Displaced Knukkad - Page 65

@Marisa: Please feel free to post your views...don't be apologetic about it ok 😉 😃 .....You know as much as the old AR scenes were nice, seriously AR need a break....the relationship is too damn lopsided....Armaan is sooooooo into it and this woman is wallowing in insecurity and only wants constant attention and adulation from Armaan so that she feels that she is the right one for Armaan....she is not giving one thought for his feelings...it can never work if through out Armaan has to make Ridhima feel that "Oh You are the one!!!"..I think he has proved it time and again....and if she still feels insecure then I think she needs to sort it and get over it without his help....because he has done his best....she has to do self help only now

@Weltmeister: I think Armaan waiting for Ridhima in the party does'nt show that anger was a mock anger....in fact I felt that after leaving it hanging like that....he must be tensed himself that what if Ridhima chooses the latter...and actually call it quits because she can't get herself to go public since she is still not confident of their relationship......its that anxiousness...because whatever anger....the truth is he loves her like crazy./...that is why even if she does'nt confess and he calls it quits....its not going to be easy for him...he is going feel a lot of heartache that she did'nt come through...but in the long run he would realise that there was no point in continuing AR if this is the way Ridhima feels about their relationship…..so I feel that anxiousness was because the guy who loves her so much and has even envisioned his entire life with her (all his sasurji..saali..kada..even kids)….is scared that this woman would actually take the latter option of calling it quits….just imagine what he must have felt after all he did…she wants to rethink….wow….the guy must be as insecure as hell now….

@Dhvani: You know even in the end...after Armaan leaves her in the staricase...I wanted her to worry more about the "Ya Phir"....but unfortunately when she was remembering his words, she was still thinking about him asking to confess her love in front of others....she was not thinking of "ya Phir".....that kind of irked me....isn't she a least bit scared...the guy who was head over heels in love with her has actually reached a stage where he is OK to call it quits....isn't she scared at all of losing him.....I mean why did she take that pushtaini kada if she was not even sure of A...that time itself she should have mentioned that things are moving too fast for her...I mean if that's the way she feels. 😕 😕 ....and like you said....what rubbish when she said "humein hum dono ke baar mein aur samajhna chahiye".....she never asked about his parents....all she does is waits to run away from him...always avoiding his company by saying "Thank Lord Pager...right timing"..."koi dekh lega"....does'nt go out with him....never ever initiated a conversation to know more about him.....getting angry at the drop of a hat and waiting for him to come and say "sorry"....then what the hell she needs time for....she never used the time they had so far...all she was doing was blush and run…..

@sarn7....the optimist in me says DANCE IT WILL BE...guess there will be no announcements as such...but just a dance and a hug if i stretch my optimism a bit further ,close to or exceeding the salsa dance...doubt if AA and KS will still get it atleast they didnt seem to get it after the salsa one right.....but I believe Armaans real targets for this confession are only and only RM,he desparately wants that atleast they get it...thats the only way he can wriggle out of the tight spot he is in with them... ...and its this that is upsetting me with all his forcing R into this confession..wether it is to take AR to the next level or to save his own skin.... 😕

@sarn7

Excellent point there abt the public confession!Since the last epi i was wondering the same.What does A really have in mind?I hope to God he doesnt expect a girl scout pledge from her in front of an audience.And the close dance ya well they've been there done that and the dufus gang of sanjeevani still doesnt have a clue!So i really wonder what the announcement is gona be like and whether R is actually gona do it!?!Telling the family would have been more like it like you said atleast Angy rather than everyone getting the breaking news flash at the party!!
And the Riddhima has her way around these things.She got herself out of it the first time arnd with that lame soni de nakhre-i love you!And she managed to keep him and his kisses at bay so far!Clever i say for one so seedha saadha!This time too she might just blow a kiss in the air,spread the cream on his lips or sth and flutter those lashes heavily and Armaan would be too speechless and dumbstruck to do anythg abt it! 😆

@Sarn7: both the points you have mentioned are excellent...
Ya maybe grabbing and shaking the girl is little scary for a normal sane girl..and Ridhima does'nt fall in that category of girls at all...did'nt she drive him to it....when they were in love he never did anything like that to her.....in fact this grab and shake happened during the chair flinging scene post Heer Ranjha play...and confession time....I mean sometimes to get things out of her...that seems to be the only option she is giving....I mean even in the confession she kept saying "I hate you"..he needed to hold her tight to get the I love you out of her.....she never gives any answers to his numerous questions....and even if she gives they are so vague....I mean she never says or does anything voluntarily from her end....she needs to be shaken.....even her concern for Armaan during all those fights rises only when the poor guy meets a deadly accident....until then she just goes on and on hating him....one accident (bike race) and she comes running....she reacts only like that....

The second point you made is right....I don't think catching the mike and confessing is the way to go...like you said ya we can understand by the way they behave....and the way Armaan keeps saying announce it to all....it reminds of me that repetitive dialogue "Kya tum mere liye kuch mehsoos karti ho"....but I think maybe he also expects her not to shy away from dancing together in the party like in valentines...it was sad...that guy comes all the way there...and the other guys came because of Armaan..and they got to dance with their valentine and this poor Armaan could not....may be he wants her to stop "koi dekh lega" nonsense...and be comfortable with him and if someone asks admit it ...period.....but ya the dialogu confess in front of everyone is trite

@Weltmeister: another good point you make....I feel Armaan wanted to go public right from day one of confession and he has given a lot of time to Ridhima which she has never made use of to find anything about him........in one sense I feel the urgency is mainly to keep Raul at bay .....because of Raul's shayari and his new found attraction towards Ridz...I don't think even a public confession will save him from AM fiasco...Ridhima will not spare him..public confession or not......but in the staircase scene....she was so insecure...and kept saying you must have told this line to other girls..I am not your type...the guy got fed up...because this is the nth time she is taunting him about his past with girls....and asking "why me, why me".....so maybe to put a full stop to her insecurities he said lets go to your parents....I mean how much more special can he make her feel...for her to still keep having so many doubts about his choice of hers...

@Anu: Just wanted to add some more about why I prefer RM and not AM....not dinning it down...just sharing my pov..hope u don't mind 😉

Again please remember I am not talking Ridhima, she is "poof" for me like you mentioned
You know I feel Armaan needs someone who is a bit of an idealist...principally sound...intelligent and headstrong to an extent...I mean a woman who would acknowlegde her faults and mistakes when she wrongs and who can equally show the error of his ways when he is wrong...again not in the head masterini fashion....

Case in point....remember when Raul wants to talk to Armaan and Armaan is all childish and says "No" twice...I mean if it was Muskaan I would expect her to go "Haan, ja ja hum pidhe log se baat nahin karte" 😆 I mean she and Armaan are like comrades in mischief for me...remember that scene where they dump Raul's face in the cake.... 😆 the way she joined in...though it was a dream...then even when he recently stopped her in the scooty to tell about Raul knowing everything...when he says just keep quiet and listen...she so cutely did that 😊 ...but Armaan's girl would have been slightly offended but would have listened in her own grudging way but listened definitely not a'la Ridhima style...so that's how I see AM....as much fun they are together...I don't see them as a couple...atleast not yet... 😉

But you know what Muskaan can give in a relationship....is teach her man to live in the momemt and be joyous...and who needs that Mr.Raulccccc....I can just imagine Raul telling Muskaan about the old Armaan-Sonia story.....and I can imagine her laugh and tell "Kya tu bhi itni saal purani baaton ko ab tak peet pe lekar chal raha hain....chaddo yaar..live for today and now"....that's why I feel RM are perfect for each other more than AM 😊

RM would also be great because both Mayank and Aayushi are fab actors😉

@shalini
but her insecurities come from the stories she heard from Raool!She is just trying to get it out of him rather than asking upfront!And Armaan is inviting a whole lotta trouble by not coming clean abt the Muskaan issue!If he waiting for her to confess first and have her safe by his side to later bombard her with the truth then this is a wrong strategy!!

@Notty:Then she needs to come clean...have we ever seen her initiating any sensible conversation....I mean if something is bothering her she has to come out with it....Armaan is doing so much for her and if she still feels insecure..he is no mind reader to find out why she is still feeling this way...that woman needs to open up...Armaan cannot always read her mind and keep coming and giving her answers proactively.....And don't you think she is only worried about her insecurity,....she is not even giving a thought about Armaan's insecurity...what does she think he would have felt when she told the "rethinking" thing....I mean if Armaan had done that with her....she would have brought the roof down....tum saare mard aise hi ho....would have started

As far as Armaan trying to make her confess to escape AM fiasco....that is one probable answer....but like I said I doubt she will spare whether there is a public confession or not...in fact ironically he is only going to get publicly humiliated by her if this AM story comes after public confession

But Notty....did you see how this public confession thing got all serious....when he told her "Main tumse pyaar karta hoon tho bas karta hoon"....and she still goes on and says "You have told this to other girls".....the man must have been at his wits end....and finally said ok lets go tell your parents hoping that that should make her realise he is dead serious about her.....and he didnt say tell in front of all....he said lets tell your parents...

@Notty: In fact if Ridhima had given a sensible reason about why she does'nt want to go Public....I am sure Armaan would have listened....by saying his behavior is making her rethink.....was a very wrong thing to do...really hurting...

Hey Shalin, Notty and Sarn! anyone else around? 🤗

Originally posted by: sarn7

Hello Ladies of the Knukkad,
I see there was a lot ranting and raving about R and her BIZZARE behaviour. Its her behaviour "jo sochne par majboor karta hai". I am not going to repeat everything that you ladies have already said but man! whats with the creatives, on the one hand she is running behind strangers in a gurudwara so she can get married fast and on the other hand she can't tell her parents about them!!!! And her line about " why aren't you running behind me any more" WTH???!!!! 😲😲
And our dear Doc A... he was looking so anguished in the precap... you just want to reack thru the tv and hug him, poor soul.

I have 2 questions for you ladies, I would love to hear your opinions.

1. Lets forget we are talking about our Armaan for a second. what do you think about a young and budding relationship in which the guy is given to grabbing and shaking the girl when he is really upset or frustrated with her. (I am assuming that this was the behaviour the R was referring to, I can't think of anything else)
Isn't it normal for a girl to be concerned about it? good point! n yes, it's normal for a girl to be concerned about it! but i think it's just because of Ridz that Armaan behaves like that sometimes! i mean, come on yaar, put yourself in his shoes for once n then think.. what would've you done?

it's really an irony that he has fallen for such a 'seedhi saadhi' girl !

Again, I am bring this point up in general not within the AR relation.

2. When A keeps saying... "sabke samne bata do". What does this public confession entail? I am sorry, I am a nuts and bolts kinda person. I immediately go on - how is the solution to be executed.
Does he expect her to make like an announcement announcement in a party with coworkers?
Most relationships, I know of, were outed just by how the couple were in public. Maybe you told a close friend or something. But u don't get up and say "hello everyone, I am in love with..." another brilliant point!! and i do completely agree with you on this one!!

Won't it be sufficient if there is a public show of affection, a close dance where they are so lost in each other that even the dumb and blind docs of sanjeevani are forced to notice and then maybe a few questions from atul and anjali and the truth is known to all.

This is to do with the public confession. Why she can't tell he family is beyond me. For god's sake the two sisters are so "close" that they still choose to share a room in that big house. Exactly!! She doesn't even tell her mom about it! maana ki she's a li'l confused about Armaan.. but why can't she tell her mom or angie about it! they might help her to get through her confusion!