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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: The.Lannister


sumit ne bhi sath chod diya bechari ka😆



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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: The.Lannister


MOLESTERS OR HEROES?


Salman Khan in Kick and Akshay Kumar in Holiday continue the Bollywood tradition of sexually harassing their heroines under the guise of humour and romance


He lifts up her skirt with his teeth and follows her, surrounded by a group of men. Is he the obscure scum of the streets? No, he is Devi, the protagonist of the film Kick currently playing in theatres. She is the heroine Shaina. And those other men are dancers accompanying the lead pair during the song Jumme ki raat. When Shaina realises what Devi is up to, she briefly shows annoyance. But hey, he's the hero, not the designated villain of the formulaic template, so of course a few shots later she is dancing with him. You see, staying angry for long is not in the script if the man who lifted your skirt without permission is played by Salman Khan.

Sexual harassment, did you say? Not in the eyes of mainstream Bollywood where molesting a woman is considered cute, sweet and the epitome of courtship, if the molester is the hero of the film.

Khan is not the only male star practised in the art of mistreating women on screen under the guise of humour and romance. In this year'sHoliday, Akshay Kumar's character Virat aggressively pursues an uninterested Saiba (Sonakshi Sinha). One day, he sees her at a traffic signal, positions his motorbike's mirror to catch her reflection and kisses it, revelling in her outrage when she spots him. The song Tu hi to hai is filmed on Virat unrelentingly following Saiba, even grabbing the unwilling girl and kissing her. Despite her anger at his behaviour, she is soon shown falling for him.

From roughing up the heroine in Holiday to joking about rape in Tees Maar Khan, from calling the girl "maal" (hot stuff) in Rowdy Rathoreto pinching her waist with fingers that act of their own accord, Kumar has done it all. His irrepressible digits in Rowdy Rathore seem designed to assure the male audience that they cannot be held responsible for sexual misdemeanours; a metaphor for boys as helpless testosterone-ridden creatures who cannot help themselves when faced with female beauty. Or as Samajwadi Party chief Mulayam Singh Yadav infamously said with reference to rape: "Boys will be boys. Mistakes happen."

Despite these repugnant examples, it's only fair to point out that Bollywood's molester heroes are no longer as common as they once were. When the physically invincible men of the '70s and '80s gave way to the gentler romantic hero of the mid-'90s, harassment as courtship did not disappear from Hindi films but it did decline.

In the glory days of Dharmendra and Amitabh Bachchan, gaining a woman's affections by badgering her was the norm. In the 1975 classicSholay, Veeru (Dharmendra) gropes an evidently uncomfortable Basanti (Hema Malini) while teaching her how to shoot. In an endorsement ofharassment as the way to a woman's heart, at one point he even sings, "Koi haseena jab rootth jaati hai, aur bhi haseen ho jaati hai (A woman's beauty is enhanced when she sulks)" " an initially enraged Basanti is in love by the end of the song.

The cleverest way of appeasing audience misogyny has been to show a womanbeing ambiguous about her consent. Humin 1991 comes to mind. Through the songJumma chumma de de, when Tiger (Bachchan) demands the kiss she promised him, Jumma (Kimi Katkar) has irritation written on her face but her body speaks another language. She stands on a table, lifts up her skirt and thrusts her groin at Tiger gawking at her from below. Can there be a more overt representation of a woman's desire for sexual intercourse? The she-asked-for-it defence for the subsequent treatment of Jumma is already written into the scene.

Sometimes, the hero's sexual harassment has been projected as playfulness. Sometimes it has been given the form of undisguised hostility. In Karz Chukana Hai (1991), model scout Radha (Juhi Chawla) photographs Ravi (Govinda) bathing. He takes revenge by sneaking into her bathroom to shoot her showering, and posts her nude pictures on their college bulletin board. Note how the script had the woman indulging in reprehensible " even if highly improbable " behaviour that could be deemed his provocation'.

Remember though that the hero is both protector and molester. Devi inKick bashes up goons harassing women, just moments after he himself is shown pestering an unresponsive Shaina. Perhaps the logic is that she is marked out for him, therefore he has a right to do as he pleases with her. Or as Shahid Kapoor's Vishwas sings to Kajal (Ileana D'Cruz) inPhata Poster Nikhla Hero: "Khali peeli khali peeli rokne ka nahin. Tera peecchha karoon toh tokne ka nahin... Hai tujhpe right mera (Don't unnecessarily object when I chase you... I have a right over you)." In a society that echoes this view of a man's right' over his woman', imagine the extreme optimism of anti-rape campaigners who persist in making an issue of marital rape.

Over the years, Bollywood has justified such films by pointing out that they reflect reality. Well, shouldn't cinema condemn rather than glorify regressive realities? No doubt bad films will not turn good men into molesters overnight, but considering the extent of gender segregation in vast sections of Indian society, this irresponsible portrayal of man-woman relations has the potential to perpetuate existing misconceptions and indoctrinate impressionable youngsters who lack guidance in these matters at home and school. Dear Khans and Kumars, do you hear us?



it was just a 2 sec scene (i hate fevicol se song not this one..both has salman) for god sake writer should also publish that movie mein girl molested ka scene hai where whole public is doing nothing to save the girl but devi (salman)saves the girl n did dhulayi of stupid guys n aam janta who were not saving the girl..it was nyc scene...


yesterday i saw kick too😳😆frndship day night out😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
ok shru tarak mehta ka tym ho gaya...bye bye gn n sd🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
i really hate that they show these guys doing mawali things to patofy girls. gives out a wrong msg imo. tv pe bhi ab yahi hai. pin a girl against a wall & intimidate her...fan girls think this is romance. it is not! this is intimidation & such men deserve to be kicked
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Shedevil25

ok shru tarak mehta ka tym ho gaya...bye bye gn n sd🤗


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Posted: 11 years ago
🤣 @ red

btw KJO & SLB ka kya issue hua hai?


Sanjay Leela Bhansali has gone into a space of negativity and darkness: Karan Johar

Here is Karan Johar's interview with Niranjan Iyengar on the chat show, 'Look Who's Talking'. Karan was at his candid best, talking a lot about his personal life, career, Shah Rukh Khan, and his colleagues.

While he mentioned that his relationship with Shah Rukh Khan has not changed, he admitted that he no longer wishes to associate himself with Sanjay Leela Bhansali.

Here are some extremely interesting excerpts:

On friends that he has let go of

I have become indifferent to things that I was giving too much importance to. Some people. I've let go! I've let them go out of my life! I feel like I've cleaned the clutter, and unfortunately a lot of those are people. I solidly believe if you lose me in your life, its your loss. Because, I am all about the people I know. I am all about the relationships I build. All the people, who have forced me to let go of them, I believe its their loss. That is the only thing I will say with arrogance. You lose me, you've lost a HUGE amount of something concrete in your life.

So is one of these friends SRK? He says no!

On SRK

I feel very exhausted about constantly justifying what I feel for him or what he feels for me. I think the world has made this relationship go through too much turbulence. If it was left to just him and me, we would always be the force we were to reckon with. Unfortunately, other forces have come in and tried to dilute the impact of our force. It has made sometimes, things a bit awkward. At the end of the day, if he calls me today and asks me to drop my life and career for him, I would without a beep, without a thought, If he asks me to be there for me for one week, one year, ten years, I would do that unconditionally. I think he would do the same for me. When I spoke about broken relationships, there are others I have let go of, but not Shah Rukh.

On Sanjay Leela Bhansali

I have an indifferent relationship with Sanjay Bhansali. It used to be love and appreciation, but over a period of time, I think his expectation of me was not something that I was matching up to. Today I just think he's gone into a space of negativity and darkness. I am sorry, but I have no space...because I am all about light and sunshine. He is according to me, an immensely talented man. But I just don't want to deal with him anymore. It is as simple as that.

Well, Karan at his candid best, isn't he? Thoughts

Edited by The.Lannister - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
People have made gifs on this shit?😲
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Posted: 11 years ago
🤣

Man Shoots Himself In The Head After Trying To Take A Selfie With A Gun

The 21-year-old had been drinking and didn't realize the pistol was loaded. He died on his way to the hospital.

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Posted: 11 years ago
& anushka sharma again from NH10
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Posted: 11 years ago
@kj-he is is crazy😆yep this guy is all about li8 n sunshine

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