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Kavya

@Bazinga

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Posted: 15 years ago

#881

Originally posted by: sarah1024
Is anyone still watching MJHT? Any idea what's going on in that show these days? I just read a post in the forum about how Samrat has been DESPERATELY trying to get a kiss from Gunjan lately. Looks like we have a new Armaan on the block! Apparently Gunjan slapped him during his 394857396536th try - which is something Riddhima never did! 😆

Noooooooooooooooooo! I KNOW how this is gonna go - I am sure Gunjan didn't even slap him intentionally, she was just trying to stop him and in the process, her hand grazed his cheek which will result in Sammy going furious and refusing to talk to G & being mad at her hence avoiding her etc., as nobody ever to slap him, even his parents while she feels guilty and tries to apologize to him desperately & then she finally asks him to kiss her or do whatever he wants to with her in her attempt to seek forgiveness n then Sam melts down feeling sad for Gunjan & they hug. I know this scene, it was a BEAUTIFULLY enacted scene between Siddharth and Trisha in the Telugu movie Nuvvosthanante Nenoddantana, the end of that sequence was so awwwww, Siddharth was SOOOOOOOOOO adorable in that one.......now Mr Bootifulll will taint the scene and murder it with his priceless expressions while MJHT team will shoot it in the Ghaatiest way possible 🤢 🤢

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Melissa

@Melissa

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Posted: 15 years ago

#882

don't even mention a 17 year old girl and 30 year old man getting married. Such an age difference and upar se the girl being just a kid.....even the thought makes me so angry and sick.

Agree with you on the fact that after a certain age it doesn't sound bad since it becomes more like just numbers. But when I do the subtraction I am all ewwww again🤣.

Personally, I would pick an immatured guy of 25-27 over a matured one aging between 28-30😆😆. But then again, I don't plan to get married unless a guy comes and assures me that I won't have to stay with his parents and that both of us will give equal time to each others parents. As in, if I take care of your parents, you have to take care of my parents! *hmph*

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Kavya

@Bazinga

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#883

Originally posted by: Melissa

Personally, I would pick an immatured guy of 25-27 over a matured one aging between 28-30😆😆. But then again, I don't plan to get married unless a guy comes and assures me that I won't have to stay with his parents and that both of us will give equal time to each others parents. As in, if I take care of your parents, you have to take care of my parents! *hmph*

Mels, are you my long lost sister or something? 😆 😆 That is EXACTLY what I think, especially the part in bold . I am leaving my parents for you so you leave yours for me - fair deal! If you take dowry then I am buying you so you must stay with me at my parents' house because I bought you n own you 😆 😆

Edited by Kavya_KraZQueen - 15 years ago

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Melissa

@Melissa

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Posted: 15 years ago

#884

LMAO Kavya....finally someone who shares my viewpoints! People think I am being kiddish, but I don't think so. True, that maybe what I want isn't practical enough for THIS society, but it is a practical thought otherwise.

Why should I marry someone and go live with his parents when my parents did every possible thing to make me what I am today, just like his parents. Just because of this stupid society, I should let go of my parents and devote my love and care for HIS parents? Kyun bhai? They have their own son to do that. I have MY parents to look after.

Frankly, since marriage is a needed concept, I believe that when marriage takes place, a guy should get his own home and live separately with his wife. Also, both husband wife should devote equal time (roughly sketched) to look after their parents and also their in-laws. Why should a girl give up more than a guy? Why should a girl only leave her parents' home and accept another family? Only because a guy looks funny when he cries?! Well, that's not a good enough reason for inequality.

As for dowry, if someone wants to marry me and wants dowry as well, kaat ke gadh dungi usse. I don't even like the idea of a girl's family "lovingly" gifting all sorts of appliances and furniture to the in-laws and the guy when marrying the girl away. That's a dowry too. Only when a girl and guy decides to have their own place, can such gifts be acceptable given that they are starting their new life and will be needing things for their new home. But when going to in-laws home and staying with his parents, why should those stuffs be needed? He should have his own furniture and stuffs to be eligible enough to marry me.

But totally agree with your dowry notion. If they take dowry, then we OWN them. They are OUR property *gives a nasty smirk*

Edited by Melissa - 15 years ago

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nimrah

@nimrah

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Posted: 15 years ago

#885

Oh wow! I missed up on SRK discussion.. Kavz, what you said about SRK and his 'the look' is so right specially the scenes you pointed out. Never have I watched that particular scene in Swades without crying.. I always end up crying watching 2 scenes of that movie and this is one of them. The CDI scene, god I know.. the way he goes teary eyed and loses balance and all is sooo well enacted and its so so so touching..! *sigh*

Kabhi Haan Kabhi Naa was an average movie but I like it coz SRK was quite good in it.. 😆 😆 Anjaam, I have never seen thankfully.. and don't plan to do so either. KANK was utterly rubbish! 🤢

@ Mash - I know how it feels. Many of my cousins feel the same when I start gushing about SRK.. 😆 It just the charm of SRK's look that just makes you feel for his character.. and which makes him look good as well.. 😆

Sorry about all that gushing.. I don't find many SRK fans here.. *sigh*

Edited by nimrah - 15 years ago

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AreYaar

@AreYaar

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+ 19

Posted: 15 years ago

#886

LOL Mels....I personally can't stand immature guys....I can't get married to someone I can't respect...and I doubt I can respect an immature minded guy....so such guys are good for amusement, that's about it....I'd prefer more mature guys....who are actually MEN....not BOYS :P

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Kavya

@Bazinga

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#887

Originally posted by: Melissa
LMAO Kavya....finally someone who shares my viewpoints! People think I am being kiddish, but I don't think so. True, that maybe what I want isn't practical enough for THIS society, but it is a practical thought otherwise.

Why should I marry someone and go live with his parents when my parents did every possible thing to make me what I am today, just like his parents. Just because of this stupid society, I should let go of my parents and devote my love and care for HIS parents? Kyun bhai? They have their own son to do that. I have MY parents to look after.

Frankly, since marriage is a needed concept, I believe that when marriage takes place, a guy should get his own home and live separately with his wife. Also, both husband wife should devote equal time (roughly sketched) to look after their parents and also their in-laws. Why should a girl give up more than a guy? Why should a girl only leave her parents' home and accept another family? Only because a guy looks funny when he cries?! Well, that's not a good enough reason for inequality.

As for dowry, if someone wants to marry me and wants dowry as well, kaat ke gadh dungi usse. I don't even like the idea of a girl's family "lovingly" gifting all sorts of appliances and furniture to the in-laws and the guy when marrying the girl away. That's a dowry too. Only when a girl and guy decides to have their own place, can such gifts be acceptable given that they are starting their new life and will be needing things for their new home. But when going to in-laws home and staying with his parents, why should those stuffs be needed? He should have his own furniture and stuffs to be eligible enough to marry me.

But totally agree with your dowry notion. If they take dowry, then we OWN them. They are OUR property *gives a nasty smirk*

Muaahhhh Melsss , I agree with each and EVERY WORD of yours 👏 👏 👏 They totally echo my beliefs.

@bold: OMG I LOVE you (in a platonic way) for saying that, we should start a 'women against inequality in marriage' society 😆 😆 EVERYONE says that I am being immature etc etc but I simply don't get the deal, just because I don't endorse and refuse to accept the views which every female and her family have accepted as LAW, which IMO is baseless and unreasonable, I become immature? 😕 You know the sad part- even the girls and their families think it is right and should be followed - all I am asking for is a rational reason as to why that is a "norm", convince me by giving a logical explanation and I will follow it but blindly following it without reasoning and understanding is something I cannot do. I have seen my cousins, they have to change their priorities against their will after marriage, when they come down from abroad once every year, they should first go to the guys' parents house and if in-laws permit, THEN they come down to their own parents' house but with the guy, he can or cannot choose to come to his in-laws house depending on his convenience, a girl, however HAS TO follow the "rule", GIMME A BREAK! Now if I express these views openly in front of my relatives, I am termed "a stubborn girl with a bad n unsuitable attitude", not that I give a DAMN to their opinions but my parents get upset and they go "you should change your attitude and because of your opinions, we are insulted, why can't you just shut your mouth and let it go? Who even asked for your opinion?" n as much as I hate it when they say that I cannot let my parents down It upsets me that even the parents have the "we are inferior , they are superior" attitude- RIDICULOUS!

@underlined: LOVED that "reason" 🤣

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incandescence

@incandescence

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Posted: 15 years ago

#888

i don't have that big a problem with age difference....i would rather marry a 30+ 'man' than a 25-26 year old 'boy'......

As for living with the guys parents....i would not prefer living with the guys family as well....But i won't really mind it...lol....but then i prefer to have an 'arrange' marriage...lots of kids n all at some point in life......lol......i m a very traditional, family person at heart.....theres a lot of 21st century germs that has obviously evaded me....

Edited by incandescence - 15 years ago

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nimrah

@nimrah

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+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#889

@ Anu -That's what I feel as well.. What I feel, you voiced it out so well.. 😆

I prefer Men who are sensible, mature enough than just random vella boys who are just senseless and have no sense of responsibility in them..

Just what I feel.. *shrugs*

Edited by nimrah - 15 years ago

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Melissa

@Melissa

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#890

Hey Nimrah....gush on about SRK. No one will mind your gushing, not me and Kavya at least😆😉
Btw, did you watch PKB?

LMAO Anu, the way you put it🤣🤣🤣"who are actually MEN...not BOYS"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Since people doesn't classify me as mature, I would rather keep quite in the topic of judging guys as matured or not🤣

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