Originally posted by: MysticLight
Nobody will hate you for speaking your mind. Don't worry. Hate is a very strong emotion and we should avoid it. As regards Sneha, I feel we should all not judge her. Only she herself knows why exactly she took certain decisions. We don't know the full picture. Only the people invoved know. She did what she thought was best for her under the circumstances.
We are looking at it from the angle of SwaRon and the show but for her it's her life. And she has the freedom, like all of us, to make her own choices and decisions. I am glad for her if she has found love and is happy in her new relationship and wish her the very best for her life ahead. She deserves the best.
There is no doubt she is a fantastic actress and dancer. But it's her right to choose whether she wishes to continue in that career or not. Like all of us, she also has the right to make mistakes too (am not saying she is wrong or has made a mistake). Don't we? Why should it be any different for her.
Why do we have to burden her with the expectations we have from the show and the characters. She is a young girl with her whole life ahead. Let her be free like we are. Don't we switch jobs or change fields and subjects etc? Don't changes happen in our lives? Don't we grow? Don't we move on from stuff we did earlier? Don't we find that we outgrew our earlier choices?
A celebrity also at the end of the day is human. Yes.. everyone loved her and some even placed her on a pedestal. Showered her with cards and gifts and affection. But that doesn't mean she has written off her freedom to us. Whatever the fans did was unconditional. And should stay that way.
And Sneha should take the decisions she feels she should and which she feels is for her good. Even if she later on finds it was a mistake.. so what... she will learn from it.. like we all do. That's life.
And if she has done something that is ethically wrong or against her values.. it's she who has to live with it. Let's not be the jury.
We should wish her well and accept and move on. Cherish the beautiful moments and thank her for giving them to us. And embrace what the future brings.
There is nothing permanent in life except for change and life does go on.
so damn true!!!!!!! agree comletely without giving it a second thot...
i have neva blamed sneha for dis but yes it feels realy bad seeing her name in every of d post just to accuse her...her personal life is her personal lyf n i have always maintained sayng dat even if she leaves d show we cnt do nythng cos it'll be her sole decision, she'll decide evrythng ...
but m heartbroken as a TANHA fan ...i have been cryng for d last 3 days ,i knw its hard to belive but trust me i hav no control on my tears ...so,morethan nythngelse i hate myself for loving SWARON/ TANHA to such an extent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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