Here r my views on DoTW:
Mata Sunayana's teachings:
Mata Sunayna's teachings regarding 'Naari Dharma should not be taken otherwise...😊in d modern times it may seem to supress woman rights n freedom....but it is not so....😊Mata Sunayna's each n every word is in d boundry line of 'Naari Dharm'.....😊that is wat our Shastras say for a woman....😊woman z so delicate dat for her d best thing wud be to serve her husband as her Lord.....this is her Puja........bt Shastra also say dat if women is delicate.....@ d same time she is as stable n strong as a mountain.....wen it comes to perform her path of dutty....bt d thing is frm where to get dis kind of strength? The answer is simple....it is not only for d women bt for d men too....that if we stay stable n confident on d path of our Kartavya, our Dharma....then Holy deityies also come to worship us..! A person who is so stable in his duties n Dharma....need not any blessings....because one who performs his duties well is in other way worshipping the 'Lord of Karma'....n he automatically gets all d powers....Btw dis should not be confused wth being a Naastik......becoz....1 who is doing his Karmas well is in a way...worshipping Karma....
As far as Mata Sunayna's percept is concerned....she says to support his husband in his 'Kartavya'.....n its self-explanatory....that Kartavya is supporting d good deeds or righteous deeds only n not d path of 'Adharma'. A woman maries n accepts another house.....so she ought to respect her in-laws....coz as U want Ur parents deserve to get respect frm ol those who belong to U...in d same way...its quite natural dat Ur husband feels dat his parents must get respect n luv frm his better half! Bt again it should not be confused by suppressing Urself....as in some cases d daughter-in-laws r innocent n polite bt...their husband n in laws r cunning n cruel.....then dis saying is applicable dat- "Adharm karne se bada paap adharm sehna hai"😊 So supressing d rights is not Naari Dharma....if Naari is Seeta...she is also Durga....⭐️
Bt as it is evident frm dis modern time.....dat beta-bahus often send their parents to Old age home as a woman is not willing dat d luv of her husband should be divided....no matter she is her mother or sister....then such things happen.
Besides this, Mata Sunayana saya that one should talk to her husband n king after seeing their moods......this is a very practical thing....I wud say why onlu King or husband....even if our parents r upset or they come angry.....we should give them some time to relax n chill themselves....bcoz as she says that evev if we speak right thing @ wrong time....it can cause a disaster. Even in our life we face many situations wen we feel like giving some time to ourselves whether its for retrospection or chilling down...n off-course ever1 has freedom to spend his time alone @ times of bad-moods!
Now, finally abt d last percept....we shud take dis 1 also as a very positive spirit....i.e. my percept...Guys! showing off is not a good thing @ ol whether we show it off for ourselves or our parents...coz show off n feeling proud of r two diffrent things.....coz I belive dat good things need no extra words to explain dat they r actually good...so why to show off? Why only in-laws even our own family n friends become frusutrated if everytime we sing songs in praise of "Humara ye Humara wo...."Like if some1 of U have seen A.G's movie "Saawan Ko Aane Do"... his bhabhi keeps on saying humare "Nakkhlau(Lucknow) me to.....n bla...bla...bla..."😆 dis inturn gives negative shade to Ur character...which z not a good sign esp in Ur married life! As far as forgetting of natal home is concerned...haan dis no one can do...becoz there r lots of sweet memories related frm d time we take birth to d time we grow young....esp in today's time how can we forget those parents who made us able...who gave us good teachings..? Bt Mata Sunayana is correct @ her point becoz, in prevoious times...once a daughter is gone to Sasuraal she is gone for her whole life...so it was better for a woman to accept her in-laws as her native family...bt in d same way..d bridegrooms were also supposed to accept d in-laws as his native family...as Shri Ram did...remember?😲....wen he comes to know dat Mata Sunayana is ill n he goes to meet Mata Sunayna after Seetaji's exile.....n makes her feel dat no maater Seeta z gone bt I m here as Ur son?😍 Wat more our own parents or in-laws want frm us? 😊
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