Random Ramblers Timbuktoo#56!!!! - Page 14

Yeah, I just read the update too....LOL.....looks like a scolding for Suhana from her hubby dearest is on the cards for tomorrow....haha....I'm intrigued to see how this goes.

There is only one thing about SGP that bothers me for now - they have to show that other family members are sorry for their presumptuous behaviour as well. I don't want Suhana to be portrayed as being in the wrong always. She is a human being too, and not ridden with flaws. She shouldn't have to go back grovelling for the mistakes that have no clear right or wrong. Like the Elesh episode. Agreed she was rude, but then Elesh too was totally out of line. First impressions from the bhabhi episode tells me that the entire Kashyap clan was too enthusiastic. They should've checked with her before proceeding to cook something for her friends. It is only fair. Of course, Suhana shouldn't have discounted their efforts either. But there is no clear right or wrong here, and yet Suhana will get scolded by Ishaan.

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

There is only one thing about SGP that bothers me for now - they have to show that other family members are sorry for their presumptuous behaviour as well. I don't want Suhana to be portrayed as being in the wrong always. She is a human being too, and not ridden with flaws. She shouldn't have to go back grovelling for the mistakes that have no clear right or wrong. Like the Elesh episode. Agreed she was rude, but then Elesh too was totally out of line. First impressions from the bhabhi episode tells me that the entire Kashyap clan was too enthusiastic. They should've checked with her before proceeding to cook something for her friends. It is only fair. Of course, Suhana shouldn't have discounted their efforts either. But there is no clear right or wrong here, and yet Suhana will get scolded by Ishaan.

Have you already watched the epi, LadyM??? Waise I'm going to wait to watch the epi fully to comment on this but I think this time the issue is not only about Suhana 'discounting their efforts' but also that she didn't realize the value of money again and ordered the food from outside....yes the family members are quite hyper sometimes and go overboard in wanting to help or do something nice for Suhana and her friends but fact remains that Suli/Sudi were coming over to THEIR house....that house is not just Suhana's....so she really can't have expected them to stay removed from preparing something when guests were coming over....if they were meeting somewhere else, then fine....it's Suhana's perogative....she can do whatever she wants....but when they were coming over to meet the family, it can't be expected that they wouldn't do anything...

Ofcourse there is no clear cut right or wrong...and even in the Elesh episode, the reason things became so ugly was cuz Suhana did go way out of line with the 'bakwaas' waali line she said....otherwise yes Elesh was at fault a lot too but to some extent, Ishaan's reasoning of how he said it all in ignorance does make sense.....he said a lot of stupid stuff but he said it in ignorance....what Suhana said was extra vicious....that is why she went and apologized that time.

This time, the issue is different I think....I think Ishaan might be scolding her cuz of the money issue as well....Suhana does need to start realizing that.

No I haven't watched the episode as yet. I am just saying genrally. Agreed she was vicious with Elesh, but he was wrong too. I don't mind Suhana apologizing to Elesh. She should have. But I wanted to see Elesh say express his apologies as well - like Ishika did. Anyhoo.

Re: Suli/Sudhi - Like I said, I haven't seen the episode so cannot comment much. But first impressions from the comment seemed to bring up the point of people communicating with each other. If her friends are coming, she should've discussed with them, and likewise.

I know what you are saying Anu. And you are right. Suhana needs to learn lots of lessons from her in-laws. But the makers create situations that are not always black or white. Yet, Suhana is the only one being reprimanded or taught sense by Ishaan or others. I don't know... I guess I'm being impatient for others to see her good side or others coming back to her to say sorry for something inappropriate they've done. :-)

Rakesh is safe! But don't worry next week my fondness will work for him! *evil muh* Ohh Rakeshhh!!!! 😍

Hey Anu, LadyM! : D

Heyy Nimrah! *hugs* How are you? And how was your weekend?

I'm great LadyM! :D Had an okayish weekend.. It was raining.. so enjoyed it.. but was stuck at home so that's the downside.. 😆 and you?

My weekend was not bad yaar ... I was complaining to Anu how over stuffed I was because my friends invited my parents and us over for khana and all ...

Aww lol LadyM.. but it must have been fun at least! 😆

@ Anu - Ohh I just saw that post of yours.. 😆 Lol true, SRK calls everyone and everything beautiful.. 😆 I find it weird honestly.. 😆 But I doubt his show is going to be much of a success.. 😆 this always kabhi kabhi.. sounds like a random teeny show.. 😕 😆

But I saw that Ruturaj performance. I love that kid, seriously I do! He's such a cool kid! and looks soo humble and sweet.. Lol.. Farah is a pretty good judge waise.. I liked her on Idol too!

Aww one of your fav got eliminated? Aww.. but between all these talented kids.. someone has to lose na.. 😆

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

I know what you are saying Anu. And you are right. Suhana needs to learn lots of lessons from her in-laws. But the makers create situations that are not always black or white. Yet, Suhana is the only one being reprimanded or taught sense by Ishaan or others. I don't know... I guess I'm being impatient for others to see her good side or others coming back to her to say sorry for something inappropriate they've done. :-)

I get what you're saying too, LadyM....they don't create black and white situations and usually both sides are at fault in the situations that arise....however Suhana usually makes a situation much worse with her lack of sensibility and that is why the past few times she's been the one to apologize.....however I don't think that means that the others don't see her good side and appreciate it....like even when Rajni was upset with Suhana's lack of tact and sense last time with the coffee v/s roti incident, she was still touched to see the Suhana-Meethi bonding and the schoolbag Suhana brought for her....the issue right now is about Suhana's lack of sense about the larger picture.....and the others aren't so egotistical that they won't say sorry if they feel they've done something wrong....it's just that the situation hasn't happened like that yet....I'm sure that time will come one day too....as of now, the focus is on Suhana learning some maturity and sensibility about how to handle certain situations.....like I was reading a post by someone in the forum just now and they pointed out that even if Suhana hadn't known about them making the food and all, once the food HAD been made, she could have just smiled and thanked them as well instead of stating that she didn't know they were going to cook the food so she ordered from outside....that is what I think Ishaan might explain to her too.....let's see......I also have to watch the epi still😆


Heyy Nimrah! Rakesh is safe this time?? 😆😆....Looks like you have to shower some more LOWE on him then😆😆