help guys...

hey
well i dont know why i am writing this... but the story of my life has somewhat have become like d3 ...
so there is a boy.. my best friend ...my chuddy buddy..my first ever friend.. and he is like the mixture of rey and swayam.. ( i know you must be thinking ki aisa koi kaise exist kar sakta hai but its true ) so he really likes me... you know how swayam used to like sharon and was completely fida over her... exactly in the same way... but has lot of anger and possesiveness like rey... hope you got that...
and he proposed me almost a year ago... but i just said no... yeah a lot like sharon... but just not in a rude way... and so from then on we decided to be friends...
from then on everything was back to normal... but i just chose to distance myself from him... so that he could get his space and time...and move on in life...
but but last to last night i got to know he still likes me... and he told me that again...
he is so sweet just like swayam... and at the same time is a best friend like rey... and is completely loyal types... as you can see...
but its that i do not like him...in that way... but i just love him as my best friend... just like sharon and rey...
and now the guilt is like eating me up... what shall i do?? hope so you people have some suggestions... as my friends are really of no use...
and i just forgot to tell you he like me from last 7 years.. and told me last year...
its just that its so similar to d3 so i thought of asking suggestions from u as you closely understand the characters

and if anyone feels that its a nonsense topic then they can close it...

hey wat abt trial relationship hahahe just kidding...
I tell u, first of all try to make ur mind stable and think why dont u like him ( is it his character or blah blah blah...)
becuz every1 has expectations abt their future how it should be, am i ryt?
So when u know the real reason why u dont have the same feelings as his and when u r firm in ur decision...
U can just tell him that u do respect his feelings bt ur srry n in case if u feel the same as he does, u urself wud confess it to him
and then give him a hint saying its not possible, politely...

Its just ma opinion n im srrry if it doesnt make any sense to u
just wanna help u...

This is kinda like whats happened with me before lol :o just go with your heart, do you think its worth it ? (:

Just listen to your heart...do u also have the same feelings for him?if so give time and think of it...you need to be stable...just trying to help ya...sorry if its of no use to ya

Originally posted by: frankyfio

hey wat abt trial relationship hahahe just kidding...
I tell u, first of all try to make ur mind stable and think why dont u like him ( is it his character or blah blah blah...)
becuz every1 has expectations abt their future how it should be, am i ryt?
So when u know the real reason why u dont have the same feelings as his and when u r firm in ur decision...
U can just tell him that u do respect his feelings bt ur srry n in case if u feel the same as he does, u urself wud confess it to him
and then give him a hint saying its not possible, politely...

Its just ma opinion n im srrry if it doesnt make any sense to u
just wanna help u...

lol... u know what i was thinking of trial relationship last year...
but then thought it'll not be worth lossing his friendship... plus being in a relationship.. when you are actually not serious... and then breaking his heart if you are unable to respond to his feelings... so i just chucked the idea...
and dont know reason y i dont have feelings for him... i think there's no spark between us... but its like i am sure it can be anyone but not him... and also his anger n possesiveness...
am i making any sense...???
and its like i have told him... that i dont feel for him...
but its like swayam.. sharon chaahe usey kuch bbhi kahe... but he still loves her...
and sharon used to snub at him... bus thats the only difference... and i cant really be harsh to him... he's my friend...

Originally posted by: Sunitha_Swayam

Just listen to your heart...do u also have the same feelings for him?if so give time and think of it...you need to be stable...just trying to help ya...sorry if its of no use to ya

hehe.. i tried out... listened to heart.. it says it doesnt feel for him... but care and love him as a friend... i mean i have literally spent my life with him.. he is with me from last 15 yrs..and i am 20yrs.. and this love and care brings a lot of guilt with it...
i mean i literally have started hating me for breaking his heart...

Originally posted by: Asha_ArSha

omg!! 7 years, that's long..

ok, just listen to ur heart. u can make a list of what u don't like about him n what u like.. if his liked sides win over disliked sides, then maybe u should think about it, or maybe u can talk to him openly...

i donno if i have confused u more.. sorry, if i did so😳

you know what i have tried this too... umm.. okay the likes won... but still i dont know... y i am refusing him... i mean i know.. someone would be really happy to be in my place.. bcoz in today's tym no one waits for so long just to confess and then after confession still waiting for 1 year... but still i am not able to think of him beyond friend...
and no u didn't confuse me... because as it is am literally very very confused...

Originally posted by: eshaaax3.

This is kinda like whats happened with me before lol :o just go with your heart, do you think its worth it ? (:

umm.. so wat did you do?? and point is my heart is not saying anything... y the hell hearts dont have vocals...!!

once again im asking u, are u stable n firm on ur decision???????
Or is it that u hv mixed up all feeling u have towards him, like jay and aditi in jaane tu ya jaane na...