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Cherylann

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Aap Arnav Singh Raizada ho ya Uske sar Chada 104 bhukaar 😉

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bridgeofdreams

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: tvpal007
Tumhe chot lagi hai

Bahut dard ho raha hai :(

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Meena

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: rith123

That being said. My opinion is that it seems like a giant excuse to cheat and not feel guilty about it. I know couples whose spouses have strayed. But strayed once. And they have made their marriages work. I don't know if their marriages are stronger, but on the outside everything looks fine.
But having multiple affairs and saying that it is to make your marriage stronger just seems like the worst excuse ever. Just have an open marriage then.

Originally posted by: Chokri_ASR

I started reading it then stopped because I could not digest what she was saying...then I went back and read the whole thing (stupid me, because now I am all roweled up, this is absurd and utter nonsense...

how can one even phantom to think this is ok? what happened to the wedding vows one takes, about being faithful does that not mean anything? And they have kids...Just ridiculous...😡

Originally posted by: ...ASB100...

This is disturbing, truth be told. She says she loves her husband, but I fail to understand how "love" allows her to be physically intimate with other men. Doesn't love bring exclusivity with it into the equation? This whole thing is hard to digest...

Originally posted by: EXPELLIARMUS

First off, I firmly believe in the saying, to each his own. If it works for you, then who am I to throw stones? But...and this is a very strong but, only and ONLY if you aren't harming anyone else in the process.
And that's my biggest problem here...the kids.

Are they even really theirs? I know she said the sex is always safe, but we all know that it isn't infallible. And even if they are, are they really unaware of what is going on?
How do you even justify that? How do you leave your kids and go out with someone who isn't your husband? How does their father do the same? I don't get how they have come to terms with this at all.

And isn't she harming herself too?
I know that she said that she's been doing this for a while , but doesn't the knowledge of her husband's infidelity hurt her deep down inside?

How do you even come home and sleep beside someone when you've just had sex with someone else, and so has the other person? How can you call this 'love'?
Doesn't love mean faithfulness and trust? Or is that ridiculously old-fashioned in these new times of 'open marriages'?

And most of all, I simply don't understand why or how this makes her marriage 'stronger'.

I have a feeling that one day, one of them is just going to leave. And then the other will be left to pick up the pieces.
And the kids will suffer, which is what matters in the end.
I wish they'd see the light before that.

OK rant dun.

First off, sorry for disturbing you guys! I did talk about this with a couple of other friends on IF, but I was so bothered by it personally that I couldn't let it go.

I have to say I agree with all of you on this- I'm not married, but from my perspective, marriage has always signified fidelity and committing yourself to one person. And I believe that is the thing that most people my age believe- but shows like House of Cards, where the main leads do have an open marriage, have caused people like her to come out.

To me- and as Rith, and the other people I discussed this with pointed out- this sounds like she's justifying something she isn't okay with. Juhi Di highlighted that she's hurt by the knowledge of her husband's infidelity. She does get jealous, but claims that if she and her husband sleep together, it reminds him she's his wife. I don't know- but to me, this sounds like she's grasping at straws to explain her jealousy and insecurities. Especially because she says that in the end, she's happiest playing on their floor with her husband and kids- why do this then? Just because your husband does?

If I was a mother, this is not something I would want to do in front of my kids. At some point, they're going to start asking questions, and ask why Mommy doesn't always come home at night- although she says that she does, it seems like a child would pick up on these things.

Ugh. I don't even know. This article hit me somewhere I can't place, and now I'm grappling with this idea. 😆

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Cherylann

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: bridgeofdreams

Bahut dard ho raha hai :(

Mat jao

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Cherylann

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Arnavji is giving womankind a difficult time🤓

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Mahnoor

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Posted: 11 years ago

#647

There are readers like me who are lazy like hell...
They go on a HIBERNATIOn mode for 5 days n come back n start wondering that why isnt chap 10 posted yet...
Then their eye catches the sight of ''Link to Thread 9'' n They rush to the link...N tot heir extreme astonishment they find out that they have missed 3 yess T:H:R:E:E thread all together...So they mourn over the loss n With a heavy heart start reading Chapter 10...
P.S I love U juhi...