Today, I am embarrassed to be a Sanaya Fan - Page 4

Originally posted by: psarada

To each their own - If you feel that you have to defend Sanaya and only then you can be her fan or vice versa then there is nothing much I can say here. I guess because to my mind that's the difference between a fan and an admirer. I might admire an actor for his work but when others abuse him then it doesn't really affect me apart from either agreeing or disagreeing with the point. For me fandom means something different and honestly this is the first time in my life I've been a fan of anyone and I'm not young and yes it does bother me when people bash Sanaya. When fans do it I take it with a pinch of salt but when another actor points fingers then yes the defense mechanism does kick in and yes I think it would for most fans. Not an appropriate example because this is the CC forum but think back to the abuse Lalit Mohan got because he praised one actor and not the other (not talking about the final interview which was retracted by the website) and the fans who were up in arms wanting Lalit's blood are very firmly telling us that we should be tolerant of FK because of course it's not their favorite in question.

But to answer your last question - I never abused people neither on IF and neither any where else because I just don't believe in that concept. In fact I don't even post on forums which I know don't take a negative post in the correct manner. That is the reason I have never opened up a post on CC forum as I don't want to open a post and then have people attack it for my view point. But yes when there is a good post on the forum, I try to put my point across. Just because I don't open thousands of posts praising Sanaya, it doesn't mean that I am no fan of her. Both Barun and Sanaya have given me a memorable jodi and I feel bad when either of them are dragged into controversies and that is why I hope Sanaya puts this controversy in the past and moves on. Sometimes maintaining a dignified silence takes you a long way. Something I have learned at the end of IPK fiasco. I haven't really followed your posts
Your user name is familiar but I couldn't quote any post you've made except for the feeling I get when I see your name and anticipate an anti Sanaya post...perhaps I'm wrong your name reminds me of one I've seen bashing Sanaya in a certain fan groups chat clubs...my apologies if that's not you. As for silences being dignified yes if you can't articulate your thoughts well but if you are articulate and can present you pov effectively then there's nothing wrong in speaking up. In fact I believe that silence when it's not appropriate can actually cause more damage than if the person in question had simply spoken up truthfully in the first place...but that's my opinion.

Originally posted by: showviewer

While agreeing with TM and you about things getting ugly. I think nobody can take a moral high ground here because all actors have few fans who go haywire defending their favorite. This is not unique to just Sanaya fans.

Sanaya too has been on the receiving end of many such fans of both her ex co- actors. If we are condemning one set of fans, then it should be done of all the posts which make ugly, abusive remarks of any actor/ actress.

Currently so many fan wars are on IF, and the only people whose names are being tarnished are actors because the fans can hide behind the anonymity that internet affords them.

Originally posted by: Joseph_A

@ Bold : Buddy...go n chk Mohit's B'day segment [2011] Kinshuk-Divya n all frnds was there n 1 MoNaya SBS seg [in Car] where ,MoNaya were missing MJHT. It was during IPKKND.

Originally posted by: showviewer

While agreeing with TM and you about things getting ugly. I think nobody can take a high moral ground here because all actors have few fans who go haywire defending their favorite. This is not unique to just Sanaya fans.

Sanaya too has been on the receiving end of many such fans of both her ex co- actors. If we are condemning one set of fans, then it should be done of all the posts which make ugly, abusive remarks of any actor/ actress.

Yes, here we are talking of this particular actor and reaction to his interviews, but I have seen derogatory posts on Sanaya's previous show forum frequently, not just on her but even on members who have a different point of view about other actors and their acting. Would like to see similar condemning of those posts. Personal attacks on actors or IF members should be stopped irrespective of who is on the receiving end. Either one is against all bashing or none, picking and choosing when to condemn, and when not to will not solve this menance, it just highlights bias. This problem of hyper protective fans is common to all actor fan groups. We just turn blind eye when the bashing is not about our favorite.

Currently so many fan wars are on IF, and the only people whose names are being tarnished are actors because the fans can hide behind the anonymity that internet affords them.

BTW, you have been a victim of this too right, that was terrible as it is. That needs to stop.

Originally posted by: jaya100

In most cases I agree with you but here Farhan Khan brought it on himself - he opened the door for fans to malign him by pointing fingers at them for not accepting him because of another actor. When he doesn't have the balls to accept his own lack of talent and needs to blame fans for that then he deserves most ofwhat he's getting ( I won't condone death treats are insulting family members and posts like that) . He needs to understand that the response is from Sanaya fans who were supportive of him and now wish they had hollered for him to be removed from the moment he stepped on the screen. As an actor your diginity is in your hands but then I guess not everyone can be a Viraf Patel.

As for Sanaya, yes she's a big girl but we're her fans and we won't put up with crap about her...if we did we wouldn't be fans. The thing about being a Sanaya IRani fan is that we don't feel the need to protect a grown woman are responses are there to show support to her nothing else.

Without pointing any fingers and a little off topic I guess the funniest thing I've seen in all of this is the righteous people taking this opportunity to bash Sanaya fans and telling us how bad we are for being angry at Farhan and then you go to a different forum and see the way these same models of good morals abuse other celebrities and other fan groups who attack their favorite...two faced much?

Originally posted by: Guinea

Hi psarda ...I have interacted with you before and know what you are saying , I also make it a pt never to abuse a person / celebrity atall in the forum , quiet watchful of my words as well , guess what ..got bashed yesterday in this forum and got a personal hate mail from sanaya's ex co actors fan ... What am I trying to say ...their is a crazy element in all fandoms , in certain situations , you see their worst side. We saw it in nov'12 and hats off to viraf , gul , sanaya and whoever else comes in that list to have taken it , we are seeing a sampling of it now ...both are equally bad ! Nobody can take a higher moral ground here.

Originally posted by: P.Srinivas

Joseph some people even dont check her previous interviews but the will pass comment on her😆

Originally posted by: bramcote46

Where am i taking a moral high ground...i have liked uglier things in past and loving it at present ...the more uglier the more entertainment for me .

What i don't like is a certain set of fans abusing him on social sites while taking digs at others and for that matter any actor /actress and then acting like angels .some of them have accused other fans of the same thing in past but now the table has been turned on them ( remember i wrote certain not all). Yesterday they were the audience but today they are being watched.

As far as actors are concerned, some of them have gone through even bigger storm but they all survived so i won't worry about them.

@ Bold are you justifying those who are throwing right tamasha on social networking sites becoz someone else has also done it in past 😲