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Posted: 12 years ago
Hey - thanks so much for replying! Unfortunately, no - the news is not too good. I am kind of acting as her messenger but I don't know where she is now. There is a lot of weirdness in that family - I don't know how much she told you guys. Bhakti's husband Hari was away for a while and during that time - as far as I can tell - the family was actually scouting a different wife for him. There were issues with Bhakti not bringing enough money originally - I don't know the whole story. I did interviews with this family and a bunch of others in the area so really I'm kind of piecing gossip into what it seems like happened. Bhakti was a pretty unusual girl compared to the ones I usually interview. She was certainly the only one who ever asked to read my soc textbooks! But she also took a lot of crap from her family - there was definitely not a whole lot of love there! She had bruises all the time. We're not even allowed to interfere with that kind of thing because of human subject protocols - I know that probably sounds like a cop-out it's just the grad school rules. At a certain point I think Bhakti got wind of the fact that the family was planning a replacement and I think she must have run with the kids. She had recently found out she was pregnant again and I think there was also some pressure on her to abort the baby. I don't know where she is, or even IF she is - but the last time I did see her just passing through she mentioned that you guys were pretty much the only people she talks to. She is really fond of the people on here. I think she would have said something if she could have - I actually don't know what happened to her and I thought I'd check with you guys.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Karen,

Bhakti did pass me on the information that there is a US Sociology student who is interviewing them. Some time back late Jan or early Feb. Are you the same one ? Now coming to the facts...Since Jan this year, definitely things are not going the right way for her. Not sure but going by what you tell me, can't stop feeling that her in-laws might have been scamming her. However since she is a Dhillon (meaning a Punjabi there) I do feel, some kind of scamming is going on there. Look I don't know much about her, and know her only through my instinctively reach out to her sensing a lot of vibes she gave me of all sorts. I just hope, she is safe, if she really ran away before they tried to do something to her, hope she reached out to a shelter...God!! Why didn't I tell her that she can go to woman's cells...But she did say, she is been looking for information online to bounce when worst came to worst for her. Now I never got why she was given a laptop to reach out to this forum, but did not have a mobile etc. We did know there are lot of unsaid things there and the virtual pen-friends system (online friends these days) doesn't much help at real.

The last she interacted with us was on March 4th. Does that help you ? And she is pregnant with 3rd child ? Am I getting you right ? Just assessing the sense of time between the time machines we both are in with regards to our concern, which is Bhakti here.

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God!!! My prayers to you. You heard me what I wished from you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Karen:

As of now, you are the only person who actually knows where she lives. You could probably get some clue about her whereabouts since you are in Delhi. People don't just disappear into thin air, it is a serious matter.
I have given her my number since I am in India. If you get any information, you could contact me. I don't know anyone in Delhi, but my mom and mother in law have contacts with NGOs and will be able to provide the right people she could go to for help.

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Posted: 12 years ago
Right now my prayers are with Bhakti. Karen, please, I know this might be too much to ask, but if you find out anything, when you have the time, please let us know if she is safe.
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Posted: 12 years ago
So much have been happening with Bhakti. We could all see something is not right at her end. I pray that wherever she is, she is safe and secure. Karen, Please do let us know if and when you get any information about her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hey - it's Karen. Wow I'm really touched seeing your guys' concern for Bhakti. I'm sorry I have no news for you, but I will do some interviews again next week and I'll see if anyone knows anything. It's hard for me to get into this thread from my computer so I'm giving you guys my email - I hope that isn't crossing any weird boundaries or anything - there are a lot of rules governing what I'm allowed to do as a researcher, but I think here I'm just more of a concerned person. Anyway if anyone hears anything please don't hesitate to give me a shout at kjessupsocio@gmail.com. Thanks a lot.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bhakti2

Hey - it's Karen. Wow I'm really touched seeing your guys' concern for Bhakti. I'm sorry I have no news for you, but I will do some interviews again next week and I'll see if anyone knows anything. It's hard for me to get into this thread from my computer so I'm giving you guys my email - I hope that isn't crossing any weird boundaries or anything - there are a lot of rules governing what I'm allowed to do as a researcher, but I think here I'm just more of a concerned person. Anyway if anyone hears anything please don't hesitate to give me a shout at kjessupsocio@gmail.com. Thanks a lot.


Thanks Karen.


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bhakti2

Hey - it's Karen. Wow I'm really touched seeing your guys' concern for Bhakti. I'm sorry I have no news for you, but I will do some interviews again next week and I'll see if anyone knows anything. It's hard for me to get into this thread from my computer so I'm giving you guys my email - I hope that isn't crossing any weird boundaries or anything - there are a lot of rules governing what I'm allowed to do as a researcher, but I think here I'm just more of a concerned person. Anyway if anyone hears anything please don't hesitate to give me a shout at kjessupsocio@gmail.com. Thanks a lot.


Thank you very much. Please do let us know if you hear anything.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Hi, people here. This will sound convoluted, but I am writing for Karen Jessup, who was apparently writing for Bhakti Dhillon. I am a U.S. based NGO rep working for SOS India, and I know Karen through my husband, who is her academic advisor here in the U.S. Because my organization has several branches in Delhi which specialize in family strengthening, which is the term for aid delivered to families who otherwise might consider abandoning their children, Karen asked me to put the word out about Bhakti and her kids in case anyone might have seen them. I am not in India right now or I would have helped Karen make the rounds. She is till trying to find out what happened to Bhakti, and her story has got me involved because many of these scenarios do not end happily in any way. At this point, we are just trying to establish whether Bhakti is still alive. If any of you hear ANYTHING at all from her we would SO appreciate an email, either to kjessupsocio@gmail.com, or you can get me at bucksers@gmail.com. Thanks a lot in advance. -Susan
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bhakti2

Hi, people here. This will sound convoluted, but I am writing for Karen Jessup, who was apparently writing for Bhakti Dhillon. I am a U.S. based NGO rep working for SOS India, and I know Karen through my husband, who is her academic advisor here in the U.S. Because my organization has several branches in Delhi which specialize in family strengthening, which is the term for aid delivered to families who otherwise might consider abandoning their children, Karen asked me to put the word out about Bhakti and her kids in case anyone might have seen them. I am not in India right now or I would have helped Karen make the rounds. She is till trying to find out what happened to Bhakti, and her story has got me involved because many of these scenarios do not end happily in any way. At this point, we are just trying to establish whether Bhakti is still alive. If any of you hear ANYTHING at all from her we would SO appreciate an email, either to kjessupsocio@gmail.com, or you can get me at bucksers@gmail.com. Thanks a lot in advance. -Susan


Hi Susan,
The only way any of us can contact Bhakti is through this thread, so I don't know how much help we will be. we can only pray that she is safe with her family. I hope if you find out anything you can let us know.

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