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_SenbonZakura_ thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
How is everyone?

I am going to ask something.. Answer me, will you?
Vaish24 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
you will get an answer from me only...
coz i am only here looks like...
_SenbonZakura_ thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
Alright, teach me how to be mature.
Vaish24 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: _SenbonZakura_

Alright, teach me how to be mature.


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insaan dekhke pucho... 🤣

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vaise kya huya?

fought today kya?
_SenbonZakura_ thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
yeah. did.

I am just tired. I want to change myself. I want to be mature. I want to be someone who thinks before they speak.
Vaish24 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
You also know for a fact that even i don't think before i speak...
and the same applies to you...

i don't hink that you can change that trait of yours..

if i am in the place to give advice then i would just say ki change the language in the sense that words don't come out wrong..

getting me?

and you are mature in ways people aren't ... always remember that... life taught you that... so being blunt... impulsive is your way of compensating those times...

I do that... i compensate for that time with that..

and just remember... you being impulsive is just that... dekhna usse accha feel hoga,,,

baabu u earned the rights to be like that... that you live your life on those terms...
_SenbonZakura_ thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
I don't think after being married it'd be good to blurt out anything bluntly.

I will change. I promise myself that. Would you be a guide of sorts and just remind me once in a day?

That I need to really become Mature. Its annoying how I take things to heart. I really don't want to do that anymore.

You know when I am in a fight, I lost the ability to write even.. Everything is disturbed. And I don't want to be like that anymore.
Vaish24 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
See honestly I don't have any qualms in reminding you that you should become mature...
But that would be lying through my teeth...

I would agree to the point that you come out as blunt and brash... but thats your trait... the strong headed you that is your trait... you cannot change a trait of yours... that makes who you are...

just imagine without the bluntness and brashness ankita manchanda will be ankita manchanda?

See i know marriage changes things... And my mom says with time one learns everything... you will also... once you will be at your in laws place, the responsibility will seep into you... teh matureness that you are looking out for you... you will get it...

plus taking things to heart is a strong thing... it may come out as a weakness at many places... but it is a strength... makes you realise how much you care... and how much passionate you are about things...
_SenbonZakura_ thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
Ankita Manchanda is going to be Ankita Ruparelia. I think the brash and the blunt need to die.

You either break or you mold. What would you prefer for me?

People can change their traits. Its not that hard.
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Posted: 11 years ago
But you are missing out the key factor in here: 'Ankita'
No matter what it entails with it: Manchanda or Ruparelia...

And change... is a part and parcel of the life...

Every naturalist says that... and it is the truth...

But you are mistaken there baabu... Breaking leads to a new you... Molding leads to an improved you...

But what lies in the crux is the fact that it remains you...

You cannot expect a new situation would come.. and something inside won't you change... thats not possible..

I accept that you should work on some traits... But what are you suggesting is revamp..

Don't let it get to you... Whatver happened... remember life is wired in a way to work out... you molding is also wired that way... and i firmly believe... situation makes us mold accordingly... you don't have to make an effort to do it... it happens naturally... it will make you mature and with the right amount when the time would be there...

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