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Posted: 12 years ago


Thank you, that means a lot. I have endured many pages of stupidity here to get a few good people to write reasonably. I am not fan of his either. I was critical of his acting. I was an IPK fan expecting a lot. Only watched this show for Sanaya. But this whole mess has turned me off this show big time.

I have been a long time member of IF, at one time very prolific.

What I have seen and still do is the moment you write something balanced, especially if you don't come outright in support or against, you get a huge amount of backlash of comments.

Another form of bullying followed on by mass hysteria... actually reminds me of cult behaviour!

I used to watch IPPKND but never visited the forum beyond few times because of the aggressive and almost hysterical atmosphere that pervaded that forum. I see it here as well.

Good luck and keep up the fairness as its only Just. I too always keep at people to read critically and to analyse the language of the word. A single wrong word can change the whole meaning of a sentence - and I have seen articles here that are totally almost wrong from the first word to the last paragraph.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Thank you @Marybarton for your comment on my post. Just digressing a bit from the topic, you are very articulate, hope the episodes in the show inspire you start posting on episode analysis too, would like to read your take on the story. See you around!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Marybarton



Starting with me! I am criticizing only the people who are bulling and look at how this post is being spammed.


And thus your point was proven. I don't have anything particular to add to your post but I did enjoy reading a very reasoned post, and replies, on this forum in a long time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Thank you @Marybarton for your comment on my post. Just digressing a bit from the topic, you are very articulate, hope the episodes in the show inspire you start posting on episode analysis too, would like to read your take on the story. See you around![/QUOTE

That reminds me show viewer the new promo has been aired , shinell has put the link .. Very cute , have a look
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Posted: 12 years ago
@Marybarton 'Attacking because he didn't love our beloved Sanaya?' I don't think so. I think he cared too much. Its just a vicious cycle in the life of an egoist. He wouldn't take advice cause his ego was affected, ignored the well-wisher and who knows what, well-wisher feels hurt and decides to leave the egoist with his own pride. Egoist feels ignored, tries to woo the wellwisher back. Well-wisher doesn't care anymore and realises its best to keep everything just professional. Egoist's pride is hurt. On top of that he is not accepted professionally. So like a wounded animal he decides to take out his frustration on the most probable victim, the well-wisher who also hurt his EGO. It is a well known fact, that an egoist forgets the 100 good things done by people but remembers the one thing that hurt his pride. So he does what he did. That way he gets his revenge and more exposure too.

WHAT A SHAME...This behaviour is totally despicable. I hope never to come across such a person in my life.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Marybarton



No, not overreacting much given that I find death treats to some random, unknown actor disgusting. You know what happens to people who give death threats to public figures in other countries? Saying Karma is the least of the scolding.


I myself do not condone issuing death threats to anyone, celebrity or not. I also understand that this has disturbed you deeply. So I will now reply to your main post.

When Dheeraj said Sanaya admonished them for making fun of Farhan, he was trying to defend her. He also mentioned that Farhan got offended when Sanaya tried to help him. Shouldn't a new guy in the profession take this in his stride and learn instead of getting offended? Anyone would make fun of a person who was bad to start with, doesn't want to learn from a senior and doesn't improve with time.

"He is new and does not know how to handle publicity" ---
SO does he get to insinuate that the co-star did not like him, that the fans expected to see something like IPK, that he was being compared to Barun and get away with all this?

In a new office you will get attacked only because you did not do your work right -- not because you did not get along with the popular girl or boy. In fact trying to get along too much to cover up for bad work might result in a sexual harassment case.

Sanaya is not a saint and has never claimed to be one. In fact she has herself stressed in the past that she is just a human being and need not be idolized. Not everyone has to adore Sanaya. Agreed. But implying that her reserved behavior was one of the reasons for his quitting was not in good taste.

Farhan might have been hurt for being replaced. Didn't he bring this on himself? Did he once stop and think if he was ready for the role of a male lead? Didn't such an educated man know his own limitations? It might have been okay if he was not a great actor. But it is not okay if he is a bad one. I might not have been reading Shakespere when I was beginning to read but then I did not have people watching me for entertainment and was most definitely not being paid for it either.

You say you are not a Farhan fan but a Sanaya fan. But sadly your post implies the contrary.

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Posted: 12 years ago
after along time we got to see a neutral post and very good discussion and replies.hope this off screen drama moves on as this is attracting more eyeballs than on screen drama. problem is between fk and sanaya let they both solve it by themselves.best thing we audience has to do is to enjoy the onscreen drama rather than attacking actors and members as we don't know what is the real reason behind this mess.
Edited by siri271984 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Good sensible post indeed.

i was wondering what was there in the article that FK was getting bashed so much.
he didnot ridicule any body which his co-actors did on the sets.. he stated what he felt.

the senior actors in the show were the newcomers at one point in their career. ridiculing the newcomer didnot speak good of them. side actor deeraj, is all set for publicity.
Edited by anu08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
I havent seen the show cos I didn't like the couple of episodes that I did see. I logged on to see even those two episodes because of Sanaya Irani as I had seen her in IPKKND and one more show before that.


I ended up on this forum after reading Farhan's interview and then saw your post. I have a thing for the underdog so couldn't help comment :-))


First of all, very sensible and well thought out post.


Second, while I really enjoy watching Sanaya Irani, I do happen to hear courtesy plenty of journalists friends who cover television that the actress has airs. Without exception all of them who did interviews on the IPKKND sets, had only one thing to say - Barun is a really nice, chilled out humble guy while madam has lots of airs! So she may not be as innocent in all of this as she is being made out to be.


Even if that was the case, I don't think Farhan has been nasty or rude or taken off on her. I cant see anything terrible in what he said.


The truth of the matter is that there would be comparisons with Barun and maybe the guy is not as good an actor (the two episodes that I saw had just one scene with him and he was ok) and he would suffer for it. That sucks!


I am glad Sanaya is maintaining silence on this. I wish their other co-stars would take a leaf out of her book. If they laughed at the guy cos he was floundering, it speaks volumes for the kind of people they are and he is better off being outside the show!
Edited by DMGFan-2b-not2b - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
I'm no FK fan and I myself did think FK had a large mouth when he went on and on saying how he has auditioned for many roles for no reason and when he gets those roles he'd turn them down, etc... To me, he came across as an egoist.. and ultimately, he couldn't prove himself with his acting in the show. But that said, Sanaya too is no angel... she shouldn't have commented in that interview about the replacement... no matter how much ever she felt FK was not worth the role, it wasn't really right of her to comment against him, that too on TV... she could have just avoided that question.
And again, from Dheeraj's interview, its obvious that the other cast did make fun of FK on the sets, which means they too were in the wrong. Again, I don't think FK is completely innocent... if anything he seems to be equally involved in the tit-for-tat game. But I don't think any of this warrants putting all the blame on FK on one hand and on the other hand, painting Sanaya as the one who does no wrong. If anything, I guess all parties were at fault to some extent or other...
Edited by S.Stephy - 12 years ago

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