Originally posted by: molten_lava
Ok, I'll share my own experience to volderbear to show that life isn't that bad.
Here's the story of my own parents.My dad's originally from a village and my mom from the city. They had an arranged marriage where my mom didn't know that he was from a village. So the first day of their marriage, my mom had the shock of her life. she lived in the village for six months. My dad was a banker though. So after my mom was pregnant with me, they moved to the city. And then life's struggle began. My mom was unhappy with my dad because there was always a clash in a city vs village thinking. I've grown up seeing violent fights everyday with my parents. Ok in the middle so many things happened. It was so bad, it went till the divorce stage. And I was asked to chose to whom I will live with.And then three years ago, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. And that changed everything in our lives. Even today my mom fights with my dad, but both love each other. Both realised that they loved each other only after this event.Inspite of fighting constantly for 20 yrs of marriage, my dad is still beside my mom on her death bed. So yeah, men aren't always bad and there is still hope.