How I end up being such a selfish kid?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After some breake returning back to the forum to find it worse than before...
-ranking is decreasing
-forum full of insulting posts
-low language is dominating
-just complains, complaints, and also complaints...
-and members are just desapearing with each new complaint... no doubt, who wants to live such negativity...
But who is making the forum such a mesurable place?... We!!
If the fav couple is not shown for an epi, we start acting like 5 yrs spoilt kids... but r we really kids?
Is this the way our parents has raised us? Showing respect for none!!
Most of the members here r just thinking about her - yes her coz the guys here r the most respectful members - wish, desire, needs with no respect for others' wish, desire and needs...
In short we r acting selfish for such a simple thing like a tv show!!... Actually by such acts, we r showing the world that there is a common factor between us and the criminals who rape... we all r acting selfish, we only see what we want and care the less for others rights...

Tomorrow we will have to raise kids or young brothers who will imitate our deeds... if we keep acting in such selfish manner, I believe we will have no right to creticize our own kids for raping others... we r teaching them how to be selfish, so we should accept to see them apply what they have been tought...

But this question should be raised again... did our parents teach us to act like this? no respect?... insulting cvs like they r our slaves... using low language as if we have been raised in the roads!!... R our hearts this much black?!!
cvs, actors and others r giving their best everyday... and what they got? Insults, insults and insults... R we that much happy to see them receive insults for their efforts?!!
I prefer this actor/actress... how by insulting others' efforts I am showing my love to that person?!!... we like an actor, we just should keep write about him/her with a polite language...
How do we expect others to love our favs by keep insulting, bashing and complaining in a bad way!!...
Again, did our parents raised us to be selfish and respect none?!!... this whole week was not about my fav couple, no problem as next week is gonna be about them!!... what is the need for crying like kids!!... to be fair, we have to admit cvs have given equal importance to both couples... they r doing their best to be fair but we still crying like kids!!
In short, it's our choice to represnt our parents in the best way, giving other's desires the space to be filled, showing respect, and say no to selfishness... or do the opposite... as we r not small kids, we r able to make the choice...
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swaronswaron thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree..insulting and abusing can never be the solution to anything but noone can really do anything about it..I try keeping away from all the negativity and concentrate on appreciating my favs instead 😳
Edited by swaronswaron - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yasri..u shld go n watch on FACEBOOK...leave characters..ppl dnt leave a single cahnce to abuse d actors..n tht too in such a cheap language..it shws dere standards..dey simply cnt differentiate bw actor n character..if sm1 is playng an intense lover on screen n is performing sm passionate dances..tht does nt mean...tht d actor is 🤬 in real lyf... n cribbibg lyk 10 yr old kids..if dey hv gt smthng..thn v shld also get it.. i also dnt lyk negitivity..bt knws to answer back in dere own language.. ps- i hv a feeling tht ur post will be closed🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

yasri..u shld go n watch on FACEBOOK...leave characters..ppl dnt leave a single cahnce to abuse d actors..n tht too in such a cheap language..it shws dere standards..dey simply cnt differentiate bw actor n character..if sm1 is playng an intense lover on screen n is performing sm passionate dances..tht does nt mean...tht d actor is 🤬 in real lyf... n cribbibg lyk 10 yr old kids..if dey hv gt smthng..thn v shld also get it.. i also dnt lyk negitivity..bt knws to answer back in dere own language.. ps- i hv a feeling tht ur post will be closed🤢


charu dont remind of that yaar..i have no words,...I wouldnt have believed had i not seen the posts myself..🤢
Edited by swaronswaron - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This post is not meant for certain people who doesn't care to represent their parents in a good way infront of the world... this post is meant for people who cares for themselves, their parents and their image... I believe there r some members here, like me, want to look good but did mistakes of not showing respect... I admit I did this mistake but to realize late is better than never...
It's just a show, why I have to compromise my and my parents image?!!
I don't see y this topic will be closed coz this criticizm is for all members regardless of which fanbase they r from...
Edited by yasri - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ya agree with you, Yasri.
It is not only about representing urself in a good way. It is about your way of thinking. If one whines n whimpers at every damn thing, n even chooses to abuse others if they don't get ur way, then there's definitely a problem.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hahaha

anyways it was always same..

When Vrinda was new she was bashed badly not only on FB but on here too..

till now she is being bashed..I wonder why someone dint make such posts

Oh wait..None of our business?😲 😆

Things were never good from every fandoms side..

Koi bhi sharif nai hai yahan pe😛

I may sound rude..but I don't believe in sugar coating words when it comes to give an honest comment..Things will never change..People will never stop bashing actors/ characters..
mark my words..even if this show will end..people will never stop. -_- ( and dat implies for all the three fandoms)

you made this post just coz vrushika n shan were being bashed..but what about others participating in the same bashing for vrinda..bhai! tab koi aise post kyun nai bane..well kyun banenge..usse hume kya right? and its totally fine..coz ur a ss fan..

But please don't give lectures on what parent teaches what upbringing they have..no one gives a fig to it..🥱

I may sound evil out here but this is what this forum made me realize of from a year being here..


P.s..Nothing in particular to anyone who were good to me. nothing against anyone..but just wat i feel.

Edited by Ana_Taarey - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ana_Taarey

hahaha

whose talking😆 frustrated much?

anyways it was always same..

When Vrinda was new she was bashed badly not only on FB but on here too..

till now she is being bashed..I wonder why someone dint make such posts

Oh wait..None of our business?😲 😆

Things were never good from every fandoms side..

Koi bhi sharif nai hai yahan pe😛

I may sound rude..but I don't believe in sugar coating words when it comes to give an honest comment..Things will never change..People will never stop bashing actors/ characters..
mark my words..even if this show will end..people will never stop. -_- ( and dat implies for all the three fandoms)

you made this post just coz vrushika n shan were being bashed..but what about others participating in the same bashing for vrinda..bhai! tab koi aise post kyun nai bane..well kyun banenge..usse hume kya right? and its totally fine..coz ur a ss fan..

But please don't give lectures on what parent teaches what upbringing they have..no one gives a fig to it..🥱

I may sound evil out here but this is what this forum made me realize of from a year being here..


P.s..Nothing in particular to anyone who were good to me.

girl..she has included every1 here..she is nt specifically targetting any fandom...n same post hv been made earlier also...n she is keeping her POV..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

girl..she has included every1 here..she is nt specifically targetting any fandom...n same post hv been made earlier also...n she is keeping her POV..

Yeah I know that..But my only question..

tab kyun nai kia jab vrinda was bashed?

coz u are ss fans..so even if someone uses obnoxious words for her..and her fans..n passes derogatory comments on them..dats none of anyone's business..right..

M here from past 1 year..PEACE WAS NEVER A PART OF D3 FORUM..

and it includes all

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ana_Taarey

Yeah I know that..But my only question..

tab kyun nai kia jab vrinda was bashed?

coz u are ss fans..so even if someone uses obnoxious words for her..and her fans..n passes derogatory comments on them..dats none of anyone's business..right..

M here from past 1 year..PEACE WAS NEVER A PART OF D3 FORUM..

and it includes all

vrushika was also bashed by u tr fans
she have made her POV
she thinks she is right
yeah i agree with her
great post !!!!

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