~*Off we go Starboard side #13- Strictly Invitees only*~ - Page 96

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Originally posted by: s_kavya

Yup she is doing that ZDMN show.

Sab Is far better and yes no trp tension even if trps are not that good they give at least 6 months to a show. And I watch waghle ki duniya on that channel good humour and social message at the same time... You don't have to worry about any show mein oh ab kya hoga😆

I just caught a clip of Waghle ki duniya posted by DJ on her story. Oh my lord they are addressing the stigma and discrimination faces by women during their periods. Has this track started? I want to watch this part coz I have a lot of issues with the mentality of people around this subject. I'm lucky to have not faced any issue but know my friends who have to sleep on their floor or can't touch the cupboards even during the periods to take out their clothes. They need to ask someone else to take their clothes out, eat separately in different vessels. Yes, It's that bad.

Originally posted by: rubys07

Echoing Ren here, and I might sound like a broken record but introverts do have a weird wiring. You really can't put them in nice little categories because even within themselves, different people's introvert tendencies can differ significantly, that's why TL and ST can both be introverts and still not be the same kind of introverts.

If any of you met me in real life, you'd never guess I'm an introvert, ever. It's taken me more than a decade of practice to appear otherwise, and I still struggle everyday within myself. I'm the kind of person who will rehearse in their head at least 10 times before asking the stranger sitting next to them on a flight/bus to move, and that too when it's absolutely an emergency (true story😆). And that vibe check is so true too. Introverts can often change their behavior depending on the vibe they get from the other person.

Remember that joint IV where Shivi said "If someone's not mean to me why should I not talk to them?" but Sai was like "This person is not good you should stay away". Some of us are okay talking to anyone as long as they're not rude/mean to us but some just avoid the conversation altogether to stay away from the drama. I've done both on different occasions.

Ren, I felt that too seeing the story Esha had shared, that ST was just being polite but totally not interested, it's harder to decipher it when you're on the receiving end of it.

Ru, thanks for explaining this so well. I totally get you and I'm in a lot of ways similar. Totally relate.

Originally posted by: MistyMelody

maybe Diljot was still living alone since the time Shi left and it just worked out again

Maybe she will go house hunting to move in with certain someone and by the time she looks for a home , is staying with her friend....🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🙈🤞

She would know that Diljot doesn't have roommate then also naa ... the time she said she will be house hunting..Baat toh karte hee hongey woh 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I just caught a clip of Waghle ki duniya posted by DJ on her story. Oh my lord they are addressing the stigma and discrimination faces by women during their periods. Has this track started? I want to watch this part coz I have a lot of issues with the mentality of people around this subject. I'm lucky to have not faced any issue but know my friends who have to sleep on their floor or can't touch the cupboards even during the periods to take out their clothes. They need to ask someone else to take their clothes out, eat separately in different vessels. Yes, It's that bad.

Originally posted by: Arnaagar

Maybe she will go house hunting to move in with certain someone and by the time she looks for a home , is staying with her friend....🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🙈🤞

She would know that Diljot doesn't have roommate then also naa ... the time she said she will be house hunting..Baat toh karte hee hongey woh 🤷‍♀️

We are hopeless when its comes to SaiShi aren't we ?😆

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Originally posted by: s_kavya

Yup she is doing that ZDMN show.

Sab Is far better and yes no trp tension even if trps are not that good they give at least 6 months to a show. And I watch waghle ki duniya on that channel good humour and social message at the same time... You don't have to worry about any show mein oh ab kya hoga😆

yeah I also watch ZDM and Wagle, good ones, specially Wagle is super

I also watched love story 9 months ki (abruptly ended due to covid), india wali maa and ishk pe zor nahin, EKDV2 in recent times

Do you think this is because as a character she's always given the shorter end of the stick. There's no doubt that Raghav is a more stronger character, that has more layers, more emotions and Pallavi got served a bad deal. - I disagree to some extent. RR is a flawed character with so many bad traits of a human nature. P has always been shown as the perfect one with all good human qualities. P was never shown any less stronger than RR .... from the very beginning they both played along equally, tit for tat! P has been shown more intelligent than R in both M and E tracks. Before knowing the truth in M track, she did what she felt right (by leaving R and family, not trusting him etc) and then after knowing the truth she was the mastermind in defeating M, R followed and supported her plan. And now in E track also, after knowing the truth of E, P planned by faking death and scaring her as a ghost, and again R is just following her plan (even complimented her saying she is more intelligent than him). In alcohol and illegal business tracks, she has been shown as winner/successful one simply because her role is just the perfect one and RR's way of business is shown wrong & he was shown as an alcoholic. And she has been shown the smarter one too. Equal amount of screen spaces have been given to both throughout the show.

(on a personal note, I am happy that the FL has been shown the smarter, more intelligent, brave and righteous one)

Misty I think you misunderstood me. I'm not talking about whether Pallavi was more intelligent or a perfect adversary to Raghav. In terms of characterization, Pallavi was more or less like the standard template ITV female lead. While she had her flaws and wasn't overtly mahaan, there wasn't much character wise for her to showcase (specially in comparison to Raghav ka multiple layers). The makers literally didn't focus on her emotions and past and zoned through the hardships she faced as an orphan or a widow. In contrast you could literally see every emotion he went through because of his past. I'm not at all denying Sai ke efforts in making Raghav what he is today. He added so many quirky and cute attributes and nuances that lifted the character several notches over what was conceived on paper. That is totally to his credit. Shivi has also made Pallavi what she is despite the weak writing on paper. Hence I feel she was at a disadvantage writing wise.

Sai keeps getting so many edits and fan praise and in comparison Shivi hardly has any. So what happens if she promotes her character and not the jodi. He is promoting the jodi right, shouldn't that be enough?

- I feel Sai has earned it, by promoting his role and the show from the very beginning, by sharing fan edits daily and interacting with and replying to fans (time to time). He made sure to stay in touch with and connected to his fans. And of course, since past 3-4 months, he started to include Shi and her onscreen role also in his promotional activities. Many times if fans were down after a bad episode and requested/demanded to Sai to share some off-screen SaiShi moments, he did that and instantly that little gesture changed the whole mood of the fandom!

Just think of the word "tazbu", the moment he realized fans loved this improvised word, he took it to higher level by calling his fans tazbu gang, himself tazbu leader and Shi as special tazbu. Who would not love such a person off and on screen! He always valued fan love and thrive on it! All through these, RR's role flourished and garnered more n more attention despite being such a flawed characterization.

I still remember when he 1st time came live with fans, omg how awkward and shy he was the whole time. From there he came a long way! His lives became like party times for his and SaiShi/RaghVi fans in past 4-5 months.

Keeping aside social media, the scenario is quite opposite when it comes to solo interviews. There Shi comes across polished and totally in the flow, whereas Sai is uncomfortable or bored

Again I totally agree with you that Sai is the reason we all are here. Despite being an introvert and being super busy, he takes care of his fans, reads his DMs and tries to respond to his fans. His efforts at promoting Raghvi and Saishi by way of edits, interviews, videos, tazbu none of it can be denied. Agar shivi hoti sirf we would not get even 10pc of what we got. I agree with you that she excels in interviews and he excels in interactions with fans. They do complement eo in that way. Unfortunately, this is how Shivi is, she'll not give out details, be secretive, less active and promote only her character. There's nothing much we can do about it. When she'll get excessively bashed, you'll see TL come out in support of her.

Tomorrow when you will talk about iconic (for lack of a better word) characters, you'll never put Pallavi at the same level as Raghav. - It's only my believe but RR's role would not have gotten this much appreciation and recognition if it was not played by Sai. Absolutely, he was a perfect cast, koi aur nai kar pata Raghav Rao. Pallavi shayad koi aur kar leti but not Raghav.

I feel that is grave injustice to her calibre as an actor. She has gone out of the way to make Pallavi what she is (not taking away any credit from Sai as he is a superior actor without a shadow of a doubt) and has proved herself to be a strong actor despite poor dialogues or characterization. - both are amazing actors. the reason why P's role always lacked appreciation and Shi could not be the baby of the MHRW fandom because she did not promote her role enough, forget about RaghVi. It's social media era unfortunately, so fans do look out for these things. Sai brought out their personal bonding in front of the fans, which eventually made RaghVi even more popular. I agree with this too that she needs to be more active. If not promoting Pallavi atleast promote her own self. She hardly takes any clicks or posts stories on Insta. Now she's free from past 1 week still we dont see that she's interacting. Not sure pure din kya karti hai yeh ladki. She's going to not do well career wise if she doesn't start focusing on creating her own visibility and brand

This is just my view. I'm as inactive on SM and I also don't think about such things so deeply (I relate a lot to shivi because of her practical introvert side) so I can find no fault in her behaviour. None of her actions have any malice or ill intent, she's plain ignorant about this. - totally! like I said in my another reply today, she does not need to change anything under anyone's influence or to please anyone. She is what she is. We don't change ourselves only because some people want us to change, rather we change ourselves only if we are convinced within us that a change is needed.