anyway here's what they were talking
"Ben: ...*the starting got cut, but i am sure he was saying Sweetheart to Martin😛* saying sweetheart, what the F is that all about. I don't know.
Martin: ...the actor.
Ben: On a particular day in November, how old was he ?
Martin: Nonono, how old did he become in March this year ?
Ben: I didn't even know who John Duttine *An actor, obviously😆* was, I thought you were making s*it up.
Martin: I assumed you'd probably been christened by him.
Martin: I thought you knew every actor over 50. I thought there was a by-law."
Aaanddd Ben was all giggly after that😆😆
By the way the mentioned actor is 65 years old now hahaha