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Chankya is a great tutor and strategist fine
But him advising Chandra over every small matter is irritating and not done

Chankya said marry helena and chandra married

Chankya said have an heir with Dhurudhara and he spends nights with her

Chankya says marry Nandini and he agreed

Next he will say fall in love with Nandini?

What sort of total dominance is this especially personal life?

He says marry Nandini for country sake

Does Chandra have no min or heart only a robot who fights wars and obeys chankya

He is emperor not a small kid to be so guided and ordered

Atleast give him some choice in his personal life
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Chandra is ordered by everyone,, Chanakya, Helena, Dhurdhar,, no doubt Chanakya is foremost in dis line, Chandra ne khud se ajtak kuch kiya v hain 😕
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Dear Prem,
I have gone into this question in depth in my latest post, Extended finale,but for ease of reference, and to save my poor fingers more typing, here is that extract for anyone who might be interested.

One more point: Chandragupta is not yet an emperor. But for Chanakya, he would still have been herding sheep and getting thrashed daily by a drunken foster father. Let us not forget that.

Extract from my Chandra Nandini 31-33: Extended finale

Slavish obedience? : Chandra has been criticized for accepting his guru's fiat in the matter of the uttaradhikari and Durdhara without much protest, and branded a puppet of his mentor's. To these criticisms , I would say just this.

Chanakya is Chandra's Acharya. He is the man who has made him what he is, and but for him, what would Chandra have been? A skinny, undernourished brat, beaten black and blue daily by his drunkard of a foster father, while his foster mother bleated in the background about her abiding prem for her husband. For that inestimable favour that Chanakya did him, Chandra owes him at least total obedience.

In any case, Chanakya has bought him from his foster father, and he makes it clear right at the beginning that he expects implicit obedience from Chandra in all things. It is another matter that over the years, he comes to love Chandra like a son,but that alters nothing in the context of the obedience he demands of his shishya.

If Chanakya had been Chandra's father, and Chandra had obeyed him in the same way, would the criticism be the same? I don't think so. But Chanakya is the only father figure Chandra has ever known, and even in Chakravartin Ashoka Samrat, Bindusara tells his eldest son Sushim that his father, the great Chandragupta Maurya, would not take a single step without his guru's explicit approval. Was that found strange? No. Is it seen as strange that Lord Rama obeyed his father, who was clearly in the wrong, so implicitly? No.

The fact is that such critics are importing contemporary sensibilities into a 4th century BC story. No one can expect anything different from a shishya in that age. In the 1990 Chanakya too, Chandragupta was shown as a completely obedient shishya, for that is the historical truth. I do not see why the script should stand this paddhati on its head to please those with 21st century ideas.


Shyamala Aunty

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Originally posted by: sashashyam

Dear Prem,

I have gone into this question in depth in my latest post, Extended finale,but for ease of reference, and to save my poor fingers more typing, here is that extract for anyone who might be interested.

One more point: Chandragupta is not yet an emperor. But for Chanakya, he would still have been herding sheep and getting thrashed daily by a drunken foster father. Let us not forget that.

Extract from my Chandra Nandini 31-33: Extended finale

Slavish obedience? : Chandra has been criticized for accepting his guru's fiat in the matter of the uttaradhikari and Durdhara without much protest, and branded a puppet of his mentor's. To these criticisms , I would say just this.

Chanakya is Chandra's Acharya. He is the man who has made him what he is, and but for him, what would Chandra have been? A skinny, undernourished brat, beaten black and blue daily by his drunkard of a foster father, while his foster mother bleated in the background about her abiding prem for her husband. For that inestimable favour that Chanakya did him, Chandra owes him at least total obedience.

In any case, Chanakya has bought him from his foster father, and he makes it clear right at the beginning that he expects implicit obedience from Chandra in all things. It is another matter that over the years, he comes to love Chandra like a son,but that alters nothing in the context of the obedience he demands of his shishya.

If Chanakya had been Chandra's father, and Chandra had obeyed him in the same way, would the criticism be the same? I don't think so. But Chanakya is the only father figure Chandra has ever known, and even in Chakravartin Ashoka Samrat, Bindusara tells his eldest son Sushim that his father, the great Chandragupta Maurya, would not take a single step without his guru's explicit approval. Was that found strange? No. Is it seen as strange that Lord Rama obeyed his father, who was clearly in the wrong, so implicitly? No.

The fact is that such critics are importing contemporary sensibilities into a 4th century BC story. No one can expect anything different from a shishya in that age. In the 1990 Chanakya too, Chandragupta was shown as a completely obedient shishya, for that is the historical truth. I do not see why the script should stand this paddhati on its head to please those with 21st century ideas.


Shyamala Aunty


Dear aunty

I understand what you say

For chankya chandra is his slave cum shishya whom be brought from parents as a boy

But even slaves have some rights

There were slaves and maids in akbars palace also brought and sold (till he abolished) or other kings like CGM, ashoka etc

Are you saying that akbar, CGM etc will go around searching brides or grooms for their slaves and maids or ordering them marry this this etc

Somewhere he also should have personal choice no

From what you say that logic chandra may be emperor of india but he is slave of chankya

OK father figure but with father you can say no or argue or refuse etc

But if chankya is saying you follow me blindly it means chandra is slave a bonded labourer of chankya na


Edited by myviewprem - 8 years ago
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No, Prem, in those days, a son did NOT argue with his father. Why in the 4th century BC, my father and my chacha never dared to argue with my grandfather about anything, and that was till 1965.

Yes, there were rebel sons, but those were usually cast out of the family. In 20th century China, and in Japan too, the system was identical. There was NO question of a son going against his father.

Moreover, you are going overboard here with this slave business, which is nonsense. And you are attributing statements to me which I never made, which is worse.

Chanakya loves Chandra like his son,and expects total filial obedience from him in the then prevailing pattern. He NEVER ever refers to his having bought him from his foster father, and he NEVER ever uses the term daas about Chandra. It is Chandra who refers to the purchase in the hilltop scene Let us stick to the facts.

I am afraid you are not only going astray yourself,but you will also mislead others who might follow you in pasting 21st century concepts on a 4th century BC template of a father-son relationship. If you are a serious analyst, you cannot carry on like this. I remember your equally untenable stand on the relationship between Chandra and his foster father, which I had to take apart at considerable length.

I take your posts seriously, but I cannot do that when you take such far out stands. I cannot tell you what you or should not write, but my advice, for whatever it is worth, would be to avoid such extreme positions based on premises that are NOT valid for the era we are discussing.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Dear aunty

I understand what you say

For chankya chandra is his slave cum shishya whom be brought from parents as a boy

No, I never said any such thing, Prem. Please read what I have written, and stick to that. What I said was that right from the beginning, Chanakya had made it clear to Chandra that he expected total obedience from him, He NEVER even mentioned the purchase angle, not to speak of referring to him as a slave. It is Chandra who does that in the scene on the hilltop.

But even slaves have some rights

There were slaves and maids in akbars palace also brought and sold (till he abolished) or other kings like CGM, ashoka etc

Are you saying that akbar, CGM etc will go around searching brides or grooms for their slaves and maids or ordering them marry this this etc

Somewhere he also should have personal choice no

From what you say that logic chandra may be emperor of india but he is slave of chankya

OK father figure but with father you can say no or argue or refuse etc No, you could not, Not in those days.

But if chankya is saying you follow me blindly it means chandra is slave a bonded labourer of chankya na


Originally posted by: sashashyam

Dear Prem,

I have gone into this question in depth in my latest post, Extended finale,but for ease of reference, and to save my poor fingers more typing, here is that extract for anyone who might be interested.

One more point: Chandragupta is not yet an emperor. But for Chanakya, he would still have been herding sheep and getting thrashed daily by a drunken foster father. Let us not forget that.

Extract from my Chandra Nandini 31-33: Extended finale

Slavish obedience? : Chandra has been criticized for accepting his guru's fiat in the matter of the uttaradhikari and Durdhara without much protest, and branded a puppet of his mentor's. To these criticisms , I would say just this.

Chanakya is Chandra's Acharya. He is the man who has made him what he is, and but for him, what would Chandra have been? A skinny, undernourished brat, beaten black and blue daily by his drunkard of a foster father, while his foster mother bleated in the background about her abiding prem for her husband. For that inestimable favour that Chanakya did him, Chandra owes him at least total obedience.

In any case, Chanakya has bought him from his foster father, and he makes it clear right at the beginning that he expects implicit obedience from Chandra in all things. It is another matter that over the years, he comes to love Chandra like a son,but that alters nothing in the context of the obedience he demands of his shishya.

If Chanakya had been Chandra's father, and Chandra had obeyed him in the same way, would the criticism be the same? I don't think so. But Chanakya is the only father figure Chandra has ever known, and even in Chakravartin Ashoka Samrat, Bindusara tells his eldest son Sushim that his father, the great Chandragupta Maurya, would not take a single step without his guru's explicit approval. Was that found strange? No. Is it seen as strange that Lord Rama obeyed his father, who was clearly in the wrong, so implicitly? No.

The fact is that such critics are importing contemporary sensibilities into a 4th century BC story. No one can expect anything different from a shishya in that age. In the 1990 Chanakya too, Chandragupta was shown as a completely obedient shishya, for that is the historical truth. I do not see why the script should stand this paddhati on its head to please those with 21st century ideas.


Shyamala Aunty



Edited by sashashyam - 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

No, Prem, in those days, a son did NOT argue with his father. Why in the 4th century BC, my father and my chacha never dared to argue with my grandfather about anything, and that was till 1965.

Yes, there were rebel sons, but those were usually cast out of the family. In 20th century China, and in Japan too, the system was identical. There was NO question of a son going against his father.

Moreover, you are going overboard here with this slave business, which is nonsense. And you are attributing statements to me which I never made, which is worse.

Chanakya loves Chandra like his son,and expects total filial obedience from him in the then prevailing pattern. He NEVER ever refers to his having bought him from his foster father, and he NEVER ever uses the term daas about Chandra. It is Chandra who refers to the purchase in the hilltop scene Let us stick to the facts.

I am afraid you are not only going astray yourself,but you will also mislead others who might follow you in pasting 21st century concepts on a 4th century BC template of a father-son relationship. If you are a serious analyst, you cannot carry on like this. I remember your equally untenable stand on the relationship between Chandra and his foster father, which I had to take apart at considerable length.

I take your posts seriously, but I cannot do that when you take such far stands. I cannot tell you what you or should not write, but my advice, for whatever it is worth, would be to avoid such extreme positions based on premises that are NOT valid for the era we are discussing.

Shyamala Aunty





aunty i did not know a son has to blindly follow fathers orders in 4 BC especially an emperor

because even in those times i have heard sons killing fathers for throne like an ajatshatru

so i assumed it depends from son to son, if a son is good he obeys father whether 4 BC or 2016 and if son does not want to obey he shall not no matter the century

But actually aunty, today chandra actually rejected marrying nandini to chankya because nandini hates him. So i guess my question solved by chandra only in serial.

So i am happy that chandra took a stand for himself as its his personal life although later nandini herself said i shall marry and he had to agree

I am talking not from a son but an emperor point of view aunty

Son i understand blindly following a father but an emperor cannot blindly follow anyone not even a father because sometimes father also may be wrong and an emperor should do what is right not what a father or guru demands that will be sign of good emperor

So i meant chandra sa emperor not chandra as chankyas son



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I agree with Shyamala Aunty, in those days during complete samarpan from shishsya is something that is expected. Chanakya and CGM are often quoted as perfect examples of Shishsya Guru relationships.

It's there in our Puranas and culture. Gurus are given utmost respect and reverence.

These days we don't even listen to our elders is a different thing entirely 😆
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Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose


I agree with Shyamala Aunty, in those days during complete samarpan from shishsya is something that is expected. Chanakya and CGM are often quoted as perfect examples of Shishsya Guru relationships.

It's there in our Puranas and culture. Gurus are given utmost respect and reverence.

These days we don't even listen to our elders is a different thing entirely 😆


I guess you are right but i think an emperor should think himself not depend on anyone

Maleyketu and nandini are exceptions here 😊

Maley went against chankya only in war

and nandini not listening to pita maharaj and coming to war 😆

but think of this if son cannot speak what is in his mind to a father or shishya to guru what if diff bet them and a slave if you just follow orders of elders without thinking if its right or wrong
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My dear Prem,

Ajatashatru was a monster, who was reformed by the Lord Buddha. Let us not even talk about him in the father-son context. I had read one version that his father Bimbisara, whose devotion to the Lord Buddha he opposed fiercely, committed suicide in prison so as to save his son from the pitruhatya paap.

Now about Chandragupta. He says very clearly, in his address to the praja, that his guru's mastishk is his guide in all things. So far so good.

He does not want to marry Nandini, for he hates her. So he wants to get out of it, and since he cannot flout his guru's orders directly, he finds a way out by citing the need to avoid committing anyay against women, It is a neat trick that trips up even Chanakya.

Unfortunately for him, Nandini torpedoes his argument by publicly agreeing to the marriage. Now Chandra has to obey his guru, regardless of the fact that it is a matter concerning his personal life, and regardless of the fact that he does not want to marry Nandini for his own personal reasons.

So it is not that he had stood up for himself in a personal matter. He has finally had to toe the guru's line willy nilly.

It is another matter that for a ruler, there is no such thing as a purely personal preference. Which is what Chanakya states. Everything is linked to affairs of state. Whence the (apocryphal) Salim-Anarkali story, and so many others of this kind.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: myviewprem

aunty i did not know a son has to blindly follow fathers orders in 4 BC especially an emperor

because even in those times i have heard sons killing fathers for throne like an ajatshatru

so i assumed it depends from son to son, if a son is good he obeys father whether 4 BC or 2016 and if son does not want to obey he shall not no matter the century

But actually aunty, today chandra actually rejected marrying nandini to chankya because nandini hates him. So i guess my question solved by chandra only in serial.

So i am happy that chandra took a stand for himself as its his personal life although later nandini herself said i shall marry and he had to agree

I am talking not from a son but an emperor point of view aunty

Son i understand blindly following a father but an emperor cannot blindly follow anyone not even a father because sometimes father also may be wrong and an emperor should do what is right not what a father or guru demands that will be sign of good emperor

So i meant chandra sa emperor not chandra as chankyas son


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I dont see itthat way prem yes hes obedientbut he didprotest when he was told to attack thegreek army in the night he alsorefused to marry helena and speding night with durdhara i saw nothing wrong in it and alsowhenhe said about why durdhara that explaination was valid too in those praja wouldnt haveaccepted heir through helena nothing but fatherly advice

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