Originally posted by: missFiesty_69
It's going to be a long essay, sorry :(
Bro mein batiti hoon why it feels disconnected, disappointed.
I don't know from where did you start watching par I started watching from after Shiddat, jab Patrakar 2.0 aatha haina tab se. Yeh alag baat hai meine do din mein baitke previous epis binge kiya 🤪
Arylie, they have this magic chemistry. Atleast mujhe hamesha wohi lagta hai. They were like same sides of the coin. Woh bolte haina same same different different? They are same but they are different too. Sometimes opposites bhi.
Aryan is a great guy. He was sometimes to good to be true. Yeh socho, he was mentor jisko ittu sa motive, fayda nahi hai ki he should help her. It was not rushed. They gradually fell in love (Aryan fell first but was in denial🤣 Imlie was totally oblivious to his heart eyes)
Aryan was not someone who spoke first and thought later. He was not mean, just practical and spitting facts. Tab bhi ek underlying kindness thi jo sirf Imlie ke liye tha.
Marriage was rushed but people stayed on because obviously confession toh dekhni hai. Marriage track pe hi I wasn't able to reconcile with the fact ki jis bande ne chotti chotti baat pe choices di, he's forcing her to get married zabardasti knowing her trauma. He sees her hurting himself but stays on. But uska niyaat Saaf tha par tharika bilkul galat. But he was very resentful in his apologies.
But here it's like he has been become an individual we don't even recognize. He's not the mentor Aru, Partner, husband who went with her every step of the way.
This is not the first time Imlie impulsive or "mahaan" (since some people love that word) you ask any Adilie fan, you know what they would say, Imlie shouldn't have made Malini stay at their house. Wahaan se issues start hue. Yeh alag baat hai Patrakar used to taunt her (idk My friend told me this). But it costed her her husband, kyunki wahi Malu didi hi uski Dishman ban gayi. Yahan bhi knowing she's a manipulative bit** she instead of being aware, usko Ghar bulati hai. She knows Malu didi ne uski jaan lene li koshish ki, she would have become the victim of a prostitution gang agar Aru na hota toh. Par usne yeh sab socha nahi she was too focused on Gudiya.
I won't say she was being mahaan. Woh aisi mahual mein Pali badi where she was taunted for her very existence. When she a child was mis treated uski aankhon ke saamne, despite knowing in mind's eye that Malu didi was manipulating her, she went ahead into the trap head on. Jo couldn't succeed because Jo didnot know Imlie's weakness. What Jo could not do in weeks, Malini did it in days.
Aathe hai humari bhaiyaa ji pe. It's not like unki arranged marriage hui. He's aware of everything that Imlie does, thinks. Usne zabardasti shaadi ki knowing all her flaws, being head over heeels in love with her ( rolling my eyes). He knows woh unpredictable hai, idiot hai, gadhi Hai, mother Teresa ki chhati alaud hai.
But when it bit his own ass, he knew. And he was very cruel with his words. Jo humne pehle kabhi nahi dekha. He's very careful with his words. Especially with her. He never used words that could even potentially hurt her.
She was in a hurry, koi bhi hota. According to him she was impulsive. She shouldn't have run on the stairs. He felt ki she didnot trust him enough. They don't know it's Malini didi's saazish. So he felt it was her impulsiveness that killed his child. I know he didnot say you killed my child, but to her it implied the same meaning. And to top if off, he accused her of being hung up on her ex. Basically he confirmed what Narmada said albeit 50 epis or so later.
Aru Badal nahi saktha yeh baat nahi hai. Par itna Badal gaya ki we don't even recognize the person anymore. To me tbh It's like seeing a new love story with old faces and maybe a lil of old dynamics. And mujhe Aryan pe ratti bhar pe bharosa nahi. It's like he can say anything but I won't be disappointed because Jo kehna tha usne ke diya gusse mein, frustration mein, hurt mein. But still the words ? They shattered their relationship, the bhraam that Aryan was khara Sona, with a few blemishes of course.
Jo neutral hai they find it difficult to accept ki Aru aisa bhi bol saktha hai. I have a friend in IG who stopped watching. Same with their baccha dynamics. Somehow Arylie as parents were wholesome but not interesting. It become monotonous. Seperation Lana zaroori tha but they have completely destroyed the dynamics.
Woh magic tha Jo kahi ko gaya. Ab wapas milega ya nahi patha nahi. I'm hoping it will because I frankly love my gonchus. Jaise bhi ho.
Coming to the point, nobody wanted him to be stagnant or accommodating but the words, it was not Aru/ASR/Akkadbagga/Aryan speaking them. It was an Insecure husband venting. And maybe that's something that people cannot come to terms with because he has been very secure when it comes to Imlie and his bond. Pehle tha, but tab wajah thi. Ab nahi hai. You remember his words, insecure toh aap hote hain Mr. Tripathi. Technically he's also Insecure. But AKT ko wajah nahi tha. Aryan ko bhi nahi honi chhaiye. Because it's not like Imlie made no efforts to make him secure. But gusse ne aankh pe aisa parda dali ki saamne wale ki takleef nazar nahi aayi usko.
So woh log galat nahi hai ki they are saying yeh ki kya hua aachanak Mentor Singh Rathore ko.
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