Originally posted by: arun-deeps
Woooooooooooooooow Lolzies really great topic of discussion n again very nice scenes U have chose for discussion!
Yeah lets start d very frst point of d discussion of d week i.e."Shri Ram's first night speech and vow of monogamy "
Wen Seetaji says dat her mother said to her dat " Ab aap hi mere parmeshwar hain" (frm now Ur husband is Ur God)....Ramji replies to dis dat U have heard Ur mother's percept...will U hear mine? Seetaji says that command me I m Ur servant....then Ramji's reply to dis is wat an ideal husband should say....Husband-wife's relation is not dat of a Lord n a servant...if we say dis, we r making dis very pure relation as a big burden of life. Ramji commands dat "Don't be my servant". He enumerates d qualities of an ideal wife....who is not only a wife bt a better half of her husband, bt is his friend, his companion who stands not behind bt beside her husband in d journey of life. He tells dat an ideal wife helps her husband in "acche karma" good deeds n stop him if she finds him going to d wrong side! But if we talk of today, this kind of respect?.has become an imaginative concept?.can we imagine a husband sacrificing all d luxuries of life?.just because his wife is not enjoying dem? Today, lust n greed is everything n for d sake of satisfying d same a couple does not care to maintain d ideal!
When a husband returns from his job he does not speak two words of luv to his wife n starts ordering her-"Bring me tea", "Bring me water". If he is indulged in some immoral activity, and his wife (if she is a good wife) tells him that he is doing wrong?.then he does not hesitate to loose hand on her. This means if U stop me frm doing wat I want, U'll have to suffer for it. So poor has become the mentality?.which has made the pure wedding band near to the heavy chains of prison!
It is not only d husbands who r d culprits in this regard?there r some so called 'ideal wives who just pretend to be ideal n they themselves want their husband to adopt some shortcut to success or?.some other way to become rich!
As far as polygamy is concerned....it was not treated as an evil....bt was like a tradition....also, d husbands were equally sufficient to carry out their responsibilities well! Bt d fear of 'Sauten' (Duniya ki koi bhi naari saut ....eg.wat Manthara filled to Kaikeiyi mata) was there among the ladies. Bt Siya-Ram r above all such worldly things...Ram luvs her Seeta so much that he can't even think of another wife...(eg.How bad he feels, wen he comes to know dat his subjects are planning for his second marriage....so that he gets a wife, who will sit beside him in Ashwamedh Yagya)
They only remember of spiritualism wen they grow old?n r knocked out by their son n daughter-in-laws?.because wat U sow?..returns to U?..
According to me, that feel, that luv n that care, n above all that respect for each other has been lost. The meaning of Ram-Siya ki jodi has merely confined to a good-looking couple?.today?..bt d true beauty resides in understanding one another n uplifting each-other in d field of morality, spirituality and humanity!
Guys! Wat I felt I wrote??hope U'll like it?.n if U find any fault in d words or action of Ur lill sis?then please forgive me?regarding me as Ur lill sis!
Will def post comment on d next topics evary day! One day one topic?😳Hope that's fine?😲
