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Gaganjot

@Gagan-06

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: AMMY LUVS RIDZ
i think gagan didi ,people should not oppose other's ideas in future thread .if they don't like they should not discourage the idea.

Thank you sweetheart for your input..

I agree members should not discourage someone...

but in a discussion forum.. not everyone is the same and they do not share the same POV,

You might like something and the other member might not...

Don't you think they should have the freedom to state their POV?

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GamesOfLife

@GamesOfLife

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#12

Where do members draw the line between constructive critisicm and bashing?

constructive criticism is that u guide ....

bashing is personal agendas which makes one go blind

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Gaganjot

@Gagan-06

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 16 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: SanaSarwar
Salam ... thanks mods for this post ..

this post is for every individual who reads it ....

@ I think future thread scenes post is for all .
therefore over there only endorsement should be allowed and no personal idea contradiction should be there .

@ if v disagree v should hold r silence and don't as a collective group try to go against someone's post .

@ We should collectively try to endorse a person's idea ... not to hurt someones post ...

and then leave it for pd to decide ..

if that person ideas r not suitable it will not be selected ... however if it is suitable due to collective negativity against it it may be dropped .. and this is wrong ....... voice should be raised together for the right cause and not for the wrong one...

therefore for once . I request mods to take actions against those who go collectively and deliberately go against some one's post ....

groups should be made not to bash some ideas but to encourage some one's theme..

I request bashing of one idea should not be allowed...... for anyone ... including me ....

Hello Sana,

Thank you sweets for your input.

Absolutely, The future thread is for everyone that is why Dev team took the inititive to make those thread. So no one feels left out.

I agree an Idea should not be mocked at or made fun of..

Everyone has their opinions..

but in a discussion forum everyone likes to add their inputs..

So if someone wanted to state their views about your idea.. what is wrong in that?

When you are a creative .. sometimes viewers will like your idea and sometimes they will not..

Were you hurt at the fact that your idea was not accepted or by the way the member posted their opinion about your idea/?

Edited by Gaganjot.S - 16 years ago

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GamesOfLife

@GamesOfLife

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S

Thank you sweetheart for your input..

I agree members should not discourage someone...

but in a discussion forum.. not everyone is the same and they do not share the same POV,

You might like something and the other member might not...

Don't you think they should have the freedom to state their POV?

but the point is what is their point ?? mods usually when collective discouragement against the idea is being made it is that everyone collect their frnds and go after one ..... a good idea is bashed due to their collective agenda...

.... then creative team will note collective negativtiy ... they will not know behind the scene it may be actually one person leading all......

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Rabia

@-raboO-

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#15

okay noww since gagan since u've put it straight....

u've been getting complains for members from our chat club meetha pan lovers CC...we agree dat we hav certain codes for our club buh ma question is dat y r ppl so offended by dem...wat makes dem think dat we're talking about dem....😕...puhleez if we're discussing anybody or any post at our CC...onlyy we can tel who r we referring to n i think we hav da rite to do so....y r oders getting offended...

i dun understand....at IF we're given full liberty to make our certain frens

circle...n we can discuss anything we want to....y r oders gettin so hyper

over our discussions....dun dey hav sumthing better to do oder than spying

our CC...🥱😕

dey're sum specific members at IF..i dun want to name dem ere....buh da

day we got reported by dem widout any clarification or any stated reason

we got a warning from da mods...dat really pissed us off...n since den

we jus make sure dat we donot make our SILENT READERS feel left

out at our CC...😳...we noe it dat sum ppl jus love our conversations...

dey jus dun hav da guts to cum face to face wid us....dey jus quietly

go n report us to da mods....

to b honest am clueless bout all dis dushmani btw us n oder

mjht lovers...i wud say it for maself onlyy..i have neva

fought wid anybody of da ppl out ere...n i always tryy not to offend dem much

buh since i see sum ppl jus dun understand tameez ki bhasha....we deal dem

dere wayyy...its simple TIT FOR TAT ere....

as u're saying it...we need to get a solution outta dis....am ready to compromise...

n i actually tried to giv sum ppl a chance out ere....buh after a few days again

i see da same sarci comments n bashing our posts n all...

am not really dat gud in expressing thru wordds...i mite hav said sumthing

offending ere aswell..so sorryy people...PEACE...!!!

since gagan has askd to sort out all differences wid all da members ere...

i tried to state ma POV...hope nobody gets offended...😳

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Sid

@Sid4TeamCanada

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

#16

Gagan at times we all get carried away a times which is fine! once in a while making a random comment genera comment on mayurs or sajans once in a while that is fine.. what is not fine is we know we are bashing other members yet we constantly continue to do so just for the fun of it..

if i say somehting that offends any1 and any1 points it out to me indirectly OR directly that im bashing - i wud be guilty andstop!

it happens! but the imp thing is we realise that is wrong - bashing others...making comments behind their backs in OPEN FORUMS - its WRONG! its disrespectful! even if u use codewords doesn't matter. and IF has no secret clubs that the convo is only between u - all forums are OPEN for others to see wht u talk abt..so if its your responsibility what you say at the forums... this CC has invitees only that just means ppl invited shud comment..it doesnt mean others cant read our posts - by all means they can😕

one more thing i think shud be discussed is: getting warnings - if i get a warning i wud know I broke some IF rule which is why i got the warning.. i wudnt go about saying oh they made us get the warnings..u can't just get a warnign for doing nothing:S the MODS gives warnings and they do that if u break rules !
if someone makes a comment that you don't liek just pm them and say ur comment offends me..don't just leave the thread and complain or mock the person behind their backs..mocking others is really disrespectful be it in codewords or by names!

one more thing here i wanna mention: abt mayur and sajan the characters..

i hpnestly don't mind when people mock at my fav characters (mayur)...its fine because those are characters every1's allowed to have their own views..things get WRONG and serious when people direct their mocking and bashing towards other members - that should not be happeneing...

Edited by SidraLuvMayurBL - 16 years ago

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GamesOfLife

@GamesOfLife

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S

Hello Sana,

Thank you sweets for your input.

Absolutely, The future thread is for everyone that is why Dev team took the inititive to make those thread. So no one feels left out.

I agree an Idea should not be mocked at or made fun of..

Everyone has their opinions..

but in a discussion forum everyone likes to add their inputs..

So if someone wanted to state their views about your idea.. what is wrong in that?

When you are a creative .. sometimes viewers will like your idea and sometimes they will not..

Were you hurt at the fact that your idea was not accepted or by the way the member posted their opinion about your idea/?

no mods i was hurt because personal agenda was taken out on me .... bashing started on my ideas by some repetitive ppl ... and everytime why those same 4 to 5 ppl end up against my point ???... I can take it on one idea ... but mods don't u think it is blaming coincidence too much if same 4 to 5 ppl come against ur idea every time.??????

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Chan91

@Chan91

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#18

Thank u modz for making this post!

First of all we are MJHTians....not Sajanians or Mayurians....We are MJHTians...who are like a family!

also...if any of u have a problem wiv me (i hope not) then plz feel free to point out!

Thanks

BTW: do u wanna be friends? (whoever is here)
im chandz

Start of something new rite guys 😳

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Gaganjot

@Gagan-06

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 16 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: carolinecj
Gagan
there is always the option of pming your anger at somebody or using it in such a way that it is not visible to everybody or atleast an open forum!
Bashing is personal option we cannot restrict a person not to bash!I do not bash or insult anyone in an OPEN forum and I would expect other people to give me the same courtesy:)

there are situations wherein my names have been brought up in a circle where i am not in friends with unnecessarily when i am not online and when i am online. they seem to take offense when pointed out..like yesterday.

I mean there are other shows with 2 couples where the forum has been pretty peaceful. I would love mjht forum to be peaceful!

If anybody has issues with me you are free to point out!

If somebody has issues with me..feel free to share..
and about me criticizing samrat in any place.. let me point out i have always criticized mayank worse than I criticize samrat ... I just say what I feel...:)

Thank you Caro for your input.

Firstly, no member should bash you on the forum or even through pms.

I want to ask the members of CC.... Why was Caro's name brought up in CC?

Why did you bash her in CC?

I would like an answer from some of you.

Edited by Gaganjot.S - 16 years ago

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missing Vmars

@missing Vmars

Inactive

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Posted: 16 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Gaganjot.S
Firstly, I will be very frank.

I do not like to talk in circles.

I have recieved several compaints against members in "Meetha Pan CC" and "Not so Obsessed MJHT Fan CC"

I am not going to name anyone... but do you think the other person will stop bashing if you do not stop?

Where do members draw the line between constructive critisicm and bashing?

gagu honestly first n foremost our CC got report for no reason ... jus coz v named a member n in all honesty v didnt even bash her

n frankly if others r talking abt us in dere CC ... gud talk .... each to its own ..... i dont have the time 2 sit n report neone ... v log in here 2 chat wit our friends n not spy on other CCs

gagu pple have forwarded me remarks others have made abt us in dere CC .... n i laugh dem off

i wud suggest dey do da same na .......

yes v have code words n frankly dose code words have no specific meaning ....... v have kept dem 2 humor ourselves ... if others r taking da time 2 read and get offended abt dem n plz guys PM us n ask ... v will share da joke with u

n i dont understand y everything v say is being scrutinised 2 such an extent

sum members talk abt mocknig ........ guys rnt u all doing exactly da same thing

sm of dem have mocked us n sum of our words beyond endurance n guess wat v chose 2 overluk dem ... jab baat apne pe aati hai den i guess pple realise how much it hurts