YET TO WATCH EPI, ALREADY UPSET WITH MANAV - Page 2

Originally posted by: DramaQueen.

I agree that he should have supported her in front of Rajhana but he still did support her when it was only the two of them. So obviously, he hasn't married CC to "make her his servant" as you say. I think you're overreacting and going too far. I'm sure Manav himself will understand. Many men learn things after marriage.

Originally posted by: crazyforsanaya

How did he treat her like shit?

Did he ask her her preferences for wearing a saree? Just assumed, right? WHY? Does he think she should not have any will or preference? Or that she does not have any say in her life now that she is married?

So he grew up in a house where he saw all that. Well, the same can be said of her, right? And since he did marry her, why is he not thinking of his wife?? He doesn't know that his wife is uncomfortable... did he ask her?? Did he bother to find out why "bhabhi" said what she did?? Did he ask her what happened?? Chhan Chhan at fault, too. She should say what she feels instead of being subservient to him and his family! Granted she wants to "fit" in, but at the expense of losing herself??

So you think the last bit is too much? Maybe. I haven't watched the epi, yet. But from what I have read on the Forum, it seems she was standing on attention to serve him and his parents and brothers whilst they were stuffing their faces! That's disgusting. treating their wives like second class citizens. Or servants!! Even the housekeepers in my house eat at the same time as we do!!!!

Originally posted by: Ang3LzHalo

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Um... I think you should watch the episode first then make a post. Your reaction is a little extreme.

Originally posted by: crazyforsanaya

What's the point of insulting in front of everyone and supporting in private??

If many men learn things after marriage, then why not the same standard for women??

What's good for the goose should be good for the gander, too!

Originally posted by: ..SaNaYaHoLiC..

This is why you need to watch the episode!

Manav wasn't even there when they were "stuffing their faces" This part happened before Manav came into the house to surprise CC. She was going to sit with the family to eat dinner but Ranjhana stopped her saying the bahus eat after the others have eaten. Your argument is valid (about this point only) but your anger towards Manav is not justified. He wasn't even there!

And about him asking her about her comfort level, do you realize it has only been one night since Manav came back?! He fell asleep, in the morning got up and Ranjhana bhabhi came. He had no time to interview her about her comfort level, or what she thinks!

I'll say it again. Please calm down 😲

Originally posted by: -Unknowndesire

Please watch the episode first before making such post he never treat her like shit.

Originally posted by: ..SanzLicious..

Um ... 😳 Watch the episode. THEN come back and re-analyze your post. You went way to far in your criticisms of Manav LOL. He wasn't that bad. And besides, he grew up with Uma Behen. He didn't go too far, but you can't expect him to change his ideas that she put into him straight away! The IDEA of the show is how CC changes his and the whole family's mentality! 😲

Watch the episode. Please. This judgement was too harsh. You'll realize it yourself!