Kabir's love for Neha !!!.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kabir is an amazingly intriguing character. Today the writers peeled one more layer and showed that though he acts tough, he is a softy from inside and cannot see Neha in pain. He does realize how much he is hurting Neha and on top of it, he isnt interested in the 900 crores for himself.

Kabir had a face off with himself finally. His inner self started questioning his actions. His motive is to get the money for some greater deed , but the path he is following to achieve that is hurting him. He thought of all his interactions with Neha and realized he has feelings for Neha.

When karan asks him , if he can be of any help...Kabir asks him to stop the marriage. He says, "Can you get me back that time when all of this wasnt there, when I didnt see Neha, when I didnt make up this plan?". So my question, was Kabir happy before he met Neha? I mean was he ok after Aditi's death and before he saw Neha?. So where does that put Kabir-Aditi's love? Wasnt Kabir in love with Aditi ever? But from the interactions they have shown of Kabir-Aditi, it was shown that they were very much in love. Atleast the pics in their room depict that. The way Kabir knows abt Aditi, only a person very much interested in her can know that. The way Kabir went and stood at that spot where Aditi died , and said, he loves to wait there... I mean what was all that?. Wasnt that all his love for Aditi?.

When Karan said, "Once this marriage happens...", Kabir immediately cut him off and asked "Why do we keep forgetting that she is already married?". Now what does that mean? Kabir had no issues marrying Neha if she wasnt already married?. Why didnt he think of his marriage with Aditi?. Afterall she died only 6 months back and looking at the amount of love he had for Aditi, it isnt easy for him to move on and marry any one else, isnt it?.

Kabir does say, "To get done with this drama, I cant marry in real. It isnt right". Now was he speaking of his own self or was he still thinking from Neha's POV and that he cant get married to her since she is already married?

Kabir didnt go with this drama for himself. He doesnt want the money for himself. So that makes him a good human. He is doing all this for some ulterior motive, something big and something for someone else(may be). Isnt that odd, that someone who can struggle and go onto any heights for someone else, or some great motive, can forget his wife in 6 odd months and fall for someone else? 😕

I dont know, but I always thought Kabir loved Aditi a lot and it was Neha being Aditi's look alike that was attracting him towards her. But now I feel that Kabir fell for Neha for who she is. There is no issue with that as such and it is indeed a good thing that he is finally moving on , but since it was just 6 months ago that Aditi left him, it feels a bit odd and pushes his love for Aditi down the cliff. It kind of dampens Kabir's great character.

He is an amazing character and hopefully writers will show that his love for Aditi wasnt fake😊.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I remember the first time i said way before Kabir started showing anything for Neha, that if Kabir ever falls for Neha it will be coz of Neha, and NOT coz she looks like Aditi, falls for the woman that Neha is and so on... will be the whole point of him falling for Neha
To me it was clear few weeks back which i said also back then, that Kabir feels for Neha it was never an issue coz she looked like Aditi, that was not what came across,,,,,,, it was Neha, because of the woman that she is, the depth of her and how she loves someone to face all these things and fight for Rishi. Ever since that exchange after she rescued Rishi, and the way Rishi revealed his face on how he is using Neha and then threw her literally into Kabir's hands... thats when things changed
Kabir seeing Aditi in Neha wasnt there at all... it was just she looked like her, he was never in doubt that whenever he saw Neha he thought of Aditi, he didnt... thats why its so much easy to see why and when Kabir fell for Neha, its not coz she looked like Aditi, its coz of the woman Neha is and so on... that much was clear.
I dont think we know way much about Kabir-Aditi... but judging by what we did see, it does seem like they had some kind of arranged marriage, when after marriage they were getting to know one another... that seems plausible to me.
Edited by Lennie - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah, if Kabir falls for Neha or as we see is falling for her, I think its because of who Neha is and not because she looks like Aditi.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think kabir is in love with her not becaz she looks like aditi, but becaz of her qualities which made him like her..
he once said "shaayad koi itna pyaar mujhse karta..main to unkeliye sab kuch chod deta",,(something like that)..
he def loves her that's for sure..!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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"shaayad koi itna pyaar mujhse karta..main to unkeliye sab kuch chod deta"


That line got me thinking.. does that mean Aditi didn't love Kabir?

Edited by mz.jess - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel that it is too soon for Kabir to have fallen for Neha. Anyway, we have yet to hear him admit as much.

I would understand that he sympathises with her and admires her guts and her deep and unwavering love for Rishi who clearly doesn't deserve her.

I agree with you that it takes away a little from his character if he has fallen in love with her practically overnight.

I always wanted Neha and Aditi to be two different people...as I wanted to see the struggle within Kabir when he begins to get attracted to neha...I wanted to see him fight hard against it in the effort to be faithful to aditi's memory..theirs may have been an arranged marriage but it does seem, from the photos at least, that they were happy together in the 10 months of their marriage...and, it;s been only six months since she died...or, is it four months of marriage and six months since she died?...the friend at the market place did say that Aditi got married 10 months ago and she didn't seem to have heard about the accident...it's so confusing!

Anyway, i'd like to hear Kabir denying harbouring any feelings for Neha other than that of sympathy and respect..even if Karan's words give him food for thought. I would like to see the attraction grow before he acknowledges his love for her. But, that's just me.😆

Btw, I loved the way the fire lit up his pupils at Karan's poser!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mz.jess

"shaayad koi itna pyaar mujhse karta..main to unkeliye sab kuch chod deta"


That line got me thinking.. does that mean Aditi didn't love Kabir?



ya me too thinking like that..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pippa

I feel that it is too soon for Kabir to have fallen for Neha. Anyway, we have yet to hear him admit as much.

I would understand that he sympathises with her and admires her guts and her deep and unwavering love for Rishi who clearly doesn't deserve her.

I agree with you that it takes away a little from his character if he has fallen in love with her practically overnight.

I always wanted Neha and Aditi to be two different people...as I wanted to see the struggle within Kabir when he begins to get attracted to neha...I wanted to see him fight hard against it in the effort to be faithful to aditi's memory..theirs may have been an arranged marriage but it does seem, from the photos at least, that they were happy together in the 10 months of their marriage...and, it;s been only six months since she died...or, is it four months of marriage and six months since she died?...the friend at the market place did say that Aditi got married 10 months ago and she didn't seem to have heard about the accident...it's so confusing!

Anyway, i'd like to hear Kabir denying harbouring any feelings for Neha other than that of sympathy and respect..even if Karan's words give him food for thought. I would like to see the attraction grow before he acknowledges his love for her. But, that's just me.😆

Btw, I loved the way the fire lit up his pupils at Karan's poser!



@bold: lovely line
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Posted: 13 years ago
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this show has so much suspense and it just leaves u amazed and puzzled. at first Kabir was the culprit the bad guy. then suddenly Rishi's true colors were shown. that made me hate Rishi more than kabir. n now with today's episode where kabir says he doesnt wants the money for himself...it really made me love the character some how. i mean he saved aditi/neha in the temple, feels the pain she is going through bcoz the marriage preparations and knows he should not marry her plus on top of it all regrets the day he saw Neha n planned all this. he feels for neha but just behaves rogue, cruel and merciless infront of her

amazing story!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

I remember the first time i said way before Kabir started showing anything for Neha, that if Kabir ever falls for Neha it will be coz of Neha, and NOT coz she looks like Aditi, falls for the woman that Neha is and so on... will be the whole point of him falling for Neha
To me it was clear few weeks back which i said also back then, that Kabir feels for Neha it was never an issue coz she looked like Aditi, that was not what came across,,,,,,, it was Neha, because of the woman that she is, the depth of her and how she loves someone to face all these things and fight for Rishi. Ever since that exchange after she rescued Rishi, and the way Rishi revealed his face on how he is using Neha and then threw her literally into Kabir's hands... thats when things changed
Kabir seeing Aditi in Neha wasnt there at all... it was just she looked like her, he was never in doubt that whenever he saw Neha he thought of Aditi, he didnt... thats why its so much easy to see why and when Kabir fell for Neha, its not coz she looked like Aditi, its coz of the woman Neha is and so on... that much was clear.
I dont think we know way much about Kabir-Aditi... but judging by what we did see, it does seem like they had some kind of arranged marriage, when after marriage they were getting to know one another... that seems plausible to me.



Yes you are right that Kabir is falling for Neha for who she is and actually thats a good thing as that would keep their love unique. But from what they have shown of Kabir till now, he does miss his wife ...sply whenever he goes through that ghat he makes a stop. Unless he is missing Aditi, there was no point for him to go stand at that very place from where Aditi went missing. The way he was talking abt Aditi, the way everyone around in the house talked abt Aditi , it indicates Aditi was indeed a very caring women and she was loved by one and all. Also Aditi named her property in Kabir's name (I think it was mentioned sometime during the initial episodes) , so it makes me feel that Aditi did love Kabir, otherwise no she wouldnt have named her whole property on his name. From Kabirs nature its pretty clear he isnt the kind of guy who wouldve married Aditi for her property.

Anyways I think CVs are yet to come up with the Kabir-Aditi story and hopefully they would be able to convince us with what they have shown of Aditi and Kabir till now.

Apart from this one missing link, I just love Kabir's character and I watch this serial only for that character ... so wish CVs wont dissapoint with his story in future 😊


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