**Incognito Critics** #13 ~Invite Only~ - Page 69

Originally posted by: roxthefox

INSECURITY.

or fickleness.
either way not a good trait

Roxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Originally posted by: roxthefox

Where did Sonu disappear? She starts this discussion, hints at some interesting things, and then disappears... what a tease!

uff. u hav to giv me time to type it all out.

Originally posted by: x.sonia.x

or fickleness.
either way not a good trait

Originally posted by: x.sonia.x

details huh? ok this will be my late nite confession then.
ok so on nd off for 4 yrs. (long time i kno)
so met him thru a friend who was his cousin. totally hated each other but then kuch kuch hone laga nd eventually after much time passed we started datin. he was a pathetic fool. drop out pretty much but then took on a job wit his fathers company after i pushed him to do sumthin nd that job requires a lot of travel so hes away a lot nd thus the on nd off relationship. this long distance doesnt work too well for me u kno. he says he hasnt seen any1 when he is away. do i trust him.. not totally but hes a good guy so dunno. hav i seen ppl as he has been away. wont lie. i hav been tempted many a times but nothin serious. so hes perfect but hes missin in action half the yr sometimes. what to do?

Good ol' long distance relationships... how I hate you! Are you lot committed at the moment? Honestly, I'll say this, and I know this isn't the best advice, and you're welcome to ignore it, but if you're not committed, then I say have your fun. 😉 Unless you LOVE him and trust him completely, then your mind shouldn't even venture off in other places, but if that's not the case, then no harm. Plus, you never know what happens in the future... it's always good to have some back.

Now, can you show us his picture and I can assess this situation deeper?

- Dr. Love.

Originally posted by: -simi-

agreed with both of you

but i have a friend who does that, and she says she falls in love with everyone that she dates.... gimme a break 😕

and she says she dates many people because that way she will understand men better, and she'll know what she really wants from a guy...

for some reason i dont really understand where she is coming from

shes confused. doesnt kno whats best for herself. i can see ppl seein it that way tho.
its a personal choice. nd some things may work for some nd not for others.

On a flip note, my sister is in a long distance relationship, and both are crazy about each other. Sure, she flirts a little (really not her fault, she's too gorgeous and charming).... but she's happier with long distance. This way, you don't get too attatched, and if the relationship fails, it's not as devastating as it would be if you saw each other every day.

Again, depends on how into the dude you are. If you love him, distance doesn't matter. Sometimes, the greatest journey is the distance between two people (borrowed from U, Me, Aur Hum).

Ok, that was too cheesy. Puke bucket please? I wish Huma was here.

HAHA i love how me and rox gave u the exact same advise 😆

Originally posted by: -simi-

hmm.. intersting story.. well if u looking at this in a marriage perspective, then u have enough time to figure things out.. he has just started his carreer, and so if u have faith, let him settle down a bit more, i guess then u'll know what u want,

and at the same time, no one is stopping u from seeing other guys, just keep ur options open, dont completely ditch him, and dont completely get commited to him, u know what i mean?

i dont think he will settle. his father is always traveling for yrs now. i think he expects me to come with. which isnt a bad thing except how will i become the brilliant doc that i want to becum.

lol. keepin options open.