Originally posted by: wendy25
It's easy to pin everything on fans and sometimes they might be guilty but yesterday that wasn't the case. Usually I condemn negative trends and media chaos, but yesterday it was fully justified and much needed, when it was out of extreme hurt.
Fans, media and few celebs were spot on and no, no one used Sid's name to retaliate, though that perpetrator surely tried to drag him.
Sidharth is, and will always stay as piece of my heart, but so will shehnaaz.
They were one entity for me, and many others so it's okay, if they lashed out on someone who took a dig at her, when she is going through the worst tragedy.
To be honest, it wasn't to prove some point or just for shehnaaz but from everyone out there who are trying to heal from a loss.
So mazak jisne banaya, he got a well deserved thrashing.
Then you haven't even got my point..here I m not even saying about what Asim said and whether fans should support or not..thats obvious and it's not even something to be argued about...Asim is not someone that I concern myself with..we all know what he is...The less said about him, the better... And Shehnaaz herself was not involved in any of this
My issue here is with the way they used Sidharth's name in it and yes I didn't like it..
You might be viewing this with different view, and I from different view.. I didn't even knew about matter and suddenly when I go online what I see is a trend supporting asim, trend bashing asim, trend supporting sana and why was that trend?? Oh sana attended a wedding and asim pointed her out bcoz she is dancing just after few months of.....
And then all I see about how asim tweeted about dance and then quotes after quotes of people asking him how can he release his songs after few days of his friends demise, how can he vacation after his friends demise etc etc ..thats's what all I saw.. ..using him going away and his name as an excuse to put down someone.. All I do on twitter is stalk sidharth's hashtag,read good things about him, feel happy, sad,emotional and just remember him..I didn't opened the trend , I got all this under his hashtag..And I didn't feel good seeing this..Personally it is triggering for me... For me that is tamasha.. I do have an issue with people taking his name in vain and while putting down someone..be it either Asim, shehnaaz or even rashami ,you dont even care about him, don't even respect him but dusro ko neecha dikhane k liye uska naam lena hai ...Aise toh asim was the best person jisse sidharth ne itna torture kiya but now usse bash karne k liye yeh sab use karna jaruri hai... I know I can't do anything about it or stop people from doing it but I can't help but feel frustrated and hurt by all this..
And then comes one influential handle with picture of the year, decade, century... Whatever... Everyone knows how hateful he is towards sid and always showed sana and Asim superior so that he can put sidharth down in any which way but suddenly he got reminded of Asim broken demeanour when he lost his "dear friend" .. Convenience....
Of course sana needs support and love and she should get all the love . There is nothing wrong in what she did or supporting her in what she did but sorry I have no soft feelings for the fans of either sana Or asim.. Call me vindictive, grudgeful but I have seen people who were giving Sid curses even till August and many according to whom asim was anytime a better friend than Sid and shading him even after he left us and yesterday they were giving reference of sidharth's friendship or sana's feelings for Sid just to put down asim ...same people from both sides giving gyaan on progressive thinking jinhone koi kasar nhi chodi bb14 k time saath alliance bana kar sidharth ki dhajiyaan udaane m just because of a task and even during bbb3...And in every situation..And of course when that jasmine clip became viral just few days before, we all know what they did..coming together and assassinating a women's character who is even married with kids just bcoz unhe sidharth ko neecha dikhana tha..now they are reminded about progressive thinking...what hypocricy..."Oh Sid was so right about her"..."Oh Sid was so right about him" blah blah blah. ..Such things are definitely a circus for me...
I understand feelings of SidNaaz fans, I myself love them a lot but at the same time sidharth for me is much much more... I just want him to be in peace and his name not getting dragged in any of such things and definitely not by those who didn't leave any chance to curse him but now suddenly ek side k liye ab sacha pyaar ho gaya and dusri side k liye sachi dosti..
Love shehnaaz, support her, give her strength to smile more and more and remember and take sidharth's name with happiness,tears and with respect, not as per the convenience.. That's all I want...
And Sorry for the rant...
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