Originally posted by: -FreeLancer-
Jesswa! I finally read all BR related posts that you posted! ok it is so beautiful! and I dont know what more to add..
except love is complicated - and it just has so many forms, so many definitions - almost as deep as sea and as wide as the sky. but sometimes its so confusing - like in case of Mahjabeen and Irtiza both - how they are able to love their soulmates without any expectations? its similar to how God loves us. Its connected to that unbreakable faith and trust in someone - without wanting anything back in return.
Characters like this - I am not sure if they do exist in real life you know. How can anyone just want someone's happiness without anything back in return - that can exist between a mother and a child or siblings..but Irtiza and Mahjabeen are not in that zone obviously. They are soulmates of their respective lovers. But still the kind of selflessness they exhibit - can it exist ? That is my question?
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Yes,it is possible.😳 - Sorry maine thoda confuse kiya yahan pe. now I have a proper explanation. because when I posted my view here I still was in dilemma. anyways, what I am saying is on what I have understood and experienced on both - myabe my words are not totally legal or certified.😆
So,as u said loved has all these forms and each is beautiful <3 - mohabbat is the first stage according to me, where u fall for their qualities and appearance and it is true, now here 'looks' words doesn't advocate any conventional beauty/face/color. I can fall for a dark man or a fair man, thats upto my choice,bas dil ko jo psand aa jaye😳 but ishq ke liye u not only love his/her qualities but also his lacks. jo ki I can understand very well now after watching so many shows in my life.😆 and exactly the way u said only maybe between a mother-child, in case of rare siblings or how God loves us, thats the bridge!😳 jab hume hadh se zyada ishq ho jaye tab woh person in many cases we dont get the person, actually mere liye Ishq dil mein sabr lane ka zariya hota hai. because if u dont fall gravely for anyone and he doesnt betray/leave u then u can never feel the depth of love.. and this kind of love forces a man to think if I would have loved my lord,toh how much happy I would have been in return. :') and he starts to rely on his lord, uska khuda uska mehboob ban jata hai tab..aur khuda ke har bande se usse pyaar ho jata hai😳
and about Mehzabeen and Irtiza, yes thats possible. u know they both have loved a human lik they worshiped those humans. I wont judge if it was right or wrong but they did. and u know whats the common link between these two lovers? that how their chosen loves were completely dependent on them.😳 Wali ho ya Saba dono hi khud kuch nahi thhe. MB and Irtiza both had no source of hope in life hence they made their lovers their jeene ka zariya,aur jab koyi khwaish/zaroorat se parre ho jata hai, jab koyi jeene ki wajah ban jata hai,shayad tab yeh possible hota hai😳 its so easily found in any song lyrics.. but the case is very rare. can u tell me when a person becomes ur resosn for living? when have none,u r a nobody..agar tab aapko koyi mil jaye toh shayad usse hi aisa ishq ho sakta hai😳
I am saying u all actually from my experience.😆 if u remember Hirwa,I told u about it already😉😆 and the thing which is not shown in these dramas, woh bhi main bata deti hoon aapko real experience se. jab aisa ishq haasil na ho,toh banda apne aap hi Allah ke taraf jata hai, yeh bande ki khwahish na bhi toh Allah ki hoti hai😳 phir uss bande ko farq samjah aata hai .. and his heart is healed again with the mercies, beauties, miracles and positive energies. and with this healed heart he can love everyone unconditionally then <3 tab kisi ek se usse mohabbat nahi reh jati,sab se hoti hai..Allah ki qudrat ki har cheez se hoti hai <3
and honestly what u r finding selfless is actually the most selfish thing ever.😆 ask me😆 cause u r so blind that u can not even see the negatives of that person,u can not even have the self esteem to protest,u let him crush ur pride,ur soul. just because u can't live it without him. u then fear to expect, cause deep down u know that expectations do hurt. u r so scared that u can not even think of it. MB and Irtiza were blessed that their loves were feeling same for them. magar jinke naseeb mein yeh nahi hota, woh ya toh puri tarah khatam ho jate hai yah phir unki rooh puri tarah se dhul jati hai <3
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