Cortana's Treehouse 1.0 Completed - Page 31

Originally posted by: Cortana

nah, it's not easy like that. i don't relate well to quotes. this one i believe because i have tried to walk a large distance and managed to do it. 😆

your life does not change drastically because of a quote or anything. your life changes because of other people and because of you. that's all. trust me, when you try to change your life drastically and someone comes up to you and go no, go back, then a quote is not helpful.

kind of, you definitely need to figure out what makes you happy and then find a way to achieve that. everyone has different things that make them happy. someone once told me that you can not rely on another person to make you and keep you happy. i kind of agree with them. i find other people and what they want can be one of the biggest hurdles in achieving happiness. also happiness doesn't exist. you are a whole lot of emotions: up and down. good and bad.

It is attitude that matters. Positive or negative. It is there that a difference is made.

Originally posted by: KrishnaPriyaa

It is attitude that matters. Positive or negative. It is there that a difference is made.

true. but sometimes there are limits for me when this kind of thinking doesn't apply. it's hard to explain but there are certain things that people say with very good intentions but it makes me angry because just changing the way i see things is not helpful. but attitude is important.

but you know what makes me the most angry, when people take advantage of me. when people want things from me, me to do things for them but when i come to ask for help or the likes suddenly they are too busy and can't help. that really gets me mad although i have come to understand you should never do anything for anyone expecting them to reciprocate. life lesson learnt the hard way.

Originally posted by: Cortana

but you know what makes me the most angry, when people take advantage of me. when people want things from me, me to do things for them but when i come to ask for help or the likes suddenly they are too busy and can't help. that really gets me mad although i have come to understand you should never do anything for anyone expecting them to reciprocate. life lesson learnt the hard way.

Originally posted by: KrishnaPriyaa

@bold- This is how I used to feel. Then when my eyes opened completely, I realised that the world is dark and people won't change. But i still hold hope for them.

the world is indeed dark and way more complicated then i thought it to be
true, there are some people who will never realise their wrongdoings and how they are
i used to have hope, now i have more of an apathy
i do not think about those people.

somehow i kind of forgave those people who have wronged me but i do not wish anything good or bad for them anymore. i am more interested in doing other things than holding onto their memories and what they did to me. they're hardly repentant so why should i waste any time and energy on them?

Don't bother about them. Just move on with your life. That is what we have to do anyway. It is better to acknowledge, let it out, and move on.

Originally posted by: KrishnaPriyaa

Don't bother about them. Just move on with your life. That is what we have to do anyway. It is better to acknowledge, let it out, and move on.

no i'm not bothered about them anymore. they'll pop up again in their own times but all that stuff is behind me now. but i do have one last thing to do before i focus on the next part of my life.

i'm not exactly looking forwards to this next chapter in my life, there isn't any enthusiasm or anything but let's see what ends up happening.

you doing anything good today?
are you studying or working?

Studying. You?