensure DDJ is not embarrassed in the eyes of soceity - actualy he has already embarrased himself ...

I have amended what I have written earlier but now i feel that perhaps i should just shut up and see what happens and not comment any more.

Yes i totally agree with you , "The Truth " is the first and foremost dharma. Society needs to be told the truth, dharma is to stick to the truth even if the whole Samaj turns against you, remember Raja Harish chander . If Raj purohi makes decison based on what society will say ----- where is his need then !! Society will decide on its own what is right and what is wrong ----- cant even blame them becuause they are not aware of the whole truth most of the times.

On the other note , I would like to mention that in Fridays epsiode Rahika was looking very pretty in green sari . I have noticed that she usually looks very pretty with minimum makeup and with sad / serious look. Please do not throw stones at me --- but I feel she does not look that good when she is shown laughing/happy e.g. in the ander wali / baher wali wife promo.