I was meaning to make this post from months now but was postponing it for one reason or the other. Now it has gotten bit long than I had anticipated but stay with me. Yesterday I came across some posts of few Tarey fans and it prompted me to make this post. Well there some fans were calling SwaRon fans suffering from multiple personality disorder just because few SwaRon fans reprimanded a topic maker for making a topic in which few people were taking shots at other fandoms under the cover of a news article. A topic which mods closed later. I am not offended by it. Personally I think you can call me anything you want. After all its an online world and a free country. And moreover ever since I have watched a Tamil film 'Anniyan' (dubbed in hindi as Aparichit, highly recommended from my side) I think MPD is one of the coolest illness. I can get away with a freaking murder by help of it. But I don't think everyone has a big heart like me. But as I said I am not bothered by name calling, after all I am not some nursery kid. But what bothered me was there were some questions in those posts like why SS fans are siding with KR fans and why if they don't like Tarey are bothered by it and comment on those topics. Now it let me to think you were right. I have always announced on forum I don't like tarey and is not bothered by it. But I have never given an explanation for my behaviour. So here through this post I am here to answer some of your questions. Mind you this is my reasons it may differ from some other fans.
Well you all said why we are siding with KR and why if we don't like Tarey are bothered by it and comment on their topics. Well the answer is because I was never able to connect as a viewer with Tarey story or to be more correct with Tani. Now everyone here knows me as a SwaRon fan who tries to be as neutral as one could be. I have always supported thing which I felt was right according to my judgement. I think my recent post in support of Tarey when Rasiya promo was launched is enough testimony of it. So I hope you'll understand this post is not made with any ill thoughts. Now as I said I am SwaRon fan but still I respected the character of Kriya and Rey. I may not have any attachments to their story as I had with SwaRon but still I could enjoy their story as a viewer and it made sense to me. But I can't say the same with Tarey.
When Kriya left I felt sorry for the KR fandom as I myself was not satisfied with the way a character like Kriya was ended. But still when a month and half later Tani was introduced I was ready to give her chance. But the very foundation of her character was a major turndown for me. The very premise of a girl to leave her home town to come to Mumbai just for her infatuation is something completely unbelievable. It's like me leaving Delhi to go to Mumbai just because I am crazy about Katrina! From which angle is it plausible. And yeah don't call it was love. For heaven sake that girl had never interacted with Rey. She had just seen his dance performance and photos online nothing else.
Secondly the fake CD case. The way she staged the whole thing was enough to make anyone angry on her. And moreover she quit, even when she had Rey to teach her, leaving her own brother's team in such a jeopardy which eventually ended up in them getting disqualified from Footloose finals. You may say its human to do mistake. But isn't it the same human's responsibility to owe to that mistake and apologise for it. Now you will counteract by saying she had apologised but please do tell me how come one can apologise when one hadn't accepted her mistake. It's like a criminal committing robbery and murder. But getting acquitted just for robbery because his crime of murder didn't come to light. You may also say it's all in the past and now the characters in the show have moved on. Well then there the character was not made aware of this great hoax planned by her but we viewers are. How come you expect us to move on when she had not even owed to those mistakes leave alone ask for apology.
And sticking to the same incident but from a different vantage point now. Doesn't this whole incident speaks loudly how she accepted the offer to learn dancing from Rey just because she was achieving her personal motive of getting close to Rey rather helping her team. And the moment he rejected her proposal she resigned from the team. So much for her being selfless and innocent which many Tarey post proclaim.
Moving on coming to Tani-Shivam track. Well this one is one ridiculous track and I don't know what was running in the CV's mind. My admiration for Shivam is quite famous so I won't talk about him. But please do tell me what possessed Tani to accept herself being in relationship, even though fake, with him. You may say he was sweet to him when everyone were rude. But wasn't it quite evident to her that neither Swayam, nor Rey nor anyone else like him. Doesn't this curiosity ever came in her mind to know the reason. I am not saying just Tani was at fault, in fact everyone else could have told her about Shivam. So the entire track was ridiculous according to me. Even the way it ended was something which bounced over my head. Well to tell in short I was really glad to see Shivam out from show and from Tani's life too.
Then the way she was made AGS and then GS was something which was completely unjustified. Because to be honest she was the least deserving candidate for those post. Anyone viewing D3 from start will know how much importance those post meant and how much struggle all did to get it for their own team. And now she is just given for free. How can anyone term it reasonable?
And now the current track. I understand that she is a GS but does being a GS mean agreeing with everything a teacher body says and enforce it on students whether its correct or not? Where is her say in these decision. Always we see her bringing notice and putting it on display board. Is it the only duty of a GS? Moreover she knows others are right but still I don't know why she tries her best to stops them?
These were points on the track. And now some points about various posts which I have seen but have never replied to them just because it would result in a fight. But here I am trying to express my opinion. Try to read with open minds.
1. I have read many comments saying Vrinda being a dancer and she getting trained from so and so institute. Try to be honest with yourself. If Vrinda has half of the training which you proclaim wouldn't till now we would have seen the beginning of her track of journey of a non dancer to dancer. Its freaking 9 months now since her entry. What are Cv's waiting for? And don't you all think that was the initial track in the beginning ; with Rey training her and all her dream dances and all, but was later scrapped. I may be wrong about it and the track may happen in future. But please unless the concerned track start don't call her a dancer on a forum where there are 12 extraordinary dancer.
2. Since we are talking about dance we will stick to it. D3 is a dance based fiction show but ever since Tani's entry number of dances has dramatically decreased. I am not saying a dancer has to fall in love with a dancer only but due to pursue of this track there has been sharp declined in dance numbers. Before there used to be at least one dance practise/performance from dazzlers or weakling in each week or from both. But now a day's entire practise session is completed in one episode. Best example is how both teams practised for footloose elims for month in the college but completed all practise for finals in one episode. We SwaRon fans have been lucky enough to get few duet performances but due to non dancing lead opposite Rey we hardly get his duet performances. Only one which we got since Tani entry is ' It's too late to apologise that too with Sharon. For someone who has been a KAS fan from DID it surely is painful to see his talent not getting his due. And not only KAS, girls from the show had not getting any exclusive dance performance for them too. ( I am not counting monsoon special episode and I am obviously talking about track before the beginning of Dance ban track.) And whether you accept it or not the only reason for it is because Tani being a non dancer has a story completely different from rest 11. And when CV's gave weight age to her obviously the very soul and the USP of D3 ' 'Dance' gets affected. Thus irking fans who joined D3 for dance.
3. Recently I came across a post stating Tani to be the most important character of D3. Well everyone is bound to have his/her opinion but do state that in the very beginning it 's your own POV. Do not generalise it. Otherwise it won't remain a Tarey post. So if you are generalising it then defend your post not hide behind the rule made to stop fights.
4. And yeah I have seen many posts stating Tani's journey hardest. My question is whose fault was that? It was not that she was bullied by dazzlers or something but all she faced was the result of her own mistake. So why anyone would feel sorry for her for it.
Now due to all these reasons I have never been able to connect as a viewer to Tani's story because no matter what I was never able to develop a respect for her character. And thus I was never able to like Tarey story. Where as in Kriyaansh may be I didn't like their story as much as SwaRon but still I always acknowledged it because both Kriya and Rey commanded respect. And thus it made sense to me. So yeah I will prefer Kriyaansh over Tarey any day. Your next question why bother with your post when you don't like them? Well believe me I try to stay away as much as possible but D3 story is not about just a couple or of two couple across different timeline. Its story about 12 characters of which the 4 main leads are interconnected. And even though I try to remain on sidelines there are moments when we arrive at crossroads where one is needed to make a stand.
_________________________________________________________________Note : This topic is open for all. Personally I have never understood the logic of the rule banning other fangroups from other fangroups posts. But to each his own. Personally I believe a healthy discussion is the best way to come to an understanding. I assure you even in future none of my post will be closed for any person. This post is for all fandom on this forum. Feel free to express your opinion. But considering the sensitivity of topic there are few parameters. My ardent request is to you all please follow it. And yeah this topic does not intend to hurt anyone whether any fangroup or any other individuals.
a) Tarey fans ' Well I know your first instinct after reading this post would be to report it. Feel free to do so but try to understand the difference constructive criticism and bashing. This post is not made with any ill intention or because I hate Tani or something. Believe me I won't have and will not have any strong emotions of any kind for Tani even if its hate. Only thing which she can get from me is apathy. It just made to make you aware where I find fault with the characters of Tani. And I am open for any healthy discussion.
b) SwaRon and Kriyaansh fans ' Well this post is indeed open to all and you all are invited to express your opinion about your topic and participate in discussion but please no bashing of other fan groups. Keep a guard on your comments. Do check this post to understand the difference between criticism and bashing ' Warning: Bashing Equals Warning Level Raise!
c) Kriyaansh fans ' I know what I am going to ask next is hard for you all but please don't bring comparison with Kriyaansh in this topic. This post is made by me to express in a dignified respectable way why I and many other like me do not like Tani and her story. So don't bring Kriyaansh here unless absolutely needed to put across a point.
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Now this end part is for mods. I know this topic is going to be reported. And by miracle if it is not then I'm sure any of the any of the subsequent comment will be end up reported. Its quite understandable in a forum as young as us where most of the members are teenagers . But please do think over what a forum stands for? If one can't express his opinion just because of the fear he/she will get reported. Then I guess it's time a change in rules are needed. Don't censor and ban everything which we have to say.
If my topic is reported and you decide to close it down please do tell me why? Because I have strictly followed rules of no bashing and this post is seriously a constructive criticism of the character. And if we are not allowed such constructive post and are allowed only to talk about the positive and sweet aspect of the show and not about the thing which we don't like. Then please do inform me I will refrain from doing so again.
