Originally posted by: Marci
@first bold...That is one of the ultimate disrespect you can accuse a woman of!
From day 1 I kept feelings as they always disdained Aliya just to show either the wrong situation, dowry, Zain drinking, her daughter being kidnapped and lost again, Suri's craziness, anything and everything Aliya has Always been the Puppet!!! She always got scorned left and right even though nothing was her fault and yet the naieve girl always thought about her family and relation's above herself!
@second bold...Exactly my point, I wanna see the strong Aliya who knows what rights and wrong she has done and I want her to speak on behalf of herself. A lot of people want Zain fighting for But I wanna see her fighting for her self and Zain being her foundation and support! He merely has to dismiss every allegation towards and be her rock while she blasts Suri and Zubair and even Rehan if he points a dirty finger towards her!
I'm sick and tired of the sacrificing lamb all Telly Bahu's have to be, I don't give a shit if your MIL, first is the judgement of your character then its the worth of the title which you possess. Why should a b*tch like Suri receive any type of respect? Because she's MIL and elder, BS, everyone is wrong and does wrong and there is nothing wrong in pointing that out!
I guess all I want is for Aliya to slap the shit out of Zubair because if I was in her position I would've been slapped him and warned him. As for Suri, I know she can't physically harm her but she should give her an earful and walk out BV with her head up high like a BOSS!
No one should be treated like a doormat or dirt!
Lol who is gonna hear our preaching man! 😆
First can I just say our first ever decent conversation, I am so proud of us! 😆
and Second if no one listens to our preaching than we will make them, TYVM!
Ditto a million to the millionth power🤣 why does she always have to sacrifice and not one person has the courtesy of mentioning it or to even thank her, Like are you kidding me? Is she not a human, does she lack anything? I am sorry its you the people who lack not her. That girl does not even allow her husband to say anything against his family when they point fingers at her character. URmm not fair.
Exactly Zain should slap definitely, but its high time, Aliyah speaks for herself, enough of the respect thing, its no use when the other doesnt give a shit and TBH you cant survive in this world being that generous and selfless.
HONESTLY so am i, its annoying irritating unrealistic selfless, degrading self respect and so much more. I dont understand what they get by showing that, how do expect the mentalities of people to change, they wont like ever. I feel like people are just too hooked up with the romance when they are obnoxiously ignoring the major faults such as Woman Rights. Even before the confession, in the party, Zain man-handled her and did not allow her to justify herself, but what she forgave and they lived happily ever after! No cannot be, and all he said was sorry, it isnt enough for when a man just comes and degrades a woman for when she isnt even at fault.
You know the upsetting part is that, this is what clicks with the audience, this is what they enjoy and this is what gets the makers TRP's. Its an ugly fact but when a person tries to bring in new ideas, they fail because who wants to see change, who wants to change everything, who cares if the woman next door is sexually abused every night by her own husband, who cares if the lady the in front is getting beaten up by a man. The mentality of the people in this world is sickening. In my home city, NY, its supposed to be a safe neighborhood where you pay extra taxes for more police, a girl got raped behind a school and no one knew about it and even if any pedestrian heard it, they ignored it and went on. I might be getting too technical but why blame me when this is what they show and this is what i get out of it, I mean I love BI because it was more different than other shows, Zain did stand up for his wife and he did believe in her regardless of the other twenty people against her.
I just wish, a sense of frustration is shown this time not only by Zain (coz he knows that already), but also by Aliya for people making a tamasha out of her. To hell with her Family Seva, and Family remains United philosophy. By becoming a tamasha herself, she undermines her husband's dignity in that house. That is what even Aliya has to realize.
I need Aliyah to initiate some reaction outta herself, because she has self-respect and its about time she stands up for it. I couldn't agree with you more, Zain was already fully aware of his mother's thoughts about her, and this time it would be high time when we get a huge reaction out of him, because it is need now. Why does the girl have to take the BS, take care of everything, save everyone's ass and also keep her mouth shut?
I think it would set Suraiya right if Zain really left with Aliyah and began his life from scratch, perhaps it would even teach Suraiya a lesson of not do wrong with another woman,
Of course they arent going, they have the time and the money to show her getting abused and harassed, when Zubair picked her up in the kitchen regardless of her repeating to put her down, but they cant show a man standing up for his wife, taking a stand in front of his mother to depict what is right and what is wrong.
What I have always failed to understand in reality or television is why do mother in laws forget that they have daughters and the same could happen to them or they were a daughter in law once too?
BI was always meant to be a light heart-ed show where drama would never be taken to an extent, but clearly not.
I think i have repeated myself like ten times but w.e.
She needs to be #LIKEABOSS
Edited by _Littles12_ - 11 years ago
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